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Jake (12) and Jamie (9) Lamar
By: Jack Date: July 9, 2019, 4:46 pm
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I mentioned James Lamar in the Weekend Party thread - A Weekend
Party
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James is 34 now, an old friend of JD's. The two of them and
their other friend, Jake, got into a LOT of trouble when they
were freshmen in high school (fall of '99), which included
actual, legal trouble. All their parents were having trouble
with those costs, and I offered help. The boys were put to work
for me, to pay me back, and I had full discipline authority over
them (this is starting in late October of that year, at the same
time, and for the same cause, as when JD moved in with me and I
started home schooling him).
So, back to today. James was here for the reunion party with my
oldest boy and some of their closest friends. At the end of a
week's vacation, he headed home with his daughter, but Jake and
Jamie stayed with their grandparents. The thing is, James was
the baby of the family, and his parents were older than mine
when he was born. That means his parents are in their 70s.
While they're happy to have their grandkids visiting, they're
not able to keep up with them all the time, so James made sure
it was okay for them to spend some time here (they were at camp
when Connor and Curtis were, and the four of them, along with my
grands, get along fine). Before he left, James made it very
clear to me and both boys that I had spanked his butt when he
was older than they are, and that I have permission to spank
them anytime I think they need it. He also told me that he
spanks them very similar to how I spanked when he knew me - no
pattern, but long, slow, stinging spankings on the bare bottom.
The party was 7 through 16 June (though not everyone made it for
the entire visit). The boys left for camp on the 16th (or 17th,
for the Lamar boys). They were gone two weeks, and back on the
29th. Jake and Jamie weren't here every day last week, both
because of doing things with their grandparents and because of
Independence Day, but I think today was their sixth time to stop
by.
And today, Jake straight up defied me. I know they know the
pool rules, because I went over them with both boys myself, and
Mike and Connor both tell me they went over them with Jake as
well. Today, I saw him violating two different rules (running
on the side of the pool and cannonballing towards people). I
made sure he'd been told the rules, then I had him sit out for
24 minutes (with the option of going home when he argued with
me). At that point, I thought we were fine, until I turned my
back and found him back in the pool. At that point, I reminded
him of what his father had told us. When he started to argue, I
told him to sit down while I called his dad.
Now THAT brought a change in attitude.
We left his wet suit in the sun room and marched him to my
office. He was pretty worried after he realized I was serious,
and he was begging for one more last chance. The problem I have
is, while I believe repentance is sincere at this point, I also
feel it needs to be reinforced, so the kid doesn't walk away
thinking it's no big deal.
I didn't know James when he was this age. I do have to say that
Jake is pretty cute. He has blond hair but black eyebrows, like
his dad. I should also say that his dad was about average size
when he was erect, but was pretty small when he was soft. While
it looks like Jake has reached the early stages of adolescence,
he seems to resemble his dad there as well, and he's very cute.
Also, while he has an active build, he's a bit convex in the
belly, and he has just enough padding that, while he still looks
pretty firm, he also has a nicely padded bottom.
I chewed Jake out pretty thoroughly - not for the pool rules,
though I did remind him they're as much for his safety as
others, but for his disobedience and disrespect. Since we'd
already removed his swim trunks, he was already naked, and he
was fidgeting bad while I lectured him, not knowing what to do
with his hand, and obviously a little uncomfortable at being
naked, but a lot more worried about his butt.
Jake has received the hairbrush before on a couple of occasions,
but James actually found an old novelty paddle like I used on
Bobby, Tommy, Corey, and Cal when James was spending a lot of
time at our house, and that's mostly what Jake gets it with. I
thought about using one of those, but I decided to stick with
the Tailblazer. While I was pretty upset with Jake, I also was
willing to cut him a little slack, since I figured there was a
certain amount of showing off and testing the limits in the
trouble he was in. I was sure I needed to firmly reinforce the
limits, but I also felt like I could let him off a bit easy, so
he received a standard, three-down, double-pattern, which was
enough to leave him bawling.
While I decided it wasn't a good idea to rub his bottom, he was
willing to be cuddled for a while. After a couple of minutes, I
left to get him a towel. When I came back, he asked if I'd
really spanked his dad. I assured him I had, but that I hadn't
known his dad until he was in high school (Jake was NOT happy to
hear his dad was spanked into high school). He then requested
that I not tell his dad about the Tailblazer. I made no
promises, but he seems to think his 'Heat for the Seat' does a
good enough job on it's own.
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Re: Jake (12) and Jamie (9) Lamar
By: David M. Katz Date: July 9, 2019, 11:06 pm
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Sounds like a cute kid.
So . . . will the Tailblazer be kept private between you and
Jake?
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Re: Jake (12) and Jamie (9) Lamar
By: db105 Date: July 10, 2019, 2:20 am
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Bad decision, misbehaving while visiting, particularly when you
know your host has been given spanking permission.
So he asked you not to tell his dad about the paddle but was OK
with your telling him about the spanking? So what did James say?
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Re: Jake (12) and Jamie (9) Lamar
By: Jack Date: July 10, 2019, 5:51 am
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[quote author=db105 link=topic=1366.msg13789#msg13789
date=1562743236]
So what did James say?
[/quote]
Remember, the boys are staying with their grandparents. I've not
spoken with James since then. No idea if I will mention it when
I do. However, his grandfather basically said, 'like father
like son', and said he had to spank the pair of them one time
last week, and they decided it wasn't worth pushing Grandpa
after that.
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Re: Jake (12) and Jamie (9) Lamar
By: Zyngaru Date: July 10, 2019, 8:44 am
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[quote author=Jack link=topic=1366.msg13793#msg13793
date=1562755877]
Remember, the boys are staying with their grandparents. I've not
spoken with James since then. No idea if I will mention it when
I do. However, his grandfather basically said, 'like father
like son', and said he had to spank the pair of them one time
last week, and they decided it wasn't worth pushing Grandpa
after that.
[/quote]
Grandpa's statement leads me to believe there was an element of
"limit testing" with you. He heard that you spanked his dad but
he wasn't sure if that was just an adult story to try and
impress him or not. He wasn't really sure if you would spank
him. The getting back in the pool after you sat him out, pretty
much decided me on he was "pushing the limits" just to see what
you would do.
Now that he knows the limits, you probably won't need to spank
him again this summer, unless something spontaneous happens.
Sometimes a boy just can't get away from spontaneous things.
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Re: Jake (12) and Jamie (9) Lamar
By: Jack Date: July 10, 2019, 2:37 pm
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Zyngaru, I pretty much feel the same way. Sometimes kids just
really seem like they need to make sure where the limits are,
and once you make it painfully clear, they stay within the
bounds.
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