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       National Coming Out Day, October 11, 2021
       By: Itopian Date: October 11, 2021, 8:49 am
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       It is. I am. Bi. Always have been. Yes, I love my wife. Yes,
       we've been monogamous for the past 22 years we've been together.
       Yes, I'm still bi. No, I'm not after you.
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       Re: National Coming Out Day, October 11, 2021
       By: animaniactoo Date: October 11, 2021, 11:06 am
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       One of my sisters is also and struggles with the feeling of
       erasure when people insist that just because she's in a
       monogamous relationship with her bf, she can't claim to be bi,
       as if it somehow eradicates the fact that she is still attracted
       to women.
       Part of her coping strategy for that is that she comes out again
       every year, even though all of us who know her know. Probably
       there are only 2 or 3 people a year who might not know. But she
       does it to support both people who are in relationships, and
       people who struggle with being out in general. A voice of "Yeah,
       me too. It's okay, you can say it/live it out loud".
       #Post#: 27871--------------------------------------------------
       Re: National Coming Out Day, October 11, 2021
       By: Itopian Date: October 11, 2021, 12:06 pm
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       [quote author=animaniactoo link=topic=424.msg27837#msg27837
       date=1633968394]
       One of my sisters is also and struggles with the feeling of
       erasure when people insist that just because she's in a
       monogamous relationship with her bf, she can't claim to be bi,
       as if it somehow eradicates the fact that she is still attracted
       to women.
       Part of her coping strategy for that is that she comes out again
       every year, even though all of us who know her know. Probably
       there are only 2 or 3 people a year who might not know. But she
       does it to support both people who are in relationships, and
       people who struggle with being out in general. A voice of "Yeah,
       me too. It's okay, you can say it/live it out loud".
       [/quote]
       As said elsewhere, having salad as an appetizer doesn't make me
       a vegetarian! And almost none of us were asexual before we had
       our first sexual relationship...
       #Post#: 27893--------------------------------------------------
       Re: National Coming Out Day, October 11, 2021
       By: CaviaPorcellus Date: October 11, 2021, 1:05 pm
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       [quote author=Itopian link=topic=424.msg27794#msg27794
       date=1633960194]
       It is. I am. Bi. Always have been. Yes, I love my wife. Yes,
       we've been monogamous for the past 22 years we've been together.
       Yes, I'm still bi. No, I'm not after you.
  HTML https://nationaltoday.com/national-coming-out-day/
       [/quote]
       Swap "wife" for "husband" and "22" for "7" and that's me too!
       Happy coming out day, y'all!
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