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       #Post#: 1187--------------------------------------------------
       Motives and mentality for Pro Spankees & Switches
   DIR By: Slowcoach
       Date: October 25, 2013, 2:09 pm
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       I am wondering why so many pros choose to earn their as
       spankees. A lot of them don't know who is going to whack them
       from one day to the next and they don't know the levels of skill
       or otherwise of those who session with them. Do they enjoy being
       spanked every day or is it just a way of earning a living?
       In the case of spankees who Switch, would it not be easier just
       to do topping and become CP specialists?
       If someone such as myself (sub only) sessions with a switch are
       they likely to be disappointed that they are not getting their
       turn at being spanked or are they more likely to think, "That's,
       OK, makes it an easier session for me."
       There are three questions here (see bold font) and if you prefer
       to answer ALL three, that's great or just pick out one if that
       is easier.
       
       #Post#: 1210--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Motives and mentality for Pro Spankees & Switches
   DIR By: jonpayne
       Date: October 30, 2013, 9:24 am
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       A very thought-provoking post, Slowcoach, which deserves some
       response.
       Obviously, I am not a pro switch. :))  I do seem to recall
       seeing a post on ITC from Buffy Brown in which she said her
       switch rate was only £10 more than her domme rate, which makes
       me suspect she is quite happy being frequently spanked. Another
       switch and prolific ITC poster, Tara Red, has never, to my
       knowledge, posted anything negative about being on the receiving
       end.  So I reckon this is irrefutable evidence that switches
       enjoy being spanked, and it's not just about the money ::)  And
       yes, my tongue is firmly in my cheek. Only a pro switch could
       tell us what her motivation is, and no doubt different girls
       will have different motivations.
       #Post#: 1211--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Motives and mentality for Pro Spankees & Switches
   DIR By: Slowcoach
       Date: October 30, 2013, 10:13 am
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       --- Quote from: jonpayne link ---
       >
       > A very thought-provoking post, Slowcoach, which deserves some
       response.
       >
       > Obviously, I am not a pro switch. :))  I do seem to recall
       seeing a post on ITC from Buffy Brown in which she said her
       switch rate was only £10 more than her domme rate, which makes
       me suspect she is quite happy being frequently spanked. Another
       switch and prolific ITC poster, Tara Red, has never, to my
       knowledge, posted anything negative about being on the receiving
       end.  So I reckon this is irrefutable evidence that switches
       enjoy being spanked, and it's not just about the money ::)  And
       yes, my tongue is firmly in my cheek. Only a pro switch could
       tell us what her motivation is, and no doubt different girls
       will have different motivations.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       Yes, it is hard to know their mindsets which must be very
       different, I guess. You mention some good examples and both
       Tara-Red and Jo Scissons appear to thoroughly enjoy being
       whacked. One who definitely does is Leia Woods and she will
       think nothing of taking 90 cold as a prelude to her Bottoms Up
       parties if one can believe all that one reads. Katharina Krieger
       - ITC Mag and Barnet, north London claims to have the hardest
       hand in the business and she is reputed to be very good with the
       cane, yet she still advertises asking for a good caning herself.
       See her latest ad in ITC Mag.  I often wonder whether these
       switches are a bit disappointed when someone such as myself (sub
       only) turns up and I am not able to provide the necessary. On
       the other hand, you would think that they were glad to give
       their backside a rest!
       One great disadvantage of not switching is that it then means
       that you get no respite and in the standard hour long session
       you get 60 mins of stick! (Literally to some extent!). Not good
       for those of us with delicate and tender backsides. My behind is
       looking great at the moment so I will be out to play just as
       soon as the bank manager (a lady) gives me the go ahead. I will
       be seeing her shortly and I will raise the matter - any chance
       that if I go to the bank she might close a few minutes early and
       then take me back into her room for a brief session - what a
       fantasy!  Anyone volunteering to dress up as a lady bank
       manager? Material for role play here, methinks :))
       Incidentally, where the hell is everyone? No Grant/No Krystal -
       what's going on?  They haven't all sloped off to Kettering
       without inviting us, I hope! :))
       #Post#: 1213--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Motives and mentality for Pro Spankees & Switches
   DIR By: Peter Saunders
       Date: October 31, 2013, 3:20 am
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       Are you suggesting Krystal should dress as a bank manager?  I
       will think about that idea as I hope to visit her soon.
       #Post#: 1214--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Motives and mentality for Pro Spankees & Switches
   DIR By: Slowcoach
       Date: October 31, 2013, 3:51 am
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       --- Quote from: Peter Saunders link ---
       >
       > Are you suggesting Krystal should dress as a bank manager?  I
       will think about that idea as I hope to visit her soon.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       Now, there's a thought, Peter!!!
       You might go in to see the lady bank manager (pre-booked
       appointment) to ask for a personal loan or extension to your
       overdraft.
       Unfortunately, you have not been very discrete and the lady bank
       manager after picking up some clues indicating spanking tribute
       outgoings from your bank statements begins to question you about
       all your expenditure. Are you being careful about this and that
       in terms of outgoings, she asks? But then come some rather
       deeper embarrassing probing questions. At first, you hope to
       wriggle out and explain things away but this becomes
       increasingly difficult as the in depth examination of your
       account and expenditure becomes evermore closely scrutinised.
       All the time, the lady bank manager is flashing her legs and
       offering slight innuendo with body language. This scares you to
       death as an innocent first year student who is still a bit wet
       behind the ears and you try to avoid your embarrassment but it
       starts to tell on you - you enquire as to the state of the
       heating in the bank as it seems increasingly warm to you as she
       causes you to sweat up in embarrassment.
       Eventually, she asks whether you would be open to some advice in
       terms of saving you money. Like the proverbial lamb to the
       slaughter you bleat agreement and feeling over-powered and
       overwhelmed would never dream of arguing with her. Then much to
       your shock and surprise, she pulls a cane out from below the
       desk, suggesting that those pro fees can be saved. It is closing
       time for the bank and everyone else appears to be departing the
       bank and the doors are being pulled shut. Oh! My Goodness!!
       You might need some non role play warm up before you try this
       one (or a variation thereof) but feel free to try it if you can
       persuade Krystal into dressing up as a provocative young lady
       bank manager!  Someone ought to try this one, methinks! :))
       #Post#: 1215--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Motives and mentality for Pro Spankees & Switches
   DIR By: Peter Saunders
       Date: October 31, 2013, 7:16 am
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       You could turn this into a story slowcoach, AFTER you have
       visited Krystal and experienced the next few paragraphs
       personally.
       #Post#: 1216--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Motives and mentality for Pro Spankees & Switches
   DIR By: Slowcoach
       Date: October 31, 2013, 7:31 am
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       Oh, dear!  I thought that you were going to try the temperature
       of the swimming pool first, Peter?
       You know me, as Slowcoach, I always follow rather than leading!!
       :))
       Where is the good lady anyway?
       We need her back before any of us can contemplate anything.
       I have a feeling that Krystal does not do lady bank manager role
       play and I even heard another rumour that she has given up
       caning naughty boys as on reflection she considers it a cruel
       and rather archaic way of dealing with them in the 21st century!
       Have you or has anyone else heard anything of these rumours???
       I cling to hope!
       #Post#: 1217--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Motives and mentality for Pro Spankees & Switches
   DIR By: Peter Saunders
       Date: October 31, 2013, 10:06 am
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       Will try to make contact with Krystal slowcoach and see how she
       is.  Unlike her to be this quiet.
       #Post#: 1218--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Motives and mentality for Pro Spankees & Switches
   DIR By: Slowcoach
       Date: October 31, 2013, 2:50 pm
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       --- Quote from: Peter Saunders link ---
       >
       > Will try to make contact with Krystal slowcoach and see how
       she is.  Unlike her to be this quiet.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       Thanks for this kind offer, Peter!
       At the end of the day, we can't run the bank without the lady
       bank manager >:D
       I was hoping that the bank customers would be queuing up to try
       out my role play scenario :))
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