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       #Post#: 17257--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Live CHAT 09/17
   DIR By: BethinDC2AZ
       Date: September 17, 2021, 12:03 pm
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       I've house sat for my parents. I can't imagine telling their
       neighbors to fuck off.
       #Post#: 17259--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Live CHAT 09/17
   DIR By: Chicagogirl22
       Date: September 17, 2021, 12:05 pm
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       --- Quote from: BethinDC2AZ link ---
       >
       > I've house sat for my parents. I can't imagine telling their
       neighbors to fuck off.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       The LW took on too much work with no compensation and that is
       the problem.
       #Post#: 17261--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Live CHAT 09/17
   DIR By: badpoodle
       Date: September 17, 2021, 12:06 pm
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       --- Quote from: Chicagogirl22 link ---
       >
       > Housekeeper:
       >
       > First, invent time machine advice.
       >
       > Do not work for free, even for family and friends. Especially
       for family and friends.
       >
       > Decide exactly what housekeeping and organizing you can do
       without resentment and do that. Decided exactly how many guests
       you can handle and express that clearly.
       >
       > Next time, arrange for payment.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       I would feel zero bad with pissing off the neighbors if I was
       doing this for free.
       I would feel slightly bad if I was getting paid, but then I
       would talk to Rick who would convince me to feel zero bad about
       that either.
       #Post#: 17263--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Live CHAT 09/17
   DIR By: BethinDC2AZ
       Date: September 17, 2021, 12:07 pm
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       --- Quote from: Chicagogirl22 link ---
       >
       > [quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17257#msg17257
       date=1631898231]
       > I've house sat for my parents. I can't imagine telling their
       neighbors to fuck off.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       The LW took on too much work with no compensation and that is
       the problem.
       [/quote]
       She wants the pool by herself and she's throwing a temper
       tantrum about having to share.
       #Post#: 17264--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Live CHAT 09/17
   DIR By: ManyHats
       Date: September 17, 2021, 12:07 pm
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       Does anyone else wonder if the neighbors are coming over a lot
       more often than they would when LW's relatives are home? I
       wouldn't be rude to them, but I'd say something along the lines
       of what Hax suggested.
       #Post#: 17265--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Live CHAT 09/17
   DIR By: badpoodle
       Date: September 17, 2021, 12:08 pm
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       --- Quote from: ManyHats link ---
       >
       > Does anyone else wonder if the neighbors are coming over a lot
       more often than they would when LW's relatives are home? I
       wouldn't be rude to them, but I'd say something along the lines
       of what Hax suggested.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       This was the first thing that crossed my mind.
       The neighbor's gone, let's use the pool!
       I think I would definitely take the neighbor's advice and lock
       all the gates.
       #Post#: 17266--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Live CHAT 09/17
   DIR By: Chicagogirl22
       Date: September 17, 2021, 12:10 pm
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       --- Quote from: BethinDC2AZ link ---
       >
       > [quote author=Chicagogirl22 link=topic=312.msg17259#msg17259
       date=1631898300]
       > [quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17257#msg17257
       date=1631898231]
       > I've house sat for my parents. I can't imagine telling their
       neighbors to fuck off.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       The LW took on too much work with no compensation and that is
       the problem.
       [/quote]
       She wants the pool by herself and she's throwing a temper
       tantrum about having to share.
       [/quote]
       I think it’s a cumulative impact situation. The LW is house
       sitting for 4 dogs, cleaning, and organizing for a month. For
       free.
       The neighbors at the pool are easier to be mad at than her
       relatives so that’s where this is going.
       #Post#: 17267--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Live CHAT 09/17
   DIR By: ManyHats
       Date: September 17, 2021, 12:11 pm
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       --- Quote from: badpoodle link ---
       >
       > [quote author=ManyHats link=topic=312.msg17264#msg17264
       date=1631898465]
       > Does anyone else wonder if the neighbors are coming over a lot
       more often than they would when LW's relatives are home? I
       wouldn't be rude to them, but I'd say something along the lines
       of what Hax suggested.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       This was the first thing that crossed my mind.
       The neighbor's gone, let's use the pool!
       I think I would definitely take the neighbor's advice and lock
       all the gates.
       [/quote]
       Ha! Good one.
       #Post#: 17268--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Live CHAT 09/17
   DIR By: BethinDC2AZ
       Date: September 17, 2021, 12:12 pm
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       --- Quote from: Chicagogirl22 link ---
       >
       > [quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17263#msg17263
       date=1631898450]
       > [quote author=Chicagogirl22 link=topic=312.msg17259#msg17259
       date=1631898300]
       > [quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17257#msg17257
       date=1631898231]
       > I've house sat for my parents. I can't imagine telling their
       neighbors to fuck off.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       The LW took on too much work with no compensation and that is
       the problem.
       [/quote]
       She wants the pool by herself and she's throwing a temper
       tantrum about having to share.
       [/quote]
       I think it’s a cumulative impact situation. The LW is house
       sitting for 4 dogs, cleaning, and organizing for a month. For
       free.
       The neighbors at the pool are easier to be mad at than her
       relatives so that’s where this is going.
       [/quote]
       Eh. I still think she's just pissed she hasn't gotten solo pool
       time.
       #Post#: 17270--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Live CHAT 09/17
   DIR By: Chicagogirl22
       Date: September 17, 2021, 12:13 pm
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       --- Quote from: BethinDC2AZ link ---
       >
       > [quote author=Chicagogirl22 link=topic=312.msg17266#msg17266
       date=1631898649]
       > [quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17263#msg17263
       date=1631898450]
       > [quote author=Chicagogirl22 link=topic=312.msg17259#msg17259
       date=1631898300]
       > [quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=312.msg17257#msg17257
       date=1631898231]
       > I've house sat for my parents. I can't imagine telling their
       neighbors to fuck off.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       The LW took on too much work with no compensation and that is
       the problem.
       [/quote]
       She wants the pool by herself and she's throwing a temper
       tantrum about having to share.
       [/quote]
       I think it’s a cumulative impact situation. The LW is house
       sitting for 4 dogs, cleaning, and organizing for a month. For
       free.
       The neighbors at the pool are easier to be mad at than her
       relatives so that’s where this is going.
       [/quote]
       Eh. I still think she's just pissed she hasn't gotten solo pool
       time.
       [/quote]
       I would be pissed, too.
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