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Benefits of weight for you?
DIR By: Bernadette
Date: May 23, 2014, 6:50 am
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Can you think any reasons why part of you might be holding onto
your extra weight? I'll get started shall I?.. I was afraid that
being slim would mean I would be too confident, and more on
display. I wouldn't be able to hide into the background any
more.
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Re: Benefits of weight for you?
DIR By: Clare
Date: May 23, 2014, 7:08 am
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But I can identify with wanting to hold onto unhealthy and
damaging habits because they protect you. As much as I want to
lose weight a part of me is actually quite scared of what will
happen when I do! One reason I hold on to weight (I'm female) is
that I get less attention & hassle from men. V. valid especially
in todays over sexualized climate.
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Re: Benefits of weight for you?
DIR By: Junebaby
Date: May 23, 2014, 8:05 am
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I gained weight and found there were advantages - women were
friendlier and all the unwanted attention from men stopped. I
will admit this too. I come from a family who are all on the
large side. The only time I saw any of my close relatives thin
was very shortly before they died of various forms of cancer. So
when weight comes off, I get very scared that it means I'm ill.
As I type this I'm starting to figure out that I associate
weight loss will sickness and illness! :o Never really saw it
that way before.
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Re: Benefits of weight for you?
DIR By: Hannah
Date: August 8, 2014, 12:42 pm
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I notice that I love the attention when I lose weight. I get so
many compliments- its great! Different for everyone, I guess.
We're a complex bunch!
Hannah
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