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#Post#: 3153--------------------------------------------------
Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Leti Date: January 23, 2018, 7:48 am
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Is Kaden sharing a room with someone?
Now that Jake and Ryan are staying with you some days during the
week, are you going to re-arrange the bedroom distribution?
Hugs
Leti
#Post#: 3164--------------------------------------------------
Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Jack Date: January 23, 2018, 2:30 pm
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Kaden has his own room right now, but we're talking about
letting him and Zeke share one. I worry a bit about the age for
various reasons, but Zeke seems to understand how he's legally
required to act, and the two of them seem to get along just
fine. He and Liam is another option we're discussing.
#Post#: 3173--------------------------------------------------
Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Zyngaru Date: January 23, 2018, 7:23 pm
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[quote author=Jack link=topic=233.msg3164#msg3164
date=1516739448]
Kaden has his own room right now, but we're talking about
letting him and Zeke share one. I worry a bit about the age for
various reasons, but Zeke seems to understand how he's legally
required to act, and the two of them seem to get along just
fine. He and Liam is another option we're discussing.
[/quote]
You know Zeke better than anyone probably. Definitely better
than any of us on the forum. My concern about rooming Zeke and
Kaden together is putting that much temptation on Zeke.
Temptation is a difficult demon to control.
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Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Jack Date: January 24, 2018, 4:08 am
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[quote author=Zyngaru link=topic=233.msg3173#msg3173
date=1516757018]
[quote author=Jack link=topic=233.msg3164#msg3164
date=1516739448]
Kaden has his own room right now, but we're talking about
letting him and Zeke share one. I worry a bit about the age for
various reasons, but Zeke seems to understand how he's legally
required to act, and the two of them seem to get along just
fine. He and Liam is another option we're discussing.
[/quote]
You know Zeke better than anyone probably. Definitely better
than any of us on the forum. My concern about rooming Zeke and
Kaden together is putting that much temptation on Zeke.
Temptation is a difficult demon to control.
[/quote]
Zeke is not homosexual. He definitely likes girls, though he
likes them like a young, really shy teen. He's just as horny as
most young, adolescent men (and despite being nearly 21, Zeke is
a late bloomer and still in undergoing puberty, ergo the late
stages). Beyond that, he was raised in an environment where
sexuality wasn't accepted at all. I know that, in the past, he
was beaten for scratching when he had an erection, and for
having a wet dream.
Having said that, I tend to agree with you. I've stressed the
legality of the situation to Zeke, but I think putting him in
harm's way would probably not be the best idea.
#Post#: 3516--------------------------------------------------
Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Jack Date: February 6, 2018, 4:36 am
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Looks like a couple of weeks since I've mentioned Kaden, which
is mostly good on him.
As I've said elsewhere, we decided not to put Zeke in with
Kaden, but to have Kaden share with Leif instead. While Leif
isnt' a BCA student, and they didn't know each other, they do
like a lot of the same things, and a lot of Kaden's school
friends - Scott Malone, Billy Kadlec, Ethan Guthrey, Tyler
Knight - are also friends with Leif, and Kaden has been getting
to know some of Leif's other friends. I actually think we've
agreed on the layout of their room, and we're going to try to
get them moved this weekend - they're excited about it.
Kaden has been skirting the edge on trouble. He had a detention
at school - I think he really should have had a couple of swats,
but his teacher felt it was more an impulse than a choice, so
let it go a bit easier. He's also been skirting things on
chores and his homework folder, along with the light paddling he
got last Monday with a lot of his brothers. He was pretty busy
last night, but he and I are going to sit down this afternoon,
and I'll let him know I'm not happy with the attention he's
giving his homework folder, and we'll look at how he's doing in
some of his classes, and discuss a couple of ideas to focus his
mind. I don't think a spanking will do the job, but we might
need to be a bit stricter on his schedule, which he'll probably
like less than a trip over my lap.
#Post#: 3529--------------------------------------------------
Re: Kaden Connelly
By: David M. Katz Date: February 6, 2018, 4:32 pm
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I am going to suggest that Kaden NEEDS a rather serious
spanking. He probably doesn't even realize it. Sometimes a
therapeutic release is just as much needed as a consequence.
#Post#: 3631--------------------------------------------------
Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Jack Date: February 10, 2018, 9:12 am
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[quote author=David M. Katz link=topic=233.msg3529#msg3529
date=1517956366]
I am going to suggest that Kaden NEEDS a rather serious
spanking. He probably doesn't even realize it. Sometimes a
therapeutic release is just as much needed as a consequence.
[/quote]
I had put a lot of thought into this. I've made the same
suggestion to David about one of his boys. Sometimes it takes
an outsider to see a problem.
I decided against it.
I felt like his mom had never been much of a disciplinarian,
from what I've heard, and I felt like he was trying to struggle
to learn to fit in here. He's been an only kid his entire life.
He might really like it here, and he might understand the
differences, but that doesn't mean he can adjust instantly. I
felt he needed some support and understanding - and it's not
like he hasn't been spanked. He's had two real spankings and a
couple of paddlings since he's lived with us. I could have sat
down, talked to him, and justified spanking his butt, but I felt
it wasn't the best approach.
Having said all that, last night he didn't do his chores, lied
to me about his homework, left the house without letting anyone
know, and backtalked me when I told him to come home.
When he did get home (he, Scott, and Nolan Marchant, had talked
Donny Malone into taking them to Sonic, so I called Donny, then
gave them permission to stay, since I didn't want to punish the
other boys), the two of us went to my bedroom for extra privacy
and quiet. He asked if we could go to his room - I told him we
could, except their were people hanging out in the teens room.
He understood what I was implying (that he'd be heard if he got
whipped, and I think we both already knew he was going to get
whipped), so we stayed with my room. It was interesting,
because he was trying to explain why this was absolutely no big
deal at the same time he was trying to apologize for doing it.
We talked about the things he'd done wrong right then, then we
talked about the problems he'd been having for a while, and we
decided that I was going to wear him out.
We got him undressed down to undershirt and socks, and I put him
in the corner while I got the chair and hairbrush. He went over
my knee - not without hesitation, but there was no struggle or
resistance. There was a bit of begging, but I reminded him that
we'd already talked it out. His eyes were already damp as he
went over my lap.
The hairbrush I normally spank with is much lighter than the
bathbrush, but it's only about three inches across by 2.5 inches
wide or so. Kaden is nearly as tall as I am, but his waist is
pretty narrow (30w is loose on him). It took a lot of smacks to
cover his whole rear, but I did cover it, and he probably spent
a solid three minutes over my lap before I finished. He was
bawling well before I let him up.
He was desperate and clingy for a moment or two after we
finished, but then he was mad at me, so I let him go. He didn't
know what to do, so I helped him lay down on my bed, and I got a
robe to cover him. He didn't want to talk to me, but after I
covered him, he didn't seem to mind me rubbing his back. He
stopped crying after a while, and I left him to get a rag and
some water, and we got him cleaned up. I tried to talk to him,
but he started crying again (and he was hoarse by this point - I
was ready to get him some cough medicine and check his
temperature), but he started complaining about Van. Apparently
he was jealous that van got to stay home, and he was made that
he wasn't in my class, but Scott is. I was trying to explain to
him, but he wasn't listening. When he started complaining about
Liam taking care of Wilby too much, I started wondering if he
was sick, or tired, or didn't feel like he fit in. It finally
hit me, when he had a coughing fit that I thought was going to
make him sick, and when he recovered, he stared complaining
about his mom and dad.
As red as his butt was, I didn't want to put him in a hot bath,
so I lowered the robe a bit and just rubbed his back and
shoulders, and he ended up crying himself to sleep.
I put some cough lozenges out for him, and left him a note, then
brought him some clean pajama pants and a t-shirt. I actually
caught him while he was in my shower (I'd been checking on him
pretty often). He was still feeling pretty miserable - not just
a sore butt, but from crying himself out like that, and he was
emotionally exhausted, and feeling pretty embarrassed. We did
talk for a bit about how bad it is to bottle stuff up, and how
you need to let things go sometimes. I also assured him that I
was pretty tough and could take someone being mad at me,
especially when they apologized after. By this point, I'd taken
him to his room. He spoke to the other guys, but I let them
know I was putting him to bed a bit early, hoping some extra
sleep would keep him from catching a cold. After I tucked him
in, we did talk a little more about his parents. I'm sure his
therapist would say that it's a good thing, since he's
confronting his feelings, but it was pretty rough on both of us.
He is up now, and he's been pretty needy this morning, but he's
doing his chores, and he's going to try to finish his homework
before the workers get here to start room moving, so I guess
we're doing pretty well.
#Post#: 3638--------------------------------------------------
Re: Kaden Connelly
By: David M. Katz Date: February 10, 2018, 4:03 pm
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Yeah, he needed it and made sure he got it.
Is there a pet that can become Kaden's or perhaps there is a
need to bring in a pet for Kaden?
#Post#: 3641--------------------------------------------------
Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Jack Date: February 10, 2018, 5:16 pm
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[quote author=David M. Katz link=topic=233.msg3638#msg3638
date=1518300225]
Yeah, he needed it and made sure he got it.
Is there a pet that can become Kaden's or perhaps there is a
need to bring in a pet for Kaden?
[/quote]
Lady and Prince have really been family pets for most of their
lives, despite the fact that they're formally the twins. As I
said, with John gone, Liam has been taking care of Wilby a lot.
I think he's happy to let Kaden share, but I'm not sure if Kade
was jealous or just feeling insecure about everything. Most of
the other cats and dogs are attached.
Yes, I do need to consider bringing in more. Lady and Prince
are getting pretty old and aren't real spry anymore, and we had
two of our cats pass last year, which I haven't even wanted to
talk about. The problem is I have six new kids who need to be
partnered up...
#Post#: 3643--------------------------------------------------
Re: Kaden Connelly
By: David M. Katz Date: February 10, 2018, 5:26 pm
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[quote author=Jack link=topic=233.msg3641#msg3641
date=1518304601]
Yes, I do need to consider bringing in more.
[/quote]
I suggest a guinea pig for Kaden.
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