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DECISIONS YOU’LL BE THANKFUL YOU MADEBY THE JOHN MAXWELL
By: IMPACT360 Date: November 28, 2014, 4:53 am
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“Life is a one-way street. No matter how many
detours you take, none of them leads back. And
once you know and accept that, life becomes much
simpler.”
~ Isabel Moore
Choices have consequences that stalk us like a
shadow. The effects of decisions made early in life
affect our wealth, relational health, and emotional
wellbeing. Since it’s incredibly difficult to elude or
escape them, the wisest course of action is to
make choices early in life that have helpful rather
than harmful repercussions.
CONTINUE TO GROW THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE.
Many people stop studying once they finish
school, but learning pays dividends beyond
earning a diploma. Growth positions you to take
advantage of opportunities and grooms you for
ever-increasing responsibility. Growth also brings
happiness; it’s fulfilling to feel that we’re tapping
into our potential. Moreover, growth enables you to
give. The more you grow, the more seeds you
have to sow into the lives of the people around
you.
GIVE AND SERVE ON THE FRONT END.
It’s common to approach relationships cautiously,
asking “what’s in it for me?” before extending a
helping hand. However, it’s far more rewarding not
to wait until you’re certain of getting something out
of a relationship before you’re willing to invest in
it. When you serve on the front end, you unlock the
benefits of reciprocity. Occasionally others will take
advantage of your goodwill, but far more often
people will respond to your support with grateful
generosity.
EXHIBIT A GREAT ATTITUDE REGARDLESS OF THE
SITUATION.
Attitude isn’t everything, but it is one thing that
can make an incredible difference in your life. As
Virginia Satir said, “Life is not the way it’s
supposed to be. It’s the way it is. The way you
cope with it is what makes the difference.” We
cannot always choose what happens to us, but we
can always choose what happens in us.
We can control our thoughts, and our thoughts
eventually give shape to our emotions. Thus, we
can take responsibility for our feelings by changing
one thing: the way we think. Attitudes are nothing
more than habits of thought. The key, then, is to
dwell on life’s blessings and not its burdens, to
see life’s possibilities over and above its pain, and
to look for the best in people rather than finding
their faults.
CARE FOR YOUR FAMILY
When leaders put their family first, their spirit
prospers and their community benefits. When
leaders put their community first, their family,
community, and personal wellbeing all suffer. The
most lasting legacy you can leave is the one you
build at home. Success in life comes when those
who know you best, love and respect you the
most.
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