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EXCUSE ME, YOUR ATTITUDE IS SHOWINGBY THE JOHN MAXWELL
By: IMPACT360 Date: November 28, 2014, 4:45 am
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Leaders are readers of people. They study a
person like they would a book, by paying careful
attention to words. If you listen careful to the
words someone says, you will learn a lot about
that person. Specifically, you’ll discover the
person’s attitude toward life, which reveals his or
her gratitude for life.
A positive attitude can be a person’s greatest
asset. In fact, an upbeat attitude can take people to
places that their ability could never carry them on
its own. Attitude acts like a booster rocket, lifting
people to a higher altitude than they could
otherwise climb.
Oftentimes, motivational speakers present attitude
like a magic tonic or cure-all for every ailment, but
attitude isn’t everything. Some people have
awesome attitudes and yet are awfully
incompetent. While attitude alone won’t guarantee
success, attitude is a difference-maker. All else
being equal, attitude gives an advantage or edge
over the competition. Therefore, whenever you
have a choice to make between two business
partners, vendors, or job candidates with similar
credentials, pick the one with the better attitude.
A person’s attitude is more apparent in some
conditions than in others. Here are three situations
in which a person’s true attitude is likely to
surface.
WHEN THEY EXPERIENCE NEGATIVE FEELINGS
A gray, rainy day reveals a lot about a person’s
attitude by showing how they respond to negative
emotions. In the face of difficult feelings, some
people are like tumbleweed tossed about by the
wind; they go whichever way their emotions blow
them. Positive people are not controlled by
atmosphere but by their attitude. It provides a
rootedness that prevents them from being
susceptible to fluctuating moods. Whiners want to
feel good before acting; winners do what’s right
regardless of how they feel and then experience
positive emotions as a result of their actions.
WHEN THEY MUST DEAL WITH MUNDANE
DETAILS
It’s said that the devil is in the details, and some
people behave like devils when they have to deal
with the less-than-thrilling aspects of their jobs.
Every occupation has its inglorious tasks, and how
a leader handles them says a lot about her
attitude. The more a person complains, the less
he’ll attain. Conversely, by approaching even
minor responsibilities with positivity and a sense of
purpose, a person sets himself up for success.
WHEN THEY FACE ADVERSITY
People either shrink from adversity or rise to meet
it—largely on account of their attitude toward life.
Thankfulness shines brightest during tribulation.
Saint Paul exhorted his readers to “rejoice always”
and to “give thanks in all circumstances.” When we
encounter adversity, we can counter anxiety with
appreciativeness. When we are grateful, fear
disappears and faith appears.
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