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March Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: March 15, 2018, 5:44 am
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Wow! Half way through March and no reports. Of course, school
incidents are going elsewhere now, which does help. And my boys
have been doing pretty good recently.
Emmet got in trouble Saturday. Neither Emmet nor Marcus have
been very forthcoming on the details, except that it was a
pretty standard session with the Red Maple (bare and over Marcus
knees).
Emmet was very needy Saturday, and he spent more time with me
than he did with his friends. It was one of those things where
I would have grown irritated with him being underfoot all the
time, except that he was obviously wanting a lot of affection
and physical contact.
As far as I can tell from what the two of them have been willing
to say, Emmet deserved some punishment, but Em thinks Marcus was
too harsh? Or possibly it was done so that Em's nephews knew
exactly what happened? Whatever the case, Em was pretty upset,
but not exactly about the spanking. Marcus and I did have a
general talk yesterday, and I think he feels like it was
deserved, and he wasn't too harsh, but that he could have either
handled it better, or maybe explained why better?
Whatever the problem - kids can normally recover quick, as long
as they have a good relationship with their parents and they
don't have to give their parents the benefit of the doubt too
often. My Sunday, Emmet had rebounded, and he's been enjoying
his Spring Break since.
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Re: March Spanking Report
By: David M. Katz Date: March 16, 2018, 11:42 am
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Kudos to your guys.
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Re: March Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: March 23, 2018, 4:36 am
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The problem with doing spanking reports is that it's hard to get
updates, especially details. While someone might not mind
talking about an uncomfortable subject (especially when it's
their brother who's uncomfortable), it's hard to find different
ways to bring it up after a while. While some people kind of
figure out that I'm interested in how they and their brothers
are behaving, very few of them volunteer information. That
means I don't hear things all the time, and when I do there are
often not many details.
Having said that -
Ian Reasoner got the belt recently.
As s reminder, Ian is 13, and he and Kenny are close friends
(and he gets along well with Colt and Jake, though there were
some jealousy issues when each of those boys came into our lives
on a regular basis). We've known Ian since the Colter group
moved in with us (he and Kenny were in the same home room in
first grade, and have been often since then).
We met Ian's big brother, Mike (11 then, not 17), at the same
time, since he was in the same home room as Ethan. Mike, Ethan,
and Bruce Joyner have formed a sometimes unstable and shaky
triangle of best friends for the last six plus years now, though
I don't think Mike and Bruce were often the 'best' parts of it.
During that time, Ian earned himself a lot of spankings at home,
and more than a couple from me. Ian and Mike got spanked
together a time or two here, and Ian has made a number of trips
over my lap - solo and with Kenny either watching and waiting or
even right beside him when they were younger.
I know that Mike is basically a quiet, well behaved boy, but he
and Ian tend to bring out the worst in each other. I also know
that, while he never got in much trouble, he did earn a dose of
the belt a time or two. He's the one who informed me of Ian's
dose of the belt , and he seemed a bit torn between 'about time'
and feeling sorry for his little brother. While no one will
tell him the exact details, he checked on Ian after it was over,
and it had been bare, and Ian was pretty darned red. Mike had
apparently never thought to check his own rear after a whipping
(and he says his were mostly on jeans or occasionally on
boxers), he says Ian's butt made his own hurt again in sympathy.
I did ask to make sure, and it didn't seem there were any real
marks - just deep redness and a bit of 'puffiness', but Ian was
still bawling. At that point, Mike was told to leave his
brother alone 'unless he wanted a taste himself', so he took the
better part of valor.
Whatever it was, it was not just bad enough to get Ian the belt
bare (and it might have been his first taste as far as Mike
could remember), but Ian, who's usually not embarrassed about
anything, didn't want to talk about it.
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Re: March Spanking Report
By: Journey Date: March 23, 2018, 5:05 am
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[quote author=Jack link=topic=457.msg4593#msg4593
date=1521797805]
He's the one who informed me of Ian's dose of the belt , and he
seemed a bit torn between 'about time' and feeling sorry for his
little brother. While no one will tell him the exact details,
he checked on Ian after it was over, and it had been bare, and
Ian was pretty darned red...but Ian was still bawling. At that
point, Mike was told to leave his brother alone 'unless he
wanted a taste himself', so he took the better part of valor.
[/quote]
Was the "checking on" done in sympathy or curiosity? And does
his being told off mean that Ian didn't appreciate being checked
on?
Sometimes, I wonder about brothers' post-spanking protocol.
Different things seem to go for different sets of brothers. My
older cousins usually took the "one sympathetic comment +
pretend nothing happened for the sake of his dignity" approach
after such instances with their brothers
I remember how you wrote on the original forum about a younger
brother who got spanked. The older brother waited enough time
for the parents not to tell him off before going up to see his
brother. The older one was very sympathetic and even rubbed his
sore backside for him.
Do you remember who those brothers were, Jack? I remember
thinking that was very sweet.
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Re: March Spanking Report
By: Adric Date: March 23, 2018, 9:53 am
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[quote author=Jack link=topic=457.msg4593#msg4593
date=1521797805]
Mike had apparently never thought to check his own rear after a
whipping ...[/quote]
That seems unusual ... it's the first thing I would think of to
do.
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Re: March Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: March 23, 2018, 4:25 pm
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Journey - I don't remember the instance you're talking of. I do
know that there are several cases where older brothers are very
solicitous of their younger brothers - Ash and Jared Loomis,
Palmer and Drake Russo, and Perry and either Evan or Charlie
Tidwell could be.
As for Mike, he'll be 18 about 3 months before Ian's 14.
They're at the stage now where they've mostly made peace, and
Mike rights off Ian being an occasional pest. He's complained
in the past that his parents were much easier with Ian than with
himself (and I agree, Ian gets away with things Mike never would
have, but a lot of that is because Ian is ADHD and Mike never
would have done those things - he and I have talked about it a
lot, because I had the same problem with my evil half-sister).
When he says he wanted to check on Ian, I think he did want to
know what had happened, but I also think he felt concerned for
him.
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Re: March Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: March 29, 2018, 5:15 am
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As many of you regular readers know, I've been dealing with a
bit of depression for a while now. For those who aren't
familiar, that's not 'life is horrible, I'm so sad', it's just a
general dullness and lack of motivation. I'm still able to
enjoy things, but getting up to do them takes a lot more effort
than it should. Recently, I seem to be coming out of that
period.
Because I've been having more energy recently, I've been trying
to take care of a number of things I should have been handling
and have either been putting off or giving a lick and a promise.
One of those came home to bite us last night.
I found Kenny and Colt playing a video game and let them know
that I was going to do a homework check. I couldn't find Devon,
but his backpack was right where it was supposed to be, so I
took all three notebooks to my office. Kenny and Colt's
notebooks were fine, and I made sure to comment on how much I
appreciated that Colt had stopped having that chimp transcribe
for him and was actually making an effort to keep his notebook
neat and legible.
Then I tracked down Devon. It turns out that he was upstairs,
borrowing some screen time on the teen's screen and game system.
I had him shut if off, and the two of us went down to my
office, so I could ask him about a couple of mistakes and
discrepancies I'd found.
I'll spare you all the details of me having to verbally corner
him to get a straight answer, and say the climax of the
discussion was probably when I said, "So, you've been doing some
of your homework at school the next morning, to get more screen
time in the evenings, not keeping your homework folder updated
properly, lying to me about your homework, lying to your big
brothers so you could use their game systems, and not turning in
all your work?"
"Yes, sir," he replied miserably - obviously upset that I'd
ignored all the explanations he'd try to make about why it
wasn't really that bad.
We discussed things a bit more, before I summed it up.
"No video games until after you've caught up on all your
homework. I'm thinking about making it two for one on how long
you're restricted, but I'll decide that for sure later. You'll
turn your phone in at dinner every night, and get it back before
school. You'll do your regular activities every day, but you're
not allowed to go to friends' houses or anything. You'll still
play baseball on Saturday, and you can hang with your friends
when they're over here, but you'll spend at least two hours in
seclusion on Saturday and Sunday until all your homework is
caught up. Understand so far?"
"Yes, sir," he replied, still sounding miserable.
"I'll send e-mails to your teachers this evening, double
checking that we found all the assignments you haven't turned
in..."
We'd found nine on the online grade books we could access, and
he admitted there was one more he knew of. He has six academic
classes, and he had one each in science and math, and two or
three each mostly in the other classes. There were also a
couple of assignments turned in incomplete. I'm not sure he'd
be allowed to finish those for a grade, but I was intending that
he finish them at home even so.
"I'm also going to ask them to sign off on your homework folder,
to make sure you're not doing any more creative editing. You'll
be on daily folder checks the rest of the year. It'll be zero
tolerance until you get everything caught up. That means you
keep your folder the way it's supposed to be, or you get the
paddle. After you're caught up, we'll go to three strikes.
Understand?"
"Yes, sir," he responded, his voice sounding wavery and his eyes
were starting to shimmer.
"Do you understand everything? Any questions at all?"
"No, sir."
"All right then," I instructed him, turning to the paddle
drawer, "come here and get your shirt up."
"No! Dad, please. I'm not getting whupped too?"
"Yes, you are, Devon. The restriction from video games is
because you've been sneaking extra time for pretty much a couple
of months now. The homework folder is because you've been
misdoing it to cover your extra time. The spanking is because
you've been lying and breaking the rules. Now come here," I
said, with a little extra snap in the last couple of words.
He was already on the edge or tears when he came to me, lifting
his t-shirt up to his underarms. Then a sob escaped him when I
turned back towards him and he saw the brush in my hand.
"No, Dad, please!" he repeated, because it worked so well the
first time. "That hurts too much. Please no!"
"I'm sorry, Devon, but you've screwed up bad. This isn't just
breaking the rules. You've been doing this systematically,
letting your grades suffer, and lying to manipulate several
people. You know that's unacceptable."
I had him kneel down next to me, I put my arm around his
shoulders, and we talked a bit, but I wasn't going to change my
mind. We talked about what he did and why, and I apologized for
not catching it sooner, before it got more serious, but he
finally admitted he'd earned a pretty serious session. He stood
up, lifted his shirt again, and came out of his pants and
boxers, then went over my lap.
Yes, it was a deluxe, and yes, he was howling before I finished.
As a matter of fact, he was crying so hard and shrieking enough
that I stopped before I finished the full second pattern. His
round little rear was deeply red though, and I have no doubt
that the burn stayed with him a while.
When I finished, we cuddled for a while, and I made sure he knew
that, even though the results would stay with him for a while
(in regards to game access and folder checks), he was forgiven,
and now we could concentrate on repairing the problem.
Connor and Curtis were already asleep, so Dev just carried his
pants and boxers with him. Fortunately, last night wasn't one
of the nights when Jake and Ryan were staying here, so he was
able to go to his room and mope for a while, though I did see
Kenny and Colt going in to check on him after a few minutes.
By the time I was ready for reading time (we're reading Call of
the Wild together right now), Dev was mostly recovered and had
showered. After we'd read, Dev and I corrected his folder as
much as we could for now, and prepped the next couple of weeks,
then I tucked him in. I noticed he was happy to stand, sat
carefully, and laid down on his stomach. Warning him what I as
about to do, I slid his shorts down a bit. He was still showing
some color, but already mostly recovered, so I think he'll be
all right.
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Re: March Spanking Report
By: db105 Date: March 29, 2018, 6:25 am
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[quote author=Jack link=topic=457.msg4752#msg4752
date=1522318555]
I had him kneel down next to me, I put my arm around his
shoulders, and we talked a bit, but I wasn't going to change my
mind. We talked about what he did and why, and I apologized for
not catching it sooner, before it got more serious, but he
finally admitted he'd earned a pretty serious session. He stood
up, lifted his shirt again, and came out of his pants and
boxers, then went over my lap.
[/quote]
I like it that you took the time to explain and calm him down a
bit. Panic can make a punishment seem worse than it is, so a bit
of reassurance can help a lot.
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Re: March Spanking Report
By: afinch Date: March 29, 2018, 7:42 am
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Poor Devon, but he bought and paid for that one.
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Re: March Spanking Report
By: kalico Date: March 29, 2018, 5:22 pm
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Aww kiddo......
Happy you took the tome but then you always do make sure all is
clear and I love that....
Hugs kal
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