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       #Post#: 85339--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Oscars Watch Party
   DIR By: Thetis099
       Date: March 28, 2022, 8:26 am
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       --- Quote from: animaniactoo link ---
       >
       > Thetis, not defending the action at all - but from what I
       could tell (angle a little obscured), it looked more like a slap
       than a punch to me, and Rock did describe it as a slap in the
       immediate aftermath. Not okay either way, but if getting hung up
       on that, I don't think it's being reported inaccurately.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       I get what you are saying, but BBC at least reports "hit" in
       their headline, even if they revert to the same use of "slap" in
       the body article while repeating the same lines other outlets
       have published.  I'm not missing the reality.  I saw it.  I
       heard it too.  It may not have been an "Ali" hit, but it was a
       hit and not a slap.  I saw it again this morning on CNN before I
       could change the channel.  I will probably see it again even if
       I try to avoid it.
       I haven't heard a thud like that without the crack of a slap
       with it from a forceful open handed blow, but I was most often
       the person receiving the hits.  Different perspective, I
       suppose.  Rock was wearing a mic.  All we heard was "thud".
       Opinions on the semantics of hit vs slap may vary, but none of
       this is okay.
       #Post#: 85344--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Oscars Watch Party
   DIR By: AbidingDudev4.1
       Date: March 28, 2022, 8:43 am
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       --- Quote from: Itopian link ---
       >
       > [quote author=Thetis099 link=topic=901.msg85320#msg85320
       date=1648466820]
       > Kinda unbelievable how fast the powers that be in Hollywood,
       or whoever, seem to have decided they all make far too much
       money off of Smith to dare rock the boat?  I get why Chris Rock
       wouldn't press charges if it would potentially only hurt his own
       career, but LAPD, that was not a slap.  That was a punch.  Why
       not call it a punch?
       >
       > I hate that this behavior seems to be being swept under the
       rug or tacitly approved.  He should lose this Oscar.  He really
       should.  Who else gets to punch a person publicly like that
       while participating in a celebration of their work without any
       consequences?
       >
       > That was the first time I watched the whole Oscars ceremony
       since the before times.  I was one foot out the door already.  I
       may never go back now.  Something about this just does not sit
       well with me even if it seems okay with Chris Rock.  I hope
       Chris Rock changes his mind and presses charges, but I doubt he
       will.  Smith's 23 year old son chimed in publicly with something
       like "And that's how we do it."  Did Chris Rock even know about
       her alopecia?  I didn't get the press release, maybe he didn't
       know either?
       >
       > Gross.  Just gross.  Call it what it was, at least.  Don't
       gaslight us, we were watching.  CNN is calling a slap right now.
       Slap = open hand.  The people at the Dolby reacted to this for
       what it was.  Read the room.
       >
       > "LAPD investigative entities are aware of an incident between
       two individuals during the Academy Awards program," the
       department told CNN in a statement. "The incident involved one
       individual slapping another. The individual involved has
       declined to file a police report. If the involved party desires
       a police report at a later date, LAPD will be available to
       complete an investigative report."
       >
       >
       >
  HTML https://www.cnn.com/2022/03/28/entertainment/chris-rock-will-smith-charges-intl-scli/index.html
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       I guess the moral of the story is that the Oscars aren't a
       Friar's Club roast, and a stage isn't a safe place from which to
       mock a woman's alopecia (especially when you've mocked the woman
       from the stage before).
       [/quote]
       The academy award show has a long history of lame jokes made at
       the expense of actors in the audience, if we are going to allow
       each person to slap the person making a joke at their expense,
       it's going to run four hours longer.
       If you can't take a tiny lame joke, maybe stay home. If you
       started your career making fat jokes about Uncle Phil for a
       living, maybe you aren't the vessel of love you want to be.
       I kinda wish chris rock filed charges, or sued him for $1 or a
       million.
       #Post#: 85351--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Oscars Watch Party
   DIR By: VanGoghSunflowers
       Date: March 28, 2022, 9:04 am
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       Chris Rock made a documentary about black women and hair and the
       emotional/racial/identity/cultural issues tied up in it. He
       absolutely should not have made that joke, and doesn't get any
       passes from me for it. And given that he previously mocked Jada
       for boycotting a ceremony that she was far from the only person
       boycotting, I'm guessing there is some bad blood going on behind
       the scenes there.
       But none of that excuses the hit.
       Go ahead and boo, or trash talk him in your acceptance speech,
       or go to the press after the event. By hitting Chris Rock, he
       put himself firmly 100% in the wrong and made Rock the victim.
       Especially since laughing at the joke, then hitting, then
       screaming about it made Smith look fairly unhinged.
       If I was Jada, I would not be happy.
       #Post#: 85359--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Oscars Watch Party
   DIR By: Thetis099
       Date: March 28, 2022, 9:23 am
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       --- Quote from: VanGoghSunflowers link ---
       >
       > Chris Rock made a documentary about black women and hair and
       the emotional/racial/identity/cultural issues tied up in it. He
       absolutely should not have made that joke, and doesn't get any
       passes from me for it. And given that he previously mocked Jada
       for boycotting a ceremony that she was far from the only person
       boycotting, I'm guessing there is some bad blood going on behind
       the scenes there.
       >
       > But none of that excuses the hit.
       >
       > Go ahead and boo, or trash talk him in your acceptance speech,
       or go to the press after the event. By hitting Chris Rock, he
       put himself firmly 100% in the wrong and made Rock the victim.
       Especially since laughing at the joke, then hitting, then
       screaming about it made Smith look fairly unhinged.
       >
       > If I was Jada, I would not be happy.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       So far, nobody has raised the fact that Jada is a successful and
       powerful woman with a platform and voice she has not shied away
       from using.  Can she not handle this herself?  Does she need her
       husband, or anyone else, to hit people who upset her?  I guess
       we will never know.  I would not stay with a man who punched a
       person because they made a bad joke at my expense.  I would be
       the most furious at Will Smith (not Chris Rock) if I was her.
       Go ahead and flame away.  Men "defending" the women in their
       lives by meeting a bad joke with rage and violent retaliation is
       supposed to be a beautiful thing, right?  Forgive me if I
       vehemently disagree.
       #Post#: 85372--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Oscars Watch Party
   DIR By: acl-ny
       Date: March 28, 2022, 9:57 am
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       --- Quote from: animaniactoo link ---
       >
       > Thetis, not defending the action at all - but from what I
       could tell (angle a little obscured), it looked more like a slap
       than a punch to me, and Rock did describe it as a slap in the
       immediate aftermath. Not okay either way, but if getting hung up
       on that, I don't think it's being reported inaccurately.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       It was open handed.  Therefore it was technically a slap, even
       though it was quite forceful.
       #Post#: 85374--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Oscars Watch Party
   DIR By: acl-ny
       Date: March 28, 2022, 10:02 am
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       --- Quote from: Thetis099 link ---
       >
       > [quote author=VanGoghSunflowers
       link=topic=901.msg85351#msg85351 date=1648476289]
       > Chris Rock made a documentary about black women and hair and
       the emotional/racial/identity/cultural issues tied up in it. He
       absolutely should not have made that joke, and doesn't get any
       passes from me for it. And given that he previously mocked Jada
       for boycotting a ceremony that she was far from the only person
       boycotting, I'm guessing there is some bad blood going on behind
       the scenes there.
       >
       > But none of that excuses the hit.
       >
       > Go ahead and boo, or trash talk him in your acceptance speech,
       or go to the press after the event. By hitting Chris Rock, he
       put himself firmly 100% in the wrong and made Rock the victim.
       Especially since laughing at the joke, then hitting, then
       screaming about it made Smith look fairly unhinged.
       >
       > If I was Jada, I would not be happy.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       So far, nobody has raised the fact that Jada is a successful and
       powerful woman with a platform and voice she has not shied away
       from using.  Can she not handle this herself?  Does she need her
       husband, or anyone else, to hit people who upset her?  I guess
       we will never know.  I would not stay with a man who punched a
       person because they made a bad joke at my expense.  I would be
       the most furious at Will Smith (not Chris Rock) if I was her.
       Go ahead and flame away.  Men "defending" the women in their
       lives by meeting a bad joke with rage and violent retaliation is
       supposed to be a beautiful thing, right?  Forgive me if I
       vehemently disagree.
       [/quote]
       I did think about that as well.
       While not excusing or justifying the slap, I suspect it was a
       heat of the moment/emotional response. That "crime of passion"
       as they say.
       I will add that it is very awkward, to say the least, that Will
       Smith initially laughed at the 'joke'. When he realized that
       Jada was not amused, he apparently overreacted, overcompensated.
       Again, not justifying, but he's human too, and he handled this
       poorly as humans are wont to do.
       #Post#: 85383--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Oscars Watch Party
   DIR By: BethinDC2AZ
       Date: March 28, 2022, 10:26 am
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       --- Quote from: acl-ny link ---
       >
       > [quote author=Thetis099 link=topic=901.msg85359#msg85359
       date=1648477428]
       > [quote author=VanGoghSunflowers
       link=topic=901.msg85351#msg85351 date=1648476289]
       > Chris Rock made a documentary about black women and hair and
       the emotional/racial/identity/cultural issues tied up in it. He
       absolutely should not have made that joke, and doesn't get any
       passes from me for it. And given that he previously mocked Jada
       for boycotting a ceremony that she was far from the only person
       boycotting, I'm guessing there is some bad blood going on behind
       the scenes there.
       >
       > But none of that excuses the hit.
       >
       > Go ahead and boo, or trash talk him in your acceptance speech,
       or go to the press after the event. By hitting Chris Rock, he
       put himself firmly 100% in the wrong and made Rock the victim.
       Especially since laughing at the joke, then hitting, then
       screaming about it made Smith look fairly unhinged.
       >
       > If I was Jada, I would not be happy.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       So far, nobody has raised the fact that Jada is a successful and
       powerful woman with a platform and voice she has not shied away
       from using.  Can she not handle this herself?  Does she need her
       husband, or anyone else, to hit people who upset her?  I guess
       we will never know.  I would not stay with a man who punched a
       person because they made a bad joke at my expense.  I would be
       the most furious at Will Smith (not Chris Rock) if I was her.
       Go ahead and flame away.  Men "defending" the women in their
       lives by meeting a bad joke with rage and violent retaliation is
       supposed to be a beautiful thing, right?  Forgive me if I
       vehemently disagree.
       [/quote]
       I did think about that as well.
       While not excusing or justifying the slap, I suspect it was a
       heat of the moment/emotional response. That "crime of passion"
       as they say.
       I will add that it is very awkward, to say the least, that Will
       Smith initially laughed at the 'joke'. When he realized that
       Jada was not amused, he apparently overreacted, overcompensated.
       Again, not justifying, but he's human too, and he handled this
       poorly as humans are wont to do.
       [/quote]
       Yeah, I'm sure he regrets it. Last night should have been about
       his award. Now it's about the slap. He'll be kicking himself for
       that for a long time.
       #Post#: 85384--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Oscars Watch Party
   DIR By: Queenie
       Date: March 28, 2022, 10:28 am
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       My completely made up guess:  if anything this will help Smith's
       career.  Publicity+"gallantry".
       #Post#: 85388--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Oscars Watch Party
   DIR By: Thetis099
       Date: March 28, 2022, 10:40 am
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       --- Quote from: acl-ny link ---
       >
       > [quote author=Thetis099 link=topic=901.msg85359#msg85359
       date=1648477428]
       > [quote author=VanGoghSunflowers
       link=topic=901.msg85351#msg85351 date=1648476289]
       > Chris Rock made a documentary about black women and hair and
       the emotional/racial/identity/cultural issues tied up in it. He
       absolutely should not have made that joke, and doesn't get any
       passes from me for it. And given that he previously mocked Jada
       for boycotting a ceremony that she was far from the only person
       boycotting, I'm guessing there is some bad blood going on behind
       the scenes there.
       >
       > But none of that excuses the hit.
       >
       > Go ahead and boo, or trash talk him in your acceptance speech,
       or go to the press after the event. By hitting Chris Rock, he
       put himself firmly 100% in the wrong and made Rock the victim.
       Especially since laughing at the joke, then hitting, then
       screaming about it made Smith look fairly unhinged.
       >
       > If I was Jada, I would not be happy.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       So far, nobody has raised the fact that Jada is a successful and
       powerful woman with a platform and voice she has not shied away
       from using.  Can she not handle this herself?  Does she need her
       husband, or anyone else, to hit people who upset her?  I guess
       we will never know.  I would not stay with a man who punched a
       person because they made a bad joke at my expense.  I would be
       the most furious at Will Smith (not Chris Rock) if I was her.
       Go ahead and flame away.  Men "defending" the women in their
       lives by meeting a bad joke with rage and violent retaliation is
       supposed to be a beautiful thing, right?  Forgive me if I
       vehemently disagree.
       [/quote]
       I did think about that as well.
       While not excusing or justifying the slap, I suspect it was a
       heat of the moment/emotional response. That "crime of passion"
       as they say.
       I will add that it is very awkward, to say the least, that Will
       Smith initially laughed at the 'joke'. When he realized that
       Jada was not amused, he apparently overreacted, overcompensated.
       Again, not justifying, but he's human too, and he handled this
       poorly as humans are wont to do.
       [/quote]
       I agree.  Certainly a crime, if Rock decides to press charges,
       which seems unlikely.
       Smith's "apology" speech was an attempt to sort of justify what
       he did in the name of "protection" and "love".  That was void of
       introspection about what he had just done and seemed much more
       about "protecting" himself and his pride around the public
       perception of this 6 year old beef with Rock than "protecting"
       his wife from a bad joke.  If the Smiths are still this upset
       about something from 2016, they need to work on that, perhaps
       with Rock, but outside of the Oscar ceremony.  These are
       supposed to be grown ass people (with the ability to get what
       they need in the way of therapy) we are talking about, not
       impetuous youths full of fire and blind to consequences.  He
       knew there probably would not be any consequences or he might
       have stayed in his seat.  Or, he could have been escorted from
       the premises after assaulting Rock, and his award accepted by
       someone else.  I would have preferred the latter.
       The Academy sucks here too.  It may have been a panic reaction
       because it is a live broadcast, but to expect the show to go on,
       give Smith his award and extremely long speech time like nothing
       happened less than 1 hour later, was an awful decision.
       #Post#: 85420--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Oscars Watch Party
   DIR By: Roselynn39
       Date: March 28, 2022, 11:33 am
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       I think there's a back story between Jada Smith, Will Smith and
       Chris Rock.
       He made jokes about her, when he was hosting the Oscar's in
       2016. Will Smith hadn't been nominated for Concussion and Rock
       was razzing her about her reaction to that. She wasn't present.
       Rock is very aware of the importance of hair to a woman,
       especially black women. He made a documentary about it. "Good
       Hair" Funny, informative, and occasionally sad, Good Hair is a
       provocative look at the complex relationship between African
       Americans and their hair.
       "GI Jane" was well known for Demi Moore shaving her head. Jada
       does it because she has a condition, not for a role.
       The joke Chris said wasn't at a celebrity roast, it was live,
       directly in front of the couple. This clip shows the unedited
       version. Smith appears to laugh, initially, but the look on
       Jada's face says it all. Smith was extremely upset. This was an
       open faced bitch slap. If he had punched Chris, he wouldn't have
       gotten up.
  HTML https://www.theguardian.com/film/2022/mar/27/will-smith-punch-chris-rock-wife-joke-gi-jane-video-oscars
       I'm not condoning Will Smith but he definitely reacted.
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