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Re: Live Chat 09/10
By: buffylover73 Date: September 10, 2021, 11:17 am
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[quote author=BethinDC2AZ link=topic=277.msg14053#msg14053
date=1631290465]
I'm just the worst person ever for not getting all panty twisted
over paying for kid's college? So they'll have to take out
loans. Just like I did. Big whoop. Welcome to adulthood where
shit doesn't always work out the way you thought it would.
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I don't know of anyone who funded their kids' college, although
it would have been wonderful to do so. My parents had no way to
fund it. I took out loans and got grants. Worked full-time.
Doable.
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Re: Live Chat 09/10
By: AbidingDudev4.1 Date: September 10, 2021, 11:18 am
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So we are not going to chat about the chat in our own chatroom?
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Re: Live Chat 09/10
By: animaniactoo Date: September 10, 2021, 11:19 am
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[quote author=AbidingDudev4.1 link=topic=277.msg14060#msg14060
date=1631290685]
So we are not going to chat about the chat in our own chatroom?
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Lol, I was thinking we should try that out next week. ;)
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Re: Live Chat 09/10
By: VagueMagician Date: September 10, 2021, 11:19 am
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Is there really a "black mark" though? Most employers will not
tell anyone any details about your employment.
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Re: Live Chat 09/10
By: buffylover73 Date: September 10, 2021, 11:21 am
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[quote author=VagueMagician link=topic=277.msg14063#msg14063
date=1631290789]
Is there really a "black mark" though? Most employers will not
tell anyone any details about your employment.
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Depends on the industry. While our company policy is to not
comment on why we've parted ways with an employee, it's a niche
department and it seems that everyone at our competitors knows
the real reason.
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Re: Live Chat 09/10
By: Heron Date: September 10, 2021, 11:21 am
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Carolyn's trudging through the pandemic, too. Is ANYONE his or
her best self right now? I know I sure ain't.
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Re: Live Chat 09/10
By: Esme Rain Date: September 10, 2021, 11:22 am
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[quote author=Queenie link=topic=277.msg14052#msg14052
date=1631290446]
Is it me, or is Hax just meaner now? I mean, there are two
sides to every story and Hax isn't even considering the other
side: Was Husband the breadwinner? Had he been carrying the
family financially for decades and gotten burnt out? Were the
financial goals really family goals, or were they goals that LW
had set for the both of them? Could fear and shame, rather than
just being a morally bankrupt asshole, have played a role? I
mean, look how LW reacted once the truth came out.
YES, I am definitely making this up. Defnitely. After watching
my XSIL harangue my brother for decades about how he didn't make
enough money to fund her lavish and expensive tastes I'm a
little bit trigger happy on that subject.
I do agree that counseling is in order, this is definitely a big
one. This family is not a team.
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Could be. "Stealing his salary" reflects her disappointment
but also may be an escalation of mistakes caused by....anything
really? Promoted out of his competence, cognitive issues from
medical or other problems, burn out as you say.....
Answer still leads to counselling. Let her vent her spleen
there and it may become more clear. Husband may be "making the
best of things" rather than happy about the situation.
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Re: Live Chat 09/10
By: BethinDC2AZ Date: September 10, 2021, 11:22 am
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Bad driver dude needs to lose his damn license. That LW could
have been describing my step dad. He no longer drives and the
world rejoices. And it hasn't really slowed him down thanks to
Uber.
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Re: Live Chat 09/10
By: Queenie Date: September 10, 2021, 11:22 am
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I'd straight up lie to the old people: "I just get so anxious
unless I'm the one driving. I hope you don't mind."
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Re: Live Chat 09/10
By: animaniactoo Date: September 10, 2021, 11:22 am
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The next time he says it worked out for the best, I would
probably say "Best for YOU" and then ask him to stop trying to
convince/tell me that it worked out for the best. Yeah, I'm on
board with take this into counseling because this is a shock to
the system.
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