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Re: Live Chat 09/24
By: iamnotarobot Date: September 24, 2021, 12:29 pm
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[quote author=CaviaPorcellus link=topic=347.msg20422#msg20422
date=1632504195]
I'm sorry her ex-husband cheated on her and the marriage
imploded. I don't know why she expects anyone who met them after
the divorce to care about any of that.
[/quote]
I have a friend who is doing a version of this. She wants
everyone to know that her ex cheated and is sure people will
think it's a very big deal.
I feel bad for her, obviously I don't think much of him, but her
obsession with making sure people know is really not good for
her I don't think.
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Re: Live Chat 09/24
By: guest154 Date: September 24, 2021, 12:30 pm
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Pool update: wow!
Glad the dog is okay, and yay to the neighbor for driving after
LW had been "curt." Darned shame LW didn't ask the relative in
the first place about the neighbor dynamics.
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Re: Live Chat 09/24
By: Chicagogirl22 Date: September 24, 2021, 12:30 pm
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I think Wedding Mom has a case of the Not Fairs.
I think she expected her ex and his new wife to have some social
consequence or fallout from infidelity. This just doesn’t always
play out.
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Re: Live Chat 09/24
By: BethinDC2AZ Date: September 24, 2021, 12:31 pm
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Ugh. I hate pool lady even more post update than before.
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Re: Live Chat 09/24
By: Esme Rain Date: September 24, 2021, 12:31 pm
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[quote author=iamnotarobot link=topic=347.msg20429#msg20429
date=1632504561]
[quote author=CaviaPorcellus link=topic=347.msg20422#msg20422
date=1632504195]
I'm sorry her ex-husband cheated on her and the marriage
imploded. I don't know why she expects anyone who met them after
the divorce to care about any of that.
[/quote]
I have a friend who is doing a version of this. She wants
everyone to know that her ex cheated and is sure people will
think it's a very big deal.
I feel bad for her, obviously I don't think much of him, but her
obsession with making sure people know is really not good for
her I don't think.
[/quote]
Salutary example for me too notrobot (different circumstance).
I take comfort in the fact that my tongue, sore from biting, was
sacrificed in a noble effort!
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Re: Live Chat 09/24
By: Queenie Date: September 24, 2021, 12:32 pm
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I would like to defend the "weddings are a few hours" tradition.
It's a perfectly valid way to go and I think it's as fine for
those people to view the "several days" way as OTT as it is for
the "several days" people to feel that the "several hours" folks
are under-doing it.
I definitely bristled when my kids were very small and Mr Q was
invited to a number of groomsmen's events that were supposed to
take several days each. We have lives, you know! Also, a
budget.
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Re: Live Chat 09/24
By: Chicagogirl22 Date: September 24, 2021, 12:33 pm
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Pool Update:
Please never house sit again.
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Re: Live Chat 09/24
By: Lady_Lessa Date: September 24, 2021, 12:34 pm
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[quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=347.msg20432#msg20432
date=1632504668]
Ugh. I hate pool lady even more post update than before.
[/quote]
Beth, Which one? The dog sitter or the take advantage one who
drove the dog and people to the vet?
(If it is the take advantage one, I agree completely)
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Re: Live Chat 09/24
By: badpoodle Date: September 24, 2021, 12:34 pm
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Oh man, mother of the groom, stop being so rigid!
I know, I know, that isn't fair because she is who she is but
holy hell. Sometimes it's ok to break the rules. Rigidity tends
to make people not feel close to you. LW could have totally met
the fiance outdoors with masks on or whatever and not broken the
rules.
Bringing up the college tuition she paid and the divorce decree
when asked about a wedding contribution - totally unnecessary
and hurtful. If she is pondering informing everyone of her ex's
infidelity I hope she knows the only person it will reflect
poorly on is her.
I have a couple of people in my life who have this inability to
see what it is about themselves that keeps them from having the
close personal relationships they observe in others. It is both
frustrating and sad.
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Re: Live Chat 09/24
By: BethinDC2AZ Date: September 24, 2021, 12:35 pm
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[quote author=Lady_Lessa link=topic=347.msg20437#msg20437
date=1632504866]
[quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=347.msg20432#msg20432
date=1632504668]
Ugh. I hate pool lady even more post update than before.
[/quote]
Beth, Which one? The dog sitter or the take advantage one who
drove the dog and people to the vet?
(If it is the take advantage one, I agree completely)
[/quote]
The dog sitter! She's HORRIBLE!
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