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Gavin Kirby
By: Jack Date: January 29, 2019, 5:11 pm
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We have a new boy in the house.
Gavin is 12 and a friend of Jake's. Like Jake, he's in 7th
grade this year.
Gavin's mom was in a car wreck yesterday. I don't know all the
details, but the two of them live alone and he has no local
relatives. In this situation, with school in session, it's a
problem. His mom notified the doctors or ambulance or someone
about him, and they contacted CPS. I'm not sure how my name
actually came up, but when it came out that he was friend's with
Jake, it was suggested that I bring him home.
His mom had surgery yesterday. I took him to visit last night.
It was a short visit, since she was pretty out of it. We're
going up there after dinner again tonight, and we hope to have
enough information to make some plans. He does have relatives
who can care for him, but it would mean taking him out of
school, so how long she's going to be out is an important
factor.
Gavin's dad lives out of state. They see each other over the
summer and at Thanksgiving/Christmas or Christmas/Spring Break,
and occasional other visits when things work out. I'm not sure
how long Dad's not been around, but I talked to Gavin while we
had some privacy last night. His parents have been divorced
several years. While his mom isn't a spanker, his dad was, and
has since the divorce, though it takes a lot. While I don't
have permission (this isn't an official foster placement, so
it's kind of a gray area), he pretty much seemed to expect that,
since he's a boy and I'm a dad, if he acts up, he'll get
spanked. On the other hand, his dad never spanked bare, so....
It turns out that I went to school with one of Gavin's uncles.
I was friends with him in elementary school, but I don't
remember spending time with him since about sixth grade.
Gavin's dad was one of his little brothers, so I knew him, but I
don't really remember him at all.
Gavin is small for his age. I do know he's still 12, but not
when his birthday is. He's barely 5', so I'd guess he's not
pubescent yet, though I've not seen him in less than boxers, so
I don't know for sure. I do know that he's cute as heck.
Because of his situation, I'm going to cut him a lot of extra
slack, but I'd certainly enjoy an excuse to spank him under
normal circumstances.
Jake is staying with us right now, so it's him, Dev, and Gavin
in the room. Ryan Tucker will be here tonight, but I think he's
going to stay in with Colt and Kenny tonight.
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Re: Gavin Kirby
By: db105 Date: January 29, 2019, 6:20 pm
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I hope his mom will be alright. He must be very worried, so it's
not likely he'll be thinking about misbehaving.
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Re: Gavin Kirby
By: Jack Date: January 30, 2019, 1:53 pm
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[quote author=db105 link=topic=1112.msg11400#msg11400
date=1548807609]
I hope his mom will be alright. He must be very worried, so it's
not likely he'll be thinking about misbehaving.
[/quote]
I doubt most boys actually think about misbehaving. Still, I
kind of agree, which is also why I said I'd not be very strict
with him.
I had to stop by to see his mom today. There are still a couple
of problems, so they're going to keep her over the weekend for
observation, but they're hoping she'll be able to go home
Monday. She has a friend who's going to stay a day or two to
help her settle in, so Gavin will probably go home Tuesday, if
everything stays on schedule.
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Re: Gavin Kirby
By: kalico Date: January 31, 2019, 1:17 am
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I’m happy mom is doing good and I hope everything works out...
Poor kiddo.... happy he has you and yours
Hugs kal
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Re: Gavin Kirby
By: David M. Katz Date: February 1, 2019, 2:30 pm
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Any updates?
Also, would it be better for him to stay with you until Mom
fully recovers?
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Re: Gavin Kirby
By: Jack Date: February 1, 2019, 4:22 pm
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[quote author=David M. Katz link=topic=1112.msg11435#msg11435
date=1549053057]
Any updates?
[/quote]
Not really. I did go down and we had temporary guardianship
papers signed and notarized, so if anything happens, I can deal
with school or doctors for him. Fortunately, he also sees Dr.
Sammy, so medical care won't be a problem if something does come
up.
As to her condition, she seems to be stable. Her blood
pressure had been running a bit low, and they ran a check in
case she had some internal bleeding they'd missed, but nothing
seems to be coming of it. When we visited last night, they said
she seemed to be stabilizing.
As for anymore, they want her to stay over the weekend, they'll
run some tests Monday morning, and if everything is okay, she'll
go home that afternoon.
[quote author=David M. Katz link=topic=1112.msg11435#msg11435
date=1549053057]
Also, would it be better for him to stay with you until Mom
fully recovers?
[/quote]
I doubt it. He's a 7th grader. While he probably needs some
supervision, he seems pretty capable, so I'm sure he'll be able
to take care of himself, until she starts getting up and around.
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Re: Gavin Kirby
By: Jack Date: February 5, 2019, 5:04 pm
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Gavin is still here. His mom is now home. They kept her in the
hospital an extra day, because her blood pressure wasn't
incredibly stable over the weekend, so they ran a few more tests
yesterday, but I guess they decided she was okay.
As I've said before, she has a friend helping her settle in.
Her friend asked if Gavin can stay a day or two longer than
planned. For those of you who've never had a prolonged hospital
stay, it can be a rather major change. When I was in the
hospital last year, I was fine in the hospital, but I had a lot
of trouble after I got home. I don't know why that should be,
but I've had others tell me it was true for them as well.
Of course I answered yes. Gavin has been no problem. He's a
pretty cute little guy with a very spankable little rear, so I
wouldn't have minded a bit of trouble, but I can live with him
being well behaved.
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Re: Gavin Kirby
By: Jack Date: February 7, 2019, 4:41 pm
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Gavin went home last night for a couple of hours. I picked him
up, so I could talk to his mom a bit. She's mostly on her back,
but she's starting to get up and get around - she just can't do
too much at once.
He's going back over tonight to have supper, though I believe I
heard they're just getting take out.
Really nothing else to say - I just wanted to mention they were
both doing fine.
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Re: Gavin Kirby
By: Surfer Date: April 27, 2019, 9:09 am
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Did Gavin officially move back with mom? How did your determine
that he was not spanked bare bottom? Has he come back for any
more visits? Do you know how his behavior has been lately?
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Re: Gavin Kirby
By: Jack Date: April 27, 2019, 9:27 am
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[quote author=Surfer link=topic=1112.msg12613#msg12613
date=1556374151]
Did Gavin officially move back with mom?
[/quote]
Gavin never officially lived with me - he was just here while
his mom was in the hospital, but he's been back home for a
couple of months now.
[quote author=Surfer link=topic=1112.msg12613#msg12613
date=1556374151]
How did your determine that he was not spanked bare bottom?
[/quote]
I always try to work conversations with new boys around to
spanking, if I can do it without being rude or obnoxious. In
this case, when he was going to be staying with us, it was easy
enough. We talked about the rules I'd expect him to obey (for a
boy staying an indeterminate, but not terribly long, period of
time - it was mostly don't leave the house without letting me
know and mind), and what would happen if he didn't. He
mentioned that he hadn't been spanked much lately, since it was
mostly his dad who was the spanker, and he told me his dad
sometimes pulled his pants down, but he'd never had his
underwear down. I want to say he might have had warning from
Jake about how I handle things, but I'm not positive about that.
[quote author=Surfer link=topic=1112.msg12613#msg12613
date=1556374151]
Has he come back for any more visits?
[/quote]
Yes, he's actually here now. He went to see Avengers: Endgame
with us, and slept over last night.
[quote author=Surfer link=topic=1112.msg12613#msg12613
date=1556374151]
Do you know how his behavior has been lately?
[/quote]
Pretty well as far as I know, though I do know he was grounded
one weekend, so not perfect. He's not given me an excuse to
spank him, but it sounds like he'll be spending a lot of time
here over the summer. He's 13, so spankings won't be too
frequent with him, and he seems pretty well behaved, but the
chance will probably be there.
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