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#Post#: 17257--------------------------------------------------
Re: Live CHAT 09/17
By: BethinDC2AZ Date: September 17, 2021, 12:03 pm
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I've house sat for my parents. I can't imagine telling their
neighbors to fuck off.
#Post#: 17259--------------------------------------------------
Re: Live CHAT 09/17
By: Chicagogirl22 Date: September 17, 2021, 12:05 pm
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[quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17257#msg17257
date=1631898231]
I've house sat for my parents. I can't imagine telling their
neighbors to fuck off.
[/quote]
The LW took on too much work with no compensation and that is
the problem.
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Re: Live CHAT 09/17
By: badpoodle Date: September 17, 2021, 12:06 pm
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[quote author=Chicagogirl22 link=topic=312.msg17256#msg17256
date=1631898189]
Housekeeper:
First, invent time machine advice.
Do not work for free, even for family and friends. Especially
for family and friends.
Decide exactly what housekeeping and organizing you can do
without resentment and do that. Decided exactly how many guests
you can handle and express that clearly.
Next time, arrange for payment.
[/quote]
I would feel zero bad with pissing off the neighbors if I was
doing this for free.
I would feel slightly bad if I was getting paid, but then I
would talk to Rick who would convince me to feel zero bad about
that either.
#Post#: 17263--------------------------------------------------
Re: Live CHAT 09/17
By: BethinDC2AZ Date: September 17, 2021, 12:07 pm
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[quote author=Chicagogirl22 link=topic=312.msg17259#msg17259
date=1631898300]
[quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17257#msg17257
date=1631898231]
I've house sat for my parents. I can't imagine telling their
neighbors to fuck off.
[/quote]
The LW took on too much work with no compensation and that is
the problem.
[/quote]
She wants the pool by herself and she's throwing a temper
tantrum about having to share.
#Post#: 17264--------------------------------------------------
Re: Live CHAT 09/17
By: ManyHats Date: September 17, 2021, 12:07 pm
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Does anyone else wonder if the neighbors are coming over a lot
more often than they would when LW's relatives are home? I
wouldn't be rude to them, but I'd say something along the lines
of what Hax suggested.
#Post#: 17265--------------------------------------------------
Re: Live CHAT 09/17
By: badpoodle Date: September 17, 2021, 12:08 pm
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[quote author=ManyHats link=topic=312.msg17264#msg17264
date=1631898465]
Does anyone else wonder if the neighbors are coming over a lot
more often than they would when LW's relatives are home? I
wouldn't be rude to them, but I'd say something along the lines
of what Hax suggested.
[/quote]
This was the first thing that crossed my mind.
The neighbor's gone, let's use the pool!
I think I would definitely take the neighbor's advice and lock
all the gates.
#Post#: 17266--------------------------------------------------
Re: Live CHAT 09/17
By: Chicagogirl22 Date: September 17, 2021, 12:10 pm
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[quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17263#msg17263
date=1631898450]
[quote author=Chicagogirl22 link=topic=312.msg17259#msg17259
date=1631898300]
[quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17257#msg17257
date=1631898231]
I've house sat for my parents. I can't imagine telling their
neighbors to fuck off.
[/quote]
The LW took on too much work with no compensation and that is
the problem.
[/quote]
She wants the pool by herself and she's throwing a temper
tantrum about having to share.
[/quote]
I think it’s a cumulative impact situation. The LW is house
sitting for 4 dogs, cleaning, and organizing for a month. For
free.
The neighbors at the pool are easier to be mad at than her
relatives so that’s where this is going.
#Post#: 17267--------------------------------------------------
Re: Live CHAT 09/17
By: ManyHats Date: September 17, 2021, 12:11 pm
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[quote author=badpoodle link=topic=312.msg17265#msg17265
date=1631898535]
[quote author=ManyHats link=topic=312.msg17264#msg17264
date=1631898465]
Does anyone else wonder if the neighbors are coming over a lot
more often than they would when LW's relatives are home? I
wouldn't be rude to them, but I'd say something along the lines
of what Hax suggested.
[/quote]
This was the first thing that crossed my mind.
The neighbor's gone, let's use the pool!
I think I would definitely take the neighbor's advice and lock
all the gates.
[/quote]
Ha! Good one.
#Post#: 17268--------------------------------------------------
Re: Live CHAT 09/17
By: BethinDC2AZ Date: September 17, 2021, 12:12 pm
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[quote author=Chicagogirl22 link=topic=312.msg17266#msg17266
date=1631898649]
[quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17263#msg17263
date=1631898450]
[quote author=Chicagogirl22 link=topic=312.msg17259#msg17259
date=1631898300]
[quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17257#msg17257
date=1631898231]
I've house sat for my parents. I can't imagine telling their
neighbors to fuck off.
[/quote]
The LW took on too much work with no compensation and that is
the problem.
[/quote]
She wants the pool by herself and she's throwing a temper
tantrum about having to share.
[/quote]
I think it’s a cumulative impact situation. The LW is house
sitting for 4 dogs, cleaning, and organizing for a month. For
free.
The neighbors at the pool are easier to be mad at than her
relatives so that’s where this is going.
[/quote]
Eh. I still think she's just pissed she hasn't gotten solo pool
time.
#Post#: 17270--------------------------------------------------
Re: Live CHAT 09/17
By: Chicagogirl22 Date: September 17, 2021, 12:13 pm
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[quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17268#msg17268
date=1631898765]
[quote author=Chicagogirl22 link=topic=312.msg17266#msg17266
date=1631898649]
[quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17263#msg17263
date=1631898450]
[quote author=Chicagogirl22 link=topic=312.msg17259#msg17259
date=1631898300]
[quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17257#msg17257
date=1631898231]
I've house sat for my parents. I can't imagine telling their
neighbors to fuck off.
[/quote]
The LW took on too much work with no compensation and that is
the problem.
[/quote]
She wants the pool by herself and she's throwing a temper
tantrum about having to share.
[/quote]
I think it’s a cumulative impact situation. The LW is house
sitting for 4 dogs, cleaning, and organizing for a month. For
free.
The neighbors at the pool are easier to be mad at than her
relatives so that’s where this is going.
[/quote]
Eh. I still think she's just pissed she hasn't gotten solo pool
time.
[/quote]
I would be pissed, too.
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