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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: -americanjoe- Date: January 18, 2020, 10:13 am
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The following is from The Art of War, (Sun Tzu) "Laying Plans."
I sometimes refer to this book at work, and the soldiers I
instruct are often surprised that the philosophy and the
conceptualized tactics in it were written in the 5th century BC.
Divorce is type of war, although most men do not see it as such,
which puts them at a distinct disadvantage in the contest as it
appears to me women acknowledge this fact much earlier.
In your case, the applicable lines are: 18, 20, 22, 24.
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18. All warfare is based upon deception.
19. Hence, when able to attack, we must seem unable; when using
our forces, we must seem inactive; when we are near, we must
make the enemy believe we are far away; when far away, we must
make him believe we are near.
20. Hold out baits to entice the enemy.
Feign disorder, and crush him.
21. If he is secure at all points, be prepared for him.
If he is in superior strength, evade him.
22. If your opponent is of choleric temper, seek to irritate
him.
Pretend to be weak, that he may grow arrogant.
23. If he is taking his ease, give him no rest.
If his forces are united, separate them.
24. Attack him where he is unprepared, appear where you are not
expected.
25. These military devices, leading to victory, must not be
divulged beforehand.
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: Bashtard Date: January 19, 2020, 5:02 am
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I have been too nice for too long. Told her £250k to buy me off.
Not bad for 7 years total and 4 years of marriage.
Her parents will freak out as blatantly it now looks like I was
only ever with her to rob her.
Too long I have been the good public school values Ex partner.
Just take it on the chin and don't drop to her level.
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: -americanjoe- Date: January 20, 2020, 10:27 am
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Two things to remember in this struggle are summed up below by
Sun Tzu:
1. "Deceit is commonly used as a strategy and in planning
tactics.
Watch for things that seem easy, for they may easily be a
dangled bait, designed to catch the unwary with a hidden hook
that will snag and prevent escape."
2. "When a foe is cornered, they must fight for their lives and
will do so with the energy of final fear.
If you force them to go down in a blaze of glory they will do
so, taking more of your troops than you might otherwise expend.
Also, slaughtering an army will gain you the enmity of their
family and country, who will arise at a later time to take
revenge.
It is often better to allow a graceful retreat in the direction
of your choosing.
This is offering the enemy a 'golden bridge'.
Once you have shown your superiority, you will be able to
negotiate an advantageous peace."
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: guest39 Date: January 21, 2020, 9:43 am
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Ever seen the Bill Burr bit about there being an epidemic of
gold digging whores?
Why don't you earn your own money you sad sack, rather than
getting a rich **** pregnant so you can earn £250k.
What a poor child, will probably be in therapy for life.
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: Bashtard Date: January 21, 2020, 12:11 pm
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Not just 1. I have 4 children by 3 mothers. Banging rich and
independent women is what feminism is about. Get them knocked up
and then leave them. Nobody needs men in this modern era.
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: Bashtard Date: January 30, 2020, 5:09 pm
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My 76 year old father has decided to step up after remaining
silent for 10 years. He is driving to Cambridge to sort her out.
Apparently she has been sobbing down the phone to my mother.
Saying I am being mean and nasty asking for 250k.
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: Ducky Date: January 31, 2020, 12:53 am
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Oh dear.
HTML https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=phrGmOIwIE0
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: Bashtard Date: February 2, 2020, 2:26 pm
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Finally the truth has come out. She has a job offer which means
moving to Sweden. She came clean. She wants to start a new life
in Sweden. She has thought it through. Children will go to
international schools where they will be taught in English.
University education will be all paid for. There is no better
country on earth to raise children in especially as a single
mother. Swedish tax payers will pick up the bill for my children
to go on and do phDs.
It took me a few seconds to agree. It is the best thing that
could happen to my children. Escape Brexshit Britain where
living standards will plummet for everyone but the rich and go
to a socialist utopia within the EU.
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: LindumColonia Date: February 10, 2020, 12:58 pm
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Why shouldn't you ask for a cut?....just chuck an amount in
there and if shes daft enough to pay you half of that you're a
winner.
Go for it.
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: Ducky Date: February 11, 2020, 12:39 am
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