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Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: Bashtard Date: January 17, 2020, 12:26 am
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The French scientist who I left in the family home with all
possessions and no claim on her millions has emailed me. She
wants me to agree to a clean break order.
I have no intention of ever going after her money but she seems
scared. Her super rich step father (descended from royal family
of Burgundy) must be about to croak or has died.
She thinks I am just going to sign because I now have a large
income...... I am in Austria. Really don't need to be messing
around with solicitors now when my life has moved on. She can
sweat it out for another few years.
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: Ducky Date: January 17, 2020, 12:37 am
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Tell her to go sit and swivel.
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: Bashtard Date: January 17, 2020, 1:00 am
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Kind of what I told her. From my side I never get a clean break
until the children turn 21 as she can still chase me for child
support. So I need the option of robbing her blind in court in
case she ever tries to take me for 20k a year child support.
I think she is pissed that I am in Austria and imagines I am off
with Austrian women from work making babies.
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: -americanjoe- Date: January 17, 2020, 3:00 am
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Hey bro, maybe you're overthinking this thing.
Maybe what's on here is more like in this song, as in, your ex
is Sanatana (the Asian chic singing) and you're Brittney (the
cute cheerleader)?
HTML https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ticTzO8ptY
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: Bashtard Date: January 17, 2020, 3:25 am
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Joe is right. She is pissed and angry I am off on tour. She
imagines I am banging Austrian Damen by the dozen so wants to
bring her brand of shit back into my life.
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: -americanjoe- Date: January 17, 2020, 4:06 am
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Well, I went through a divorce myself, so I know what time it is
with an ex-wife.
They like to play all sorts of little games, and it ain't all
about money; sometimes they like to rub your nose into the fact
that they are with someone new.
Well, guess what?
Two can play that game, and I'm still vital, good enough looking
and travel enough to places of interest (as do you) to meet
young, women who still seem interested in playing hide the
salami with me (occasionally anyway).
If you want my advice, find a young, hot Austrian/German girl,
date a little, a restaurant, pictures doing something physical
(something outdoorsy seemed to make my ex madder as Mr. New
isn't really an outside guy, so unlike me he doesn't own boats,
snow machines, kayaks, he doesn't hunt etc) and then put the
pictures on Facebook or somewhere so she'll see you and the new
hottie together.
More advice... get pictures of you two doing something outside,
like rock climbing, boating, something in the day, that takes
energy to do, something she didn't know you could do (even
something like taking a dance class if you aren't into the
outdoors)-- basically, surprise her with you doing something new
that you two never did together, something sorta interesting,
fun or dangerous with pretty young girl.
A good fall-back is go rent a couple horses for an afternoon and
get some pictures, as most women like that and attach some weird
dramatic thing to it, as it seems romantic to them for some
reason.
And everywhere has a couple horses you can get for a couple
hours pretty cheap.
My opinion is bar/pub/restaurant pictures are not as effective
in irritating an ex, as that's too easy and too easily
manipulated.
And make sure she's young and cute, with a shapely body cause
that REALLY gets to the ex, as in my opinion some of this is
biological with females, as the thought of you reproducing with
a younger, more attractive female triggers a territorial
response in them that pretty much always make them want you back
at some level.
And remember: It's all a sort of game.
Here's a couple that drove my ex crazy:
HTML https://i.postimg.cc/J4PJZSkC/1m1.png
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: Bashtard Date: January 17, 2020, 5:21 am
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Joe you are devious but as my ex wife is the mother of my kids
it is counter productive to mess with her head. She is already
angry enough.
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: Bashtard Date: January 18, 2020, 2:15 am
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I told her No. So now I get the silent treatment. Same old
patterns of abuse.
She finds out I am working across Europe on a large IT project,
doing what I have always wanted to do and she goes out of her
way to cause me unnecessary anxiety.
I really hope she does not get another court summons. Last time
when I took my son out for the day she had a court summons
within a week.
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: -americanjoe- Date: January 18, 2020, 4:29 am
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I believe that sometimes action that will cause another person
pain is necessary for your own mental health.
Silly as it sounds, when I was battling with my ex-wife in court
during the divorce I remembered these line from the movie Conan:
Warlord: "What is best in life?"
Conan: "To crush your enemies, to see them driven before you,
and to hear the lamentations of their women."
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Re: Ex wife asking for Financial settlement 10 years on
By: Bashtard Date: January 18, 2020, 7:10 am
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Joe I have kids. I do not want them seeing their mother in
tears.
She has sent me an email now threatening more legal action. She
lives for conflict. It is like going up against Shylock. The
Jewish ex wants her pound of flesh because I have humiliated
her.
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