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       Re: Aging Parents
       By: Roselynn39 Date: August 30, 2021, 10:29 am
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       [quote author=CaviaPorcellus link=topic=21.msg8770#msg8770
       date=1630281720]
       Hopefully! I'm just very annoyed that it took a hospital trip
       when I TOLD SIS TO GET HER SCREENED FOR A UTI, and her response
       was "that's not likely".
       One of us has worked in nursing homes before! I don't generally
       know more than the, you know, nurse practitioner about these
       things, but when it comes to dementia patients and UTIs? That's
       apparently my knowledge base, baby. Don't say no before you get
       the screening!
       [/quote]
       My first thought on this, when first posted, was an UTI. But I
       thought you said they had tested your Mom. Your sister's reply
       of "that's not likely" doesn't make sense. My mother was ALWAYS
       tested for UTI, especially in an ER or hospital setting. Always
       had one. Granted, she was in her 90s. I do think age makes a
       difference.
       I started going to an internist at 50. I have never gone without
       being given an urinalysis as part of the visit.
       Good luck now that they figured it out.
       #Post#: 8929--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Aging Parents
       By: guest80 Date: August 30, 2021, 10:45 am
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       [quote author=Roselynn39 link=topic=21.msg8922#msg8922
       date=1630337394]
       [quote author=CaviaPorcellus link=topic=21.msg8770#msg8770
       date=1630281720]
       Hopefully! I'm just very annoyed that it took a hospital trip
       when I TOLD SIS TO GET HER SCREENED FOR A UTI, and her response
       was "that's not likely".
       One of us has worked in nursing homes before! I don't generally
       know more than the, you know, nurse practitioner about these
       things, but when it comes to dementia patients and UTIs? That's
       apparently my knowledge base, baby. Don't say no before you get
       the screening!
       [/quote]
       My first thought on this, when first posted, was an UTI. But I
       thought you said they had tested your Mom. Your sister's reply
       of "that's not likely" doesn't make sense. My mother was ALWAYS
       tested for UTI, especially in an ER or hospital setting. Always
       had one. Granted, she was in her 90s. I do think age makes a
       difference.
       I started going to an internist at 50. I have never gone without
       being given an urinalysis as part of the visit.
       Good luck now that they figured it out.
       [/quote]
       That's interesting about your urinalysis tests.  I'm 68 and it's
       not a normal part of my exams.
       #Post#: 8964--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Aging Parents
       By: Roselynn39 Date: August 30, 2021, 11:24 am
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       [quote author=Rufus1952 link=topic=21.msg8929#msg8929
       date=1630338303]
       [quote author=Roselynn39 link=topic=21.msg8922#msg8922
       date=1630337394]
       [quote author=CaviaPorcellus link=topic=21.msg8770#msg8770
       date=1630281720]
       Hopefully! I'm just very annoyed that it took a hospital trip
       when I TOLD SIS TO GET HER SCREENED FOR A UTI, and her response
       was "that's not likely".
       One of us has worked in nursing homes before! I don't generally
       know more than the, you know, nurse practitioner about these
       things, but when it comes to dementia patients and UTIs? That's
       apparently my knowledge base, baby. Don't say no before you get
       the screening!
       [/quote]
       My first thought on this, when first posted, was an UTI. But I
       thought you said they had tested your Mom. Your sister's reply
       of "that's not likely" doesn't make sense. My mother was ALWAYS
       tested for UTI, especially in an ER or hospital setting. Always
       had one. Granted, she was in her 90s. I do think age makes a
       difference.
       I started going to an internist at 50. I have never gone without
       being given an urinalysis as part of the visit.
       Good luck now that they figured it out.
       [/quote]
       That's interesting about your urinalysis tests.  I'm 68 and it's
       not a normal part of my exams.
       [/quote]
       "Does Medicare Cover Urinalysis?
       A urinalysis is a common and frequently used diagnostic test
       that may be done in an inpatient or outpatient setting. A doctor
       usually orders a urinalysis as part of a routine health check-up
       or prior to certain medical procedures."
       Mine was done as routine, not for a medical procedure.
       #Post#: 8972--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Aging Parents
       By: northbayteky Date: August 30, 2021, 11:41 am
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       [quote author=CaviaPorcellus link=topic=21.msg8770#msg8770
       date=1630281720]
       ... but when it comes to dementia patients and UTIs? That's
       apparently my knowledge base, baby. Don't say no before you get
       the screening!
       [/quote]
       Before my MIL wen to the care facility she would get UTIs on a
       regular basis and the symptoms they present aren't the symptoms
       *I* would be looking for if I thought I had a UTI.
       #Post#: 9240--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Aging Parents
       By: NordicDog Date: August 30, 2021, 5:25 pm
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       [quote author=northbayteky link=topic=21.msg8972#msg8972
       date=1630341719]
       [quote author=CaviaPorcellus link=topic=21.msg8770#msg8770
       date=1630281720]
       ... but when it comes to dementia patients and UTIs? That's
       apparently my knowledge base, baby. Don't say no before you get
       the screening!
       [/quote]
       Before my MIL wen to the care facility she would get UTIs on a
       regular basis and the symptoms they present aren't the symptoms
       *I* would be looking for if I thought I had a UTI.
       [/quote]
       My MIL has had two UTIs in as many years. It makes her dementia
       so much worse.  Thankfully she comes back from it.
       #Post#: 9242--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Aging Parents
       By: Thetis099 Date: August 30, 2021, 5:31 pm
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       [quote author=Rufus1952 link=topic=21.msg8929#msg8929
       date=1630338303]
       [quote author=Roselynn39 link=topic=21.msg8922#msg8922
       date=1630337394]
       [quote author=CaviaPorcellus link=topic=21.msg8770#msg8770
       date=1630281720]
       Hopefully! I'm just very annoyed that it took a hospital trip
       when I TOLD SIS TO GET HER SCREENED FOR A UTI, and her response
       was "that's not likely".
       One of us has worked in nursing homes before! I don't generally
       know more than the, you know, nurse practitioner about these
       things, but when it comes to dementia patients and UTIs? That's
       apparently my knowledge base, baby. Don't say no before you get
       the screening!
       [/quote]
       My first thought on this, when first posted, was an UTI. But I
       thought you said they had tested your Mom. Your sister's reply
       of "that's not likely" doesn't make sense. My mother was ALWAYS
       tested for UTI, especially in an ER or hospital setting. Always
       had one. Granted, she was in her 90s. I do think age makes a
       difference.
       I started going to an internist at 50. I have never gone without
       being given an urinalysis as part of the visit.
       Good luck now that they figured it out.
       [/quote]
       That's interesting about your urinalysis tests.  I'm 68 and it's
       not a normal part of my exams.
       [/quote]
       I am relieved they figured out the problem and that it is
       treatable.
       I am 50-ish, and urinalysis is not part of my yearly well woman
       exam.  I have wondered about this because in my 30s urinalysis
       was frequently done along with bloodwork every year.  Planned
       Parenthood saved me in my 30s.   They were my only real health
       care when I was a starving  student without medical insurance.
       Gotta love on Planned Parenthood!  The GI specialists tested me
       for every intestinal parasite but did not do a urinalysis.  I
       realized this in late 2019, it has been at least 5 years since
       any of my doctors ordered one.  Should I ask for this to be a
       part of my checkup?
       #Post#: 9253--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Aging Parents
       By: HeddyL2627 Date: August 30, 2021, 5:45 pm
       ---------------------------------------------------------
       [quote author=Thetis099 link=topic=21.msg9242#msg9242
       date=1630362678]
       [quote author=Rufus1952 link=topic=21.msg8929#msg8929
       date=1630338303]
       [quote author=Roselynn39 link=topic=21.msg8922#msg8922
       date=1630337394]
       [quote author=CaviaPorcellus link=topic=21.msg8770#msg8770
       date=1630281720]
       Hopefully! I'm just very annoyed that it took a hospital trip
       when I TOLD SIS TO GET HER SCREENED FOR A UTI, and her response
       was "that's not likely".
       One of us has worked in nursing homes before! I don't generally
       know more than the, you know, nurse practitioner about these
       things, but when it comes to dementia patients and UTIs? That's
       apparently my knowledge base, baby. Don't say no before you get
       the screening!
       [/quote]
       My first thought on this, when first posted, was an UTI. But I
       thought you said they had tested your Mom. Your sister's reply
       of "that's not likely" doesn't make sense. My mother was ALWAYS
       tested for UTI, especially in an ER or hospital setting. Always
       had one. Granted, she was in her 90s. I do think age makes a
       difference.
       I started going to an internist at 50. I have never gone without
       being given an urinalysis as part of the visit.
       Good luck now that they figured it out.
       [/quote]
       That's interesting about your urinalysis tests.  I'm 68 and it's
       not a normal part of my exams.
       [/quote]
       I am relieved they figured out the problem and that it is
       treatable.
       I am 50-ish, and urinalysis is not part of my yearly well woman
       exam.  I have wondered about this because in my 30s urinalysis
       was frequently done along with bloodwork every year.  Planned
       Parenthood saved me in my 30s.   They were my only real health
       care when I was a starving  student without medical insurance.
       Gotta love on Planned Parenthood!  The GI specialists tested me
       for every intestinal parasite but did not do a urinalysis.  I
       realized this in late 2019, it has been at least 5 years since
       any of my doctors ordered one.  Should I ask for this to be a
       part of my checkup?
       [/quote]
       I wouldn't bother. UTIs are an acute concern, not long-term.
       Even if you haven't had one, I'd think the symptoms are hard to
       miss: painful/burning urination, severely increased frequency,
       cloudy, red/pink, pelvic pain. Anyone with normal awareness will
       recognize the symptoms.
       Un-detected UTIs are a far bigger concern in paraplegics and
       anyone with mental impairment.
       #Post#: 9309--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Aging Parents
       By: CaviaPorcellus Date: August 30, 2021, 6:54 pm
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       [quote author=NordicDog link=topic=21.msg9240#msg9240
       date=1630362337]
       [quote author=northbayteky link=topic=21.msg8972#msg8972
       date=1630341719]
       [quote author=CaviaPorcellus link=topic=21.msg8770#msg8770
       date=1630281720]
       ... but when it comes to dementia patients and UTIs? That's
       apparently my knowledge base, baby. Don't say no before you get
       the screening!
       [/quote]
       Before my MIL wen to the care facility she would get UTIs on a
       regular basis and the symptoms they present aren't the symptoms
       *I* would be looking for if I thought I had a UTI.
       [/quote]
       My MIL has had two UTIs in as many years. It makes her dementia
       so much worse.  Thankfully she comes back from it.
       [/quote]
       It really is a miraculous turnaround, isn't it? When I talked to
       her yesterday, I could tell immediately that she'd been treated,
       because she used DC's correct name throughout the conversation -
       when she's foggy she'll call him my Uncle D's first name
       instead.
       #Post#: 9344--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Aging Parents
       By: guest80 Date: August 30, 2021, 7:51 pm
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       Just posting that I know UTI's symptoms differ in the elderly.
       Many of them do not have the symptoms younger women get.  They
       often just become confused, especially if they haave dementia.
       I am nearly 70, I've never had a UTI.
       I don't know when the symptoms change.
       #Post#: 9757--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Aging Parents
       By: Queenie Date: August 31, 2021, 2:26 pm
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       Long story, slightly shorter:
       My mom's ceiling fell in (plumbing disaster), covered by
       homeowner's insurance, huzzah.
       Her cordless phone from 1912 was destroyed, and the homeowner's
       person told her to buy a new one and send him the bill.
       But she can't.  So Mr. Q researched cordless phones and checked
       all the reviews and found one that's better for seniors (larger
       size numbers, etc) and basically I ordered it on her credit card
       because she can't work the walmart website.
       And then it arrived but she evidently couldn't figure out how to
       plug it in.  I mean, really?  So she brought it to our house and
       Mr Q very patiently basically did everything except actually
       plug it into the wall because of course we were at my house, not
       hers.  He set up her phone book and her speed dial and he
       assembled the wall bracket and threaded the cord through and my
       God he is just a thousand times a better person than I because I
       really don't think I could have done it without losing my
       temper.
       Anyway it's working now.  Yay?
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