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Re: Kaden Connelly
By: kalico Date: December 11, 2017, 10:20 am
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Thanks for sharing the update jack
Your so amazing with all these young ones and I'm happy he fell
into your good hands and all works out
Hugs kal
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Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Jack Date: December 12, 2017, 4:49 am
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a few more updates. The first of these is something about which
Adric asked in chat last night.
1) Kaden's father lived south of Houston, in the area that was
hardest hit by Harvey. They've found he was in temporary
housing for a while, but you can imagine that there are a lot of
people whose forwarding information isn't easily found right off
hand.
2) We were able to get into their apartment yesterday. We did
get all his clothes, so he has a bit more play clothes, and
wider options with his uniforms know. We got a few other things
as well.
3) we have a few days left to make decisions, but I'm
considering getting a storage building to put the rest of their
stuff in.
4) Kaden prefers actual boxers.
5) Sammy suggested we try a light dose of an OTC sleep aid for
now. He's suggested I deal with Kaden the same way I did with
Bobby - getting a routine and helping him relax at bedtime.
It's a bit harder with Kaden, because, while I have already seen
him naked several times, he's obviously not comfortable with it
(I was the same way at his age - possibly because we were both
raised mostly be a woman).
6) I did get a Lego Architect set (London) for him, wrapped it,
and put it under a tree. I guess he never looked at them, but
at one point (I was still in chat, so maybe 5:45?) someone asked
if he'd looked at his yet. Apparently he didn't believe he had
one, and he wasn't emotionally prepared for having a gift under
the tree. He kind of broke down a bit, and he needed a lot of
attention and support yesterday evening.
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Re: Kaden Connelly
By: kalico Date: December 12, 2017, 9:47 am
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Thank for the update jack....
Aww poor kiddo.... happy you guys were able to get some of his
things and I hope things settle down and he can get into that
routine...
Hugs kal
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Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Zyngaru Date: December 12, 2017, 10:13 am
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[quote][6) I did get a Lego Architect set (London) for him,
wrapped it, and put it under a tree. I guess he never looked at
them, but at one point (I was still in chat, so maybe 5:45?)
someone asked if he'd looked at his yet. Apparently he didn't
believe he had one, and he wasn't emotionally prepared for
having a gift under the tree. He kind of broke down a bit, and
he needed a lot of attention and support yesterday
evening.[/quote]
Nice. Every kid needs to be shown they are loved and someone
cares about them.
Christmas and Gifts aren't about believing in Santa or not. It
is about knowing that you are not alone and that someone cares.
Way to go Jack.
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Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Jack Date: December 14, 2017, 5:05 pm
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Kaden has had two sessions with the therapist, and he and I went
to lunch after today's. He says it's pretty much exactly what I
thought - he's upset at his mom, mad at himself for being upset
with her, and also upset with himself for having a good time and
being happy when his mom could be having some type of trouble.
One of the problems with me bringing Kaden home with me is that
the search for his parents isn't especially urgent. It seems
like they did find an e-mail for his father. The father's
family lived in the Rockport area of Texas, which was destroyed
by Hurricane Harvey. We know they went into temporary housing,
but we're not sure where they went from there. Further, the
company for which he worked is still closed. Hopefully he'll
still be checking the same e-mail address though.
Since they were evicted from their apartment, i ended up getting
the judges permission to pack it up and put it in storage.
That'll leave them owing rent, but at least they won't lose
everything.
[hr]
My big question right now is what I should do about Christmas
for Kaden. My first impulse is to treat him exactly like I
would any other kid. It sounds like his parents aren't in great
financial shape right now though, so I'm not sure if I should
spend as much as I would on one of my kids. Of course, that's
assuming that he's still here on Christmas, or that he doesn't
end up staying here for a while.
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Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Zyngaru Date: December 14, 2017, 5:59 pm
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Kids in transition. Always a hard situation.
Let your heart, tempered by your brain, be your guide and you
will find the right path for Kaden.
You seem to have a knack and talent for finding the right path
for a wayward boy.
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Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Leti Date: December 14, 2017, 6:42 pm
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Plan for Kaden to spend Christmas with you, if any of his
relatives can be found before Christmas, you can send him with
the presents. If not, he will feel left out if he is not
considered at the different parties.
I hope all goes well!
Hugs
Leti
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Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Jack Date: December 15, 2017, 4:10 am
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Actually, while Kaden's situation is different of that of my
other boys right now, the simple fact is that he's living here
like the other boys, being held to the same rules as the other
boys, and, as of last night, has had his butt busted like the
other boys. If he's here long enough, he'll be having Christmas
like the other boys. If not, as Leti said, when he leaves, he
can take whatever gifts we've bought for him with him - unless
he's able to come back for Christmas.
And yes, Kaden did get paddled last night. Considering his
situation, I consider him spankable, but this wasn't that big a
deal. He decided he was going to walk home with Scott (Malone)
last night. The only problem is that they left after 6pm, and
he didn't bother to let anyone know or even to check out. Like
I said - not a huge offense, but he's already done corner time
for tardies and for not checking out, so I thought it was time
we moved up a bit.
I specified to him that I wasn't going to give him the full
treatment, and that I wasn't going to treat him like a younger
boy - though spanking is still an option. He agreed that he
understood that. I then had him take his jeans off and fetched
the medium Lexan. I told him that normally, he'd be required to
chose between two bare or three on his boxers, but his
'introduction' was just going to be two on the boxers. He took
those pretty well. My understanding is that he's a regular
visitor in Mr. P's office (or has been in the past). He did
complain about how much it burned, and I suggested he talk to
one of the older boys about the 2/3 choice. Bare burns a lot
worse, but 3 makes the thud last longer. It'll be interesting
if he does have to make the choice. While he's not exactly shy,
he doesn't seem comfortable with casual nudity (like so many of
my boys do).
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Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Adric Date: December 15, 2017, 5:37 am
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[quote author=Jack link=topic=233.msg2233#msg2233
date=1513332622]
My understanding is that he's a regular visitor in Mr. P's
office (or has been in the past).[/quote]
I wondered about that, whether getting paddled was an unfamiliar
experience for him and how he would feel about it. Has he
talked about his home life with his mother in the five years
since the father exited?
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Re: Kaden Connelly
By: Zyngaru Date: December 15, 2017, 5:52 am
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[quote]It'll be interesting if he does have to make the choice.
While he's not exactly shy, he doesn't seem comfortable with
casual nudity (like so many of my boys do). [/quote]
I suspect the first time he will pick the 3 option (to keep
boxers on) and then after experiencing it, he will pick the two
option. But you never know. He may think 2 is less than 3, so
be stupid to take 3 when you can get off with 2. As you say, he
is experienced with Mr. P.
I also suspect that after he is around the casual nudity boys
awhile that he will slide right into it also.
Note: It is funny. It will take nudity but not n-u-d-e.
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