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       Re: Adult Kid-Parent Relationships
       By: Queenie Date: September 4, 2024, 1:33 pm
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       [quote author=muskrat link=topic=2639.msg271986#msg271986
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       "....all I did was apps (sliders), sides (mango-jalapeno slaw,
       roast potatoes,  grilled eggplant, corn on the cob and nice
       crusty bread) and dessert  (peach cobbler with ice cream)."
       damn girl, your "all i did was"  sounds freaking a w e s o m e.
       imagine if you'd had even more time:  i'm crying into my lameazz
       peanutbutter sandwich dinner at the mere thought of what that
       spread wouldve tasted like.
       here, have a spare crown for pulling it off.
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       Feeding people.
       It's what I do.
       #Post#: 292957--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Adult Kid-Parent Relationships
       By: billieryder Date: December 21, 2024, 10:24 am
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       This is just to say I'm frustrated by my stepson.  Since I was
       diagnosed with my cancer he has been too busy to see me.  I
       literally left a VM to tell him I had cancer because I'd been
       trying to reach out for months
       I have seen him once in Nov because they crashed at my house in
       an emergency situation.  Since then, he cancelled seeing me on
       my birthday (last minute), set a new date then asked for yet
       another new date and then canceled on the new date at the last
       minute.  He suggested today as the next date.  Yesterday he
       suggested a change from dinner to morning.  When I asked for a
       time, he responded at 11am saying could it be later and now it's
       back at dinner.  What are the chances that he will cancel
       dinner?
       All the advice says to be open to reconnecting but I feel like
       he just doesn't want to see me and I am being yanked around at
       his pleasure.
       I've been told her wants to help (not by him) but there is no
       way I would ask him for help.  What if he bailed at the last
       minute?  I could be going to Philly for instance and discover
       the night before that I have no dog sitter.
       Vent over.
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       Re: Adult Kid-Parent Relationships
       By: kkt Date: December 21, 2024, 11:24 am
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       I'm sorry, Billie.  Probably he has trouble processing his
       feelings about your cancer and part of that trouble includes
       less contact.  I hope he'll improve.
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