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June '18 Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: June 6, 2018, 11:22 am
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Well, the 'Summer Shakedown' has definitely started.
Kaden and Zeke both got paddled for chore strikes last night.
Both of their excuses were basically 'we got busy and forgot',
which is why I strongly encourage the boys to do their chores
first thing in the morning during the summer.
Both boys received the bath brush on bare. Kaden had a WO, so
he got 10 solid smacks, given while we discussed being
responsible for himself. I did let him take down his boxers,
and he put a pillow on the side of his bed and laid across that
for his swats.
Zeke has been complaining that I'm too lenient with him. You
have to remember how he was raised when he says something like
that. The thing is, I'm not worried about how he's progressing
or how fast. Sometimes he does, which results in something like
this. Because of that, I put him over my lap, after taking his
shorts down for him, and gave him a dozen smacks, while we
talked about him needing to be responsible, and what he should
be learning from doing chores. Then I gave him another dozen
that were rapid and firm, and enough to have him squirming and
yelping. When he got up, he gave a good rub, but he still gave
me a hug, put on his shorts, and went do finish his chores.
I did talk to Zeke when I tucked him in last night, and he seems
to think the paddling wasn't too harsh or too easy (I guess it
was 'baby bear'), and he's actually pretty happy with how he's
doing right now.
And finally, I had to deal with a curfew violation last night.
Ryan (PJ's little brother, not my redhead) and Devon took off
yesterday, apparently late afternoon. I have talked with all
the boys about checking out or using the board, and how
important it is to be on time and in bounds. They were right at
30 minutes late, so I might have considered letting them off
with just a short restriction or even giving them a choice,
except they hadn't talked to anyone or checked out on the board,
so I felt a trip over my lap was required.
Devon wasn't happy, but I'm pretty sure he'd already figured out
what was coming. On the other hand, Ryan was real unhappy when
he learned they'd be getting the Red Maple. He wanted me to use
a jumbo spoon like PJ does. I finally got him settled enough
that he and Devon went side by side over the bed, and I gave
them a regular session with the Maple. Devon was kicking and
squirming and crying hard, but Ryan was pretty much bawling.
I did make a point of talking to him later. Devon didn't really
care about the position. Ryan was recovered enough to thank me
for changing positions, even though I 'would have been nicer if
I'd used the big spoon.'
#Post#: 6281--------------------------------------------------
Re: June '18 Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: June 8, 2018, 4:35 pm
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Ralph was pretty hyper yesterday, and I had to call him down
several times. The third time it happened, not long before his
mom picked him up, I took him aside and talked to him a bit.
I started off by stressing that he wasn't in trouble, but that
he had been pushing it all day, and I reminded him it's very
important that he learn to start watching for his signs and take
a break when he needs one.
He apologized and promised to try harder, and we reviewed his
signs. Then I pointed out that I'd hate to have to spank him
because he wasn't controlling himself, but that I would - as an
example for the other boys, as well as a reminder to him that
it's his responsibility to handle self-care.
He agreed that he'd hate that too.
Then I asked how long he's been out of trouble.
He blushed deeply and admitted he got a whuppin' on Monday.
It turns out that, on Saturday, he'd had some chore troubles.
His dad agreed to call it forgetfulness, rather than lying, but
he also reminded Ralph how important it is to always check his
lists to make sure he's not forgetting stuff (part of how they
deal with his ADHD). He ended up losing his gaming privileges
for three days. That really was letting him off pretty easy,
since he was already going to be spending most of Monday and
Tuesday over here.
Well, Monday, he rode home with a friend after Scouts. When he
arrived, there was a note from mom that she was going to the
grocery store and running a couple of errands, with an estimate
of when she'd be home. Since his game was put away, he let
himself into his parents bedroom (where he's not supposed to
be), and played their game. And ended up turning up the volume
a bit, so he missed when Dad got home.
I started to quote this next part, but between the way he speaks
and not being able to type the hand motions he was making, I
think it would be quicker and more clear if I didn't.
He sleeps on a twin bed. The headboard is against the wall
under a window, but the rest pokes out into the room. When he's
about to get a whupping, he has to move a couple of pillows to
the foot of the bed, turned sidewise to how they normally are,
and in the side-to-side center of the bed. He always get
spanked bare these days (which he's told me before). He did go
on to say that, if he's wearing jeans or 'even (his) school
pants' he just shoves them down, but his basketball shorts don't
stay on when he does that, so he just takes them and his briefs
off. When Dad shows up, he has to go over the bed, with his
head and shoulders hanging off one side, his waist and hips
supported (and raised) by the pillows, and his lower legs
hanging off the other side. Dad stands at the foot of the bed
to do the actual whipping.
Ralph doesn't know how many he gets. He's tried to count
before, but says he can never keep count past three or four.
When it's over, his dad leaves him alone, and he's allowed to
get up, clean up, and dress whenever he's ready.
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Re: June '18 Spanking Report
By: Zyngaru Date: June 8, 2018, 6:33 pm
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[quote author=Jack link=topic=616.msg6281#msg6281
date=1528493729]
Dad stands at the foot of the bed to do the actual whipping.
Ralph doesn't know how many he gets. He's tried to count
before, but says he can never keep count past three or four.
When it's over, his dad leaves him alone, and he's allowed to
get up, clean up, and dress whenever he's ready.
[/quote]
I wish dad would hug/cuddle with Ralph just a little after the
whipping.
It is a very lonely and dejected feeling laying across your bed
after a whipping all alone with no comfort or love at all. I
realize some parents think a boy needs time to think about his
punishment. Or they think he needs privacy to put himself back
together. Both are somewhat true. I just believe that he also
needs some affection in there someplace to show him he is still
loved. (I guess I think this way, because I never had it. My
dad did what Ralph's dad does. He just walked away, leaving me
in my misery.)
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Re: June '18 Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: June 9, 2018, 3:35 am
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Zyngaru, I have to disagree with you. Not because you are
wrong, but because every boy is different.
While many of my boys have been very needy and loved to be
cuddled after a spanking, and more of them tolerated it, Noah
did NOT want to be touched after a spanking. He was hurt and
angry, and he wanted a little time by himself before he was
ready to be cuddled.
While Ralph and I didn't discuss it, he seemed perfectly happy
to have some time to 'get himself together'. What I left out is
that, after he's dressed and cleaned up, he does go talk to his
dad/parents.
Remember, I wasn't there to see this, but Ralph seemed to me
that he knew he'd screwed up, and he was okay with what had
happened - a bit rueful, but not upset about it.
Oh, I should also say that, while I don't like the belt, I'm
sure I saw Ralph changing Tuesday morning (he's a cute kid and
worth watching, and since he's not shy at all, it's not hard to
get a good look), and his pretty little rear didn't have so much
as a faint welt that I could see from a few feet away. I know
it was Tuesday morning (the morning after this whipping),
because I wasn't home on Monday or Wednesday mornings to see the
boys change this week.
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Re: June '18 Spanking Report
By: Zyngaru Date: June 9, 2018, 8:07 am
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[quote author=Jack link=topic=616.msg6301#msg6301
date=1528533344]
Zyngaru, I have to disagree with you. Not because you are
wrong, but because every boy is different.
While many of my boys have been very needy and loved to be
cuddled after a spanking, and more of them tolerated it, Noah
did NOT want to be touched after a spanking. He was hurt and
angry, and he wanted a little time by himself before he was
ready to be cuddled.
[/quote]
I can understand that. I was probably projecting my own needs
into it.
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Re: June '18 Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: June 9, 2018, 3:53 pm
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[quote author=Zyngaru link=topic=616.msg6307#msg6307
date=1528549657]
[quote author=Jack link=topic=616.msg6301#msg6301
date=1528533344]
Zyngaru, I have to disagree with you. Not because you are
wrong, but because every boy is different.
While many of my boys have been very needy and loved to be
cuddled after a spanking, and more of them tolerated it, Noah
did NOT want to be touched after a spanking. He was hurt and
angry, and he wanted a little time by himself before he was
ready to be cuddled.
[/quote]
I can understand that. I was probably projecting my own needs
into it.
[/quote]
It's easy enough to do. Since Noah was rather... forceful in
informing me of his preference (I seem to recall a couple of
punches to the face while he struggled to keep me away), which
helped me get the idea quickly. Offering a hug to someone is
always a good idea, but you have to respect their personality.
#Post#: 6409--------------------------------------------------
Re: June '18 Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: June 14, 2018, 4:06 am
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After paddle swats to start the month, Kaden got an actual
spanking yesterday evening.
Two things to know/remember. First, my boys are leaving for
camp Sunday afternoon - less than three days from when he was
spanked. During that time, we need to finalize their packing, I
need to make a trip to the store, and we have a number of things
going on. Second, Kade is one of about 8 boys from BCA who are
going to Six Flags today.
All my boys who hadn't already done it, including Kade, were
given a deadline yesterday of checking their packing lists.
After dinner last night, Kade asked if Kix could sleep over. I
asked him where his list was. His response was 'I'll get it
done." I told him that Kix couldn't sleep over. Apparently
they'd already told his parents that he was going to. I told
them 'too bad' and had Kix call his parents and ask for a ride
home. It didnt't sound like his dad was happy with him. And
Kaden decided that was the right time to have a little blow up
at me, which ended up with him being informed he wouldn't be
going to Six Flags after all.
I planned on going back and talking to him after he'd had a
chance to process everything. While a trip to Six Flags isn't a
huge, important event, I didn't want to make him miss pretty
much his last chance to hang out with his friends before camp.
On the other hand, I want him to realize there are consequences,
and you can't just go around getting mad at people when they
won't yield to your desires. Before I could go back to him, he
came to me, apologized, showed me he'd done the checklist, and
asked me to please just whup him and let him go.
We talked about it a while, but I granted his request. We asked
Leif to excuse us, and I let Kaden remove his own shorts, then
fetch the bath brush. I took off his boxers, then put him over
my lap. I didn't bother with a pattern, though I did make sure
his entire spanking area was a deep, solid red, and he was
crying loud and hard before I finished with him. After that, we
cuddled for a bit. Neither one of us is sure why he blew up, or
even why he hadn't just done his list when he was asked, but he
seemed to feel a lot better after he'd cried himself out and
cleaned up.
#Post#: 6496--------------------------------------------------
Re: June '18 Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: June 19, 2018, 4:32 am
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There have been several things going on recently.
I reported about a little trouble with Kline and Glenn over here
HTML https://jackshouse.createaforum.com/biographies/kincaidwells-marcus-and-marcia-and-family/msg6495/#msg6495.
I also had a run in with Pete Campion Saturday morning, that
ended with him being very sore and embarrassed. however,
there's a lot of backstory to that one, so I'll wait to share
all the details.
While the trip to camp went really well, and no one got in
trouble, while I was gone, Connor and Curtis found out that,
yes, Marcia does have permission to spank them, and yes, she can
do a very good job of it.
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Re: June '18 Spanking Report
By: kalico Date: June 19, 2018, 8:05 am
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Aww Conor and Curtis
Hugs kal
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Re: June '18 Spanking Report
By: Zyngaru Date: June 19, 2018, 11:16 am
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[quote author=Jack link=topic=616.msg6496#msg6496
date=1529400727]
While the trip to camp went really well, and no one got in
trouble, while I was gone, Connor and Curtis found out that,
yes, Marcia does have permission to spank them, and yes, she can
do a very good job of it.
[/quote]
So when the Cat's away, the mice should have known better than
to play.
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