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#Post#: 1517--------------------------------------------------
Re: Ching
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: September 21, 2014, 3:44 am
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Let's give this another try then.
First of all, Byron Katie says there are three kinds of
business. What are they? This is not a test, but an effort for
us to speak shared language. If you don't have the answer, I'll
give it to you, but try.
Love ya, Jed.
#Post#: 1628--------------------------------------------------
Re: Ching
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: September 23, 2014, 10:13 pm
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Can you focus on the only thing you have any chance or
controlling, improving, knowing and growing.... you?
This is important. If you can't focus on you then no progress
towards adult hood will occur. You are not responsible for what
other people do. It is a distraction and avoidance mechanism
that keeps you from confronting the pain in your own life.
Can you understand what I am saying?
If not, let me know.
Love ya, Jed.
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Re: Ching
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: September 25, 2014, 10:41 am
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Dear Ching:
You are never depressed, only the stories in your head are and
they certainly aren't you. I recommend dying to the illusion of
a 'you' prior to your mother's death, but it's up to you.
Love ya, Jed.
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Re: Ching
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: September 26, 2014, 12:41 am
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Dear Ching:
You have some knowledge of the available methods. I would
suggest you go for the one that scares you the most. Let know
what you think you should pursue. H/A means thinking for
yourself.
love ya, Jed.
#Post#: 1739--------------------------------------------------
Re: Ching
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: September 26, 2014, 2:45 am
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Sounds just fine Ching. Feeling like a fake is the best
indicator available that you are making progress. Everyone is a
fake, and some folks on the path get to realize it. However, it
is rare that anyone not working on this type of thing sees it.
It's a blessing. Enjoy it.
Love ya, Jed.
#Post#: 1817--------------------------------------------------
Re: Ching
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: September 28, 2014, 12:14 am
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Hi Ching:
For a person who was supposed to be insane at one time (I'm not
sure I believe that one), you are exhibiting a great deal of
clarity and understanding. In fact, I would say it even has an
adult flavor.
What you have observed is not much different that what most
other people are experiencing. The trick lies in 'you'. When the
'you' makes something 'yours' as in a love relationship, then
there will always be a start and and ending. The beginning is
great, middle o.k. and ending, ouch! You buy a new car and it's
'yours'. That first scratch feels like a gouge in your chest
that needs stitches. You don't care about your friend's car, but
'your' car is close to you. Your girlfriend smiles at another
guy and a part of you goes 'ouch'. She's yours, not his. As long
as there is a 'you' this will occur. You can't beat it, but if
there is no you, then who would be claiming ownership. Love,
relate, scratch car, shit happens and who cares? Being without
cares doesn't mean being 'careless', it's actually the opposite.
When you don't care you are free to care for other's well being
without attachment.
Have you seen the Youtubes of Benjamin Smythe? He is very good
on this subject and presents in a slightly insane but very
entertaining way. Delightful insights. Have a look.
Indeed, there is nothing wrong with not having relationships if
that suits you. Keep in mind that many conventional aspects of
society are, IMO, quite insane and quick to point the finger at
you and label you with their affliction.
Good work and understandings Ching. Love ya, Jed.
Love ya, Jed.
#Post#: 1901--------------------------------------------------
Re: Ching
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: September 29, 2014, 6:57 am
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Right now you are sounding clearer and more stable to me. Keep
up the good work.
Love ya, Jed.
P.S. With forgiveness, just pretend it's working and you'd be
surprised at how effective it can be. It's not the solution for
everything but it helps.
#Post#: 2158--------------------------------------------------
Re: Ching
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: October 3, 2014, 6:39 am
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I wish you the very best on your journey Ching.
Love ya, Jed.
#Post#: 2218--------------------------------------------------
Re: Ching
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: October 4, 2014, 6:15 am
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How do you know what's exhausting for me? I don't understand.
Please find the 'Hong' reference. I can't recall it.
Love ya, Jed.
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Re: Ching
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: October 5, 2014, 2:43 am
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Don't worry about Hong.
I want you to think of a person you know and spend anywhere from
five minute to a half hour writing out everything that they
could be thinking. If you run out of ideas, which you will
probably do quite quickly, start making things up, the more you
make up the better. Remember, not what you are thinking, but
what you are thinking that they are thinking. It can get as
crazy as you want. You are not writing to impress anyone, you
are just getting it down on paper.
I want you to post the list on your thread. All of it. And I
don't want you to try to figure out what I am doing or why I am
requesting it. That's not your concern. Just do it.
Don't wast your time thinking I am angry with you, I am not
capable of that.
I look forward to hearing from you and please keep in mind that
I am not your 'friend' in the conventional sense, I am your
teacher. Hence, you may feel love or hate for me, I don't care
because that is not my job. I want to move you further and petty
things have no room here, and that applies to petty people. It
takes a big person, to both teach and be a student.
Love ya, Jed.
P.S. No diversion, do exactly as instructed. If instructions are
not clear that is my fault, please let me know.
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