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Fall '19 Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: September 20, 2019, 2:22 pm
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Things had been going smoothly since school started.
We had an incident with Chance, which I reported in this BOTD
HTML https://jackshouse.createaforum.com/botd/botd-20190909-first-chance-a-jack-production/<br
/> but not much trouble besides that.
Until yesterday.
After dinner last night, I called Connor into my office, telling
him to bring his homework folder and school stuff. When he
arrived, I'd printed out the e-mail I had received from his
teacher, mentioning that he's been having a bit of trouble
turning some assignments in on time. We looked at his folder to
compare it with the assignments he'd turned in late. Sure
enough, he'd told me he'd finished them as homework.
He really didn't have an explanation, accept he has 'too much
homework' and he was doing part of it at school. The problem
with that, of course, is that there are other things to do at
school the next day, and you won't always have spare time -
which was the basic reason he was turning stuff in late.
Mostly what he's not doing is spelling homework (he's has a good
vocabulary and is a pretty good speller), so it's not a huge
problem on his grade (he loses points by turning things in late,
but most of the spelling grade comes from tests at the end of
each week), but she saw it happening enough already that she
wanted to mention it before it did become a problem or spread
elsewhere.
To me, this type of homework is a bit frustrating, but it helps
you develop good work habits, as well as good learning habits
for when things don't come easy to you. The more important
thing, in this case, was that he'd been lying to me.
You could see him practically collapse when I mentioned that.
He tried to justify it, but he'd definitely been signing his
homework as done and telling me he was finished when he clearly
wasn't, so there wasn't much way around it. He was crying
before I finished undressing him.
I miss Connor in briefs, but he was wearing a Batman t-shirt and
a pair of Batman boxer briefs (black, with a black and yellow
striped waistband, and the bat logo on his left from leg), so
that was still pretty cute, after his shorts came off.
I'm using a new wooden turner - acacia wood, with a blade about
2 3/4" wide, three inches long, about 12" total with handle, and
only 1/4" thick, but it does have a good sting to it. I
considered this a pattern of misbehavior, so I intended for him
to get a deluxe session. I don't know if it's just been a long
time since he's been in serious trouble, or if it was that new
tuner, but he was crying hard and loud before I started on his
legs the first time, so he ended up barely getting more than a
regular double pattern. He was still bawling hard and loud
before I finished, and he took several minutes of cuddling
before he was ready to do his corner time (CT both because it's
a pattern of repeated dishonestly and disobedience, and because
we needed to talk about how we're going to deal with it in the
future).
By the time he did a full 10-minutes in the corner, I let him
come back over to me, we got his boxers back on, and cuddled a
bit more. Then we talked about the imporrtance of homework, and
the importance of honestly. We decided that daily folder checks
are going to be part of his evening routine for a while
(probably through Halloween, since the we're almost finished
with the first six weeks already, and the third one stats 4
November). Any honest problem with the folder will probably
count as a chore strike. He's been having a bit of trouble with
chores lately, so that might be enough to push him into a
spanking. Of course, further dishonest will be an automatic
spanking.
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Re: Fall '19 Spanking Report
By: Zyngaru Date: September 20, 2019, 2:59 pm
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Poor Connor. :( :( :(
Had it ever occurred to Connor to talk to you about having
trouble getting his homework done? It possibly could have saved
him a spanking.
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Re: Fall '19 Spanking Report
By: db105 Date: September 20, 2019, 3:00 pm
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Poor Connor. I guess it's just a bit of childish laziness. But
there's not much point in the homework folder if he's going to
cheat.
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Re: Fall '19 Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: September 20, 2019, 5:09 pm
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Zyngaru, this was not about not being able to get his homework
done. This was about wanting extra play time.
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Re: Fall '19 Spanking Report
By: kalico Date: September 21, 2019, 6:57 am
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Aww poor Conor but I hope he gets back on track ....
Hugs kal
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Re: Fall '19 Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: October 12, 2019, 10:33 am
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As few as incidents are these days, you can still depend on boys
to do exactly the same thing their big brothers got busted for
at about the same age.
While the Homecoming Game last night was a date thing for most
of my BHS boys, not all of them were that interested. I know
that, even for football fans, high school football games are
often at least as much about the social as about the sport, and
I'm mostly okay with that. I've certainly tried to make rules
with the boys that allow them to hang out with their friends,
without just giving them carte blanche to run wild.
And, every once in a while, advantage is taken of that.
While most of the boys had dates last night, Kenny didn't. He
and Ian just went to 'hang out'. Ian was also going to spend
the night here afterwards.
Since the other, older boys were busy, I went to pick them up.
They weren't there. I called, they didn't answer. I ended up
doing a GPS trace. They weren't even there. As soon as I
showed up, they realized there was toast. Not only were they
out of place and time, but there was some smoking going on
(maybe some vaping as well, though both are illegal for minors
in Texas), but I'm pretty sure not all the smoking was grass.
My two weren't involved in the smoking, and were actually
looking kind of uncomfortable when I arrived. They confessed
that they had lost track of time, and there was some pretty loud
music from car stereos, so I can understand why phones weren't
answered. The biggest problem is that their ride had 'decided
to stay' and they didn't have a way back.
On the way home, I lectured the boys pretty thoroughly. I
offered Ian the chance to be dropped at home, but he declined.
I'm pretty sure he would have been looking at a major grounding
if he had gone home.
By the time we got home, everyone was on the same page. Ian
turned 15 last month, but he's still only about 5'8" or so - an
inch or two taller than Kenny. Both boys are lean, but active
and healthy, with fairly round rears. Both have body hair, but
not a lot. Ian is a dark blond, and he doesn't show as well as
Kenny, so he actually looks a bit younger, despite being taller
and a few months older.
I sent them to my room, without escorting them, though there
weren't many people even home, so they had a good amount of
privacy. I put them up side by side, sideways, across the
massage table, and gave them both a good session with the
hairbrush. Both of them had been worried about the situation
they'd gotten themselves into, and I'd given them both a pretty
good lecture. so they were both worked up before we ever
started, and they were both having a pretty good cry, with
plenty of yelps and sobs to go with it before we finished. Ian
actually did break down to real bawling, though I think Kenny
managed to hold on a bit better than that.
They both showered after that, and snuck to Kenny's bedroom with
just towels wrapped around them, but after a bit, they'd
recovered, and spent some time messing around with the XBox
before they went to bed.
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Re: Fall '19 Spanking Report
By: David M. Katz Date: October 12, 2019, 2:39 pm
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Ian doesn't risk further sanction at home does he?
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Re: Fall '19 Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: October 12, 2019, 3:25 pm
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[quote author=David M. Katz link=topic=1489.msg15453#msg15453
date=1570909160]
Ian doesn't risk further sanction at home does he?
[/quote]
No, he doesn't.
Kenny and Ian were in their first grade class together, and the
two of them have been friends for over eight years now. While
Ian's big brother has graduated high school, I have spanked both
of them in the past, as well as interceding with their mom for
them a time or two. While Mrs. Reasoner mostly works out of her
house, she does have to travel some, and they're happy to have
me in charge of the boys when they're not around, including my
caveat that, if I handle a discipline issue, it should be
considered handled (with only the exception in case there was
data I wasn't aware of, like an ongoing or recently repeated
misbehavior).
I also wanted to say that Kenny and I had a talk this morning.
Ian's birthday is in September, and he's 15 now, but it's been a
while before that since he's been spanked/ 'whupped'. His mom
was actually the main spanker from what I recall (not just
because she was home more, but it seemed like she believed in it
more strongly). There is some background between the boys,
because Mike was not only quite a bit older than Ian, but Ian
is/was ADHD, while Mike wasn't, so very different behavior
patterns. Still, it sounds like, around the time Ian hit his
teens, his mom switched from what I would consider spankings and
began more of a belt on pants thing, which was often just part
of a punishment, instead of the entire thing. Even then, it
didn't happen often, and he thinks he only got one or two
whippings while he was in 8th grade last year.
That's kind of a problem for him.
Apparently his dad tends to lecture a lot, and his mom is worse,
depending a bit on the guilt trip. He didn't come out and say
it, but it sounds like, when he was younger, a good cry after
the lecturing was cleansing and put an end to the matter.
Ongoing punishments, like grounding and restrictions, tend to
drag things out a lot and give no real expiation to guilt.
I am going to talk to his parents - not so much asking them to
start spanking him again, as pointing out that he's a much more
sensitive child than Mike was, and they might do better to try a
more positive approach with him.
I did tell Ian that he's more than welcome to come to me and ask
for a spanking any time he needs to have a good cry. He laughed
(I was very careful to say it in a 'joking' tone). He promised
me he'd do that, and we joked around a bit more, but then he
asked if it'd have to be like I'd paddled him and Kenny the
previous night. Of course, I told him I'd be happy to bare his
bottom myself, and put him over my lap, for a long dose of hand
and hairbrush, much like I'd done when he was only 7. I
expected him to laugh and protest, but he turned so red, I have
to wonder if he'd really been thinking about that.
I've known a lot of people who are into spanking, and there
sometimes seem as many reasons as their are people. One thing I
know is that some people want to be spanked as a way to return
to what they see as simpler, easier times.
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Re: Fall '19 Spanking Report
By: Jack Date: October 13, 2019, 8:36 am
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Thanks to Leti for catching a problem with my previous post.
In my fourth paragraph, I had said 'Kenny's birthday is in
September, and...'
Obviously, Kenny's birthday is in December, and I'd meant to
write 'Ian's birthday is in September, and....', but it slipped
by me. I have corrected it in the original post, but wanted to
mention it here to help avoid confusion.
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Re: Fall '19 Spanking Report
By: db105 Date: October 13, 2019, 10:10 pm
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Even though he is not in danger of double jeopardy, did you tell
Ian's parents about his being in trouble?
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