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Re: Introvert or extrovert?
By: NealC Date: November 17, 2018, 5:13 pm
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Steve the married couple were both yuppie lawyers, and each had
their own lawyer to represent them.
Like I said, a sh*t storm.
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Re: Introvert or extrovert?
By: SHL Date: November 17, 2018, 7:56 pm
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Yeah, every State has its own divorce laws, so it`s all
different from place to place. Even within one State if you just
cross a County line the Local Rules can dramatically change so
you have to be up on all the differences, so that drives you
nuts. And, you have to sort of know the Judges, like the ones to
avoid, if you know what I mean?
Some. Judges are great and others not so. We only have 4 in my
County devoted solely to family law, and I get along with them
all pretty well. So, there really is this „home team advantage“
going on in the courthouses. If the Judges knows and likes you
you can get a lot better result for your clients (even though
„Justice is Blind“ as they say......yeah right. Got it. )
But, yes, even lawyers who do family law hire their own lawyers
to represent them in their own divorces (the smart ones do
anyway). I did. It`s just nice because it puts a cushion between
you and your warring spouse. Plus if you do this kind of stuff
yourself, you know who is good out there in the field, and who
is not. So, I picked a really good lady to represent me. Doctors
do the same thing. They know who to go to and whom to avoid when
they need a doc.
My ex-lawyer is now a Judge herself in the same courthouse,
doing the same kinds of cases, so if I have a case before her
she has to tell the other side she represented me once but she
still believes she can be fair. But, it`s never been a problem.
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Re: Introvert or extrovert?
By: Chizuko hanji Date: November 19, 2018, 10:32 am
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Last week I finished learning about the article about the
personal test in my lessons with Nikola, then she told me I
should read this discussion. She is my teacher.
The article in Nikola's lesson
HTML http://www.bbc.com/capital/story/20181030-why-type-a-isnt-really-a-thing
Personality shouldn't be categorized in just only two or three
types like you're introvert not extrorvert. Even though if you
were an introvert, you might have some traits of extrovert too.
That's why someone made a word "ambivert"
The personality better is understood by a sliding scale not
categorizing. I agree with Alharacas and Susan.
I used to be confused by a question, "Are you an extrovert,
right? You are very friendly."
I like to talk with people and go to the parties but I often
feel like "I want to go home and read a book, and listen to
music alone" during the party.
Then I think I'm a lair. I'm an introvert person who is
pretending an extrovert.
I googled if someone has the same feeling as me.
Here you go,
HTML https://psych2go.net/5-side-effects-occur-introvert-pretends-extrovert/
I'll read it later because I don't have time now. I have to read
another article for my lessons with Nikola. It's about
Psychopaths. ...what am I studying? It sounds like a perfect
introvert thing. ;D
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Re: Introvert or extrovert?
By: Chizuko hanji Date: November 19, 2018, 10:59 am
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I think you've seen this TED. I just watched it a few years ago.
It presented in 2012.
HTML https://www.ted.com/talks/susan_cain_the_power_of_introverts
I always think why people prefer being extrovert. The lady in
the video says like, "being an introvert is not shame"
It is strange for me that she had to give such a presentation.
On the other word, she excused for being an introvert.
People love categorizing personalty, "you are Type A" or "You
are an introvert." because it's easy to understand. It often
becomes a trend that you want to catch up with.
Actually the definition of personalty is not easy. The brains
and minds of human being are complicated, interesting and even
beautiful.
That's why we are discussing, researching and studying
endlessly.
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Re: Introvert or extrovert?
By: Allie Date: November 19, 2018, 1:12 pm
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[quote author=Chizuko link=topic=618.msg9362#msg9362
date=1542645176]
Then I think I'm a lair. I'm an introvert person who is
pretending an extrovert.
[/quote]
You're not a liar and it could be worse.
At least you're just an introvert pretending to be an extrovert.
I am a plain rude conceited asshole who pretends to be an
introvert :)
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Re: Introvert or extrovert?
By: Susan Date: November 19, 2018, 7:12 pm
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Chizuko, don´t think of yourself as a liar pretending to be an
extrovert. In her book, Dr. Cain has a much better label for
this a ¨socially adapted introvert.¨ People think you are an
extrovert, but you yourself know you function better when you
limit the stimulation and give yourself breaks from too much of
it.
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