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       Re: Brexit
   DIR By: Quinky
       Date: August 14, 2019, 10:28 am
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       --- Quote from: alexfromlondon link ---
       >
       > Boris's quotes and comments display an incredibly lack of tact
       and sensitivity.  Almost verging on Prince Phillip standards.
       It's a shameful reflection on Britain as a modern nation and the
       comments are a relic of another era.
       >
       > So...whilst the referendum needs to be respected, why should
       it be done in a way that violates the UK's existing obligations
       under international treaties, in particular the Good Friday
       agreement.
       >
       > What do you have to stay to Scotland, who voted for Remain,
       and will now push for another independence referendum?  Are you
       happy with pushing ahead with your extreme form of Brexit if it
       means the UK will break up?
       >
       > What about Ireland?  Whilst there may be longer term solutions
       for the border on the horizon, what do you propose doing on 1st
       November?
       >
       > Boris hasn't got a clue.  It's all rhetoric that'll be used to
       blame others when it all goes wrong.
       >
       > None of the infrastructure required for no-deal can possibly
       be ready in time for 31st October.
       >
       > The withdrawal agreement won't be amended and won't be
       accepted for the millionth time.  No deal is not physically
       possible to implement.  What is the solution?
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       None of this is in my remit. I don't know the answers, but that
       doesn't mean I don't believe that the problems cannot be solved.
       I might as well ask you what you're doing to cure cancer, or
       ease traffic congestion.
       If you find Boris's comments offensive, it suggests to me that
       you're a little thin-skinned. Tact and sensitivity are nice
       concepts, but in the real world they tend to slow things down,
       rather than get the job done.
       Why should any obligations be violated? Why should the UK break
       up? Scotland voted remain, but they are part of a bigger entity
       that voted to leave. Unfortunately, Sturgeon can throw her toys
       out of her pram and threaten a referendum as much as she likes -
       they had one, and by voting to stay in the club, they run with
       the club decisions. Tails don't wag dogs.
       There are many experts who say that a technological solution to
       the Irish border is not impossible.I personally don't have to do
       anything on 1st November.
       You seem very confident of what's not possible. I disagree.I
       don't have the answers that you want, but I suspect that you
       wouldn't believe anyone who does. Brexit is a bitter pill to
       swallow, for the people who didn't want it. But perhaps if they
       accepted the reality, and helped to work towards a better
       outcome instead of trying to subvert it, we might be able to
       move forwards. Perhaps that is the solution.
       #Post#: 27299--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Brexit
   DIR By: Everyone’s a Quinner
       Date: August 14, 2019, 8:12 pm
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       --- Quote from: Quinky link ---
       >
       > You seem very confident of what's not possible. I disagree.I
       don't have the answers that you want, but I suspect that you
       wouldn't believe anyone who does. Brexit is a bitter pill to
       swallow, for the people who didn't want it. But perhaps if they
       accepted the reality, and helped to work towards a better
       outcome instead of trying to subvert it, we might be able to
       move forwards. Perhaps that is the solution.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       Exactly Quinky 👏🏽
       Togetherness, thick skin, optimism, belief in our country and
       it’s people and our businesses. This whole “I won’t believe it
       til I see it” negative, bitter attitude and sour way thinking
       paired with a lack of belief some people have in ourselves and
       our country going forward really grinds my gears.
       The thing I often find with this is that a certain group of
       negative Remainers who don’t want to accept the result is this:
       they were quick to advocate the idea of “Say no to leaving
       Europe, we need to be joint at the hip in every way and show
       togetherness otherwise the world will crumble”. Now, that way of
       thinking is all well and good, yet once the result concluded to
       Leave it was a big shame that the togetherness spirit they were
       promoting before the vote can’t be applied going forward into
       Leaving. Where did the togetherness go to then in regards to
       ourselves and our country for the benefit of all going forward?
       Instead of carrying on with that spirit, the certain group of
       bitter Remainers all of a sudden want to drop that way of
       thinking and divide the U.K. and it’s people further by
       hijacking everything possible to do with Leave. Sorry but I
       don’t buy it. For example if I genuinely wanted more than
       anything to Remain and nattered on about togetherness in doing
       so, I would also honour those same values of Togetherness in
       relation to Leaving (instead dropping the whole Togetherness
       spiel because the vote didn’t go the way I wanted it to). It’s
       not a good look and it really decloaks the disguise of the nicey
       nice teddy bear picknick way of thinking when things don’t go
       the way they want.
       I have a distant memory of a saying many of us used to love to
       bellow out associate it with Britishness. What was it again? Oh
       there it is....
       “Keep Calm and Carry On”
       We used to sell that on T-shirts to adverts, china mugs to
       posters on walls. We used to sell it to tourists visiting us;
       they must think we are crazy as a box of frogs looking at us now
       as many of us have clearly forgotten it and don’t seem to
       promote that great saying we used to be so proud of. Where the
       heck did that british optimism go.
       I would like to state that I don’t mean to provoke anyone by
       saying this, but it has to be said because it’s true. True
       colours are true colours and no matter what way you would like
       the world to be run, if you promote principles then apply the
       same principles to either way things go. Acting like salty
       football supporters after a loss, turning on their own team and
       giving lip to the opposition supporters isn’t the way forward,
       acting like inclusive rugby supporters mixing with the
       opposition regardless of a win or loss, shaking hands, sharing
       drinks and toasting to the future for both teams is the way to
       go about it. Again not looking for an argument, just puzzled.
       #Post#: 27426--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Brexit
   DIR By: guest257
       Date: August 18, 2019, 2:50 am
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       Togetherness? Teamwork? Optimistic vision for the future? You’ve
       gotta be kidding. I absolutely refuse to be part of a team with
       Farage, Johnson, Rees-Mogg, Trump, Putin, the extreme right wing
       disaster capitalists that have driven this. That’s not my
       country and I want it back.
       The damage done by leavers, and the vitriol and hatred spewed by
       the filthy press (Mail, Express, Telegraph etc) is too great to
       repair now.
       Leavers probably want remainers back on the team because they
       know they need them on board to sort their mess out. But Sorry,
       they’ve burnt their own house down. They can clear up the mess.
       I’m longing for the moment that the penny drops, these
       fantasists are held to account and challenged as to why they
       haven’t been able to deliver any one of the ridiculous promises
       they’ve made in relation to Brexit.
       We shall see what happens on 31 October.
       #Post#: 27436--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Brexit
   DIR By: Everyone’s a Quinner
       Date: August 18, 2019, 3:54 am
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       --- Quote from: alexfromlondon link ---
       >
       > Togetherness? Teamwork? Optimistic vision for the future?
       You’ve gotta be kidding. I absolutely refuse to be part of a
       team with Farage, Johnson, Rees-Mogg, Trump, Putin, the extreme
       right wing disaster capitalists that have driven this. That’s
       not my country and I want it back.
       >
       > The damage done by leavers, and the vitriol and hatred spewed
       by the filthy press (Mail, Express, Telegraph etc) is too great
       to repair now.
       >
       > Leavers probably want remainers back on the team because they
       know they need them on board to sort their mess out. But Sorry,
       they’ve burnt their own house down. They can clear up the mess.
       I’m longing for the moment that the penny drops, these
       fantasists are held to account and challenged as to why they
       haven’t been able to deliver any one of the ridiculous promises
       they’ve made in relation to Brexit.
       >
       > We shall see what happens on 31 October.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       You assume too much. Settle down and don’t believe what the
       biased BBC tells you and all of the fat cat CEO’s of London who
       only care about their own pockets being hit and not yours.
       Because it’s their personal bonus pockets that will get hit
       mostly, not yours.
       Don’t put all leavers in the same basket. It’s rude, obnoxious
       and darn right childish. I don’t put all the remainers in one
       basket now do I? It’s not the right wing that has driven this,
       it’s the oppressive left wing and their lack of respect to
       democracy that has done this. With respect
       #Post#: 27438--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Brexit
   DIR By: Quinky
       Date: August 18, 2019, 4:04 am
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       --- Quote from: alexfromlondon link ---
       >
       > Togetherness? Teamwork? Optimistic vision for the future?
       You’ve gotta be kidding. I absolutely refuse to be part of a
       team with Farage, Johnson, Rees-Mogg, Trump, Putin, the extreme
       right wing disaster capitalists that have driven this. That’s
       not my country and I want it back.
       >
       > The damage done by leavers, and the vitriol and hatred spewed
       by the filthy press (Mail, Express, Telegraph etc) is too great
       to repair now.
       >
       > Leavers probably want remainers back on the team because they
       know they need them on board to sort their mess out. But Sorry,
       they’ve burnt their own house down. They can clear up the mess.
       I’m longing for the moment that the penny drops, these
       fantasists are held to account and challenged as to why they
       haven’t been able to deliver any one of the ridiculous promises
       they’ve made in relation to Brexit.
       >
       > We shall see what happens on 31 October.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       I see. This suggests that you are typically a part of the
       problem.
       Let's hypothesise here. If we had a general election and, heaven
       forbid, Labour got into power by a narrow margin. Imagine, say,
       48% of the populace "refusing to be a part of" a country led by
       Corbyn, McDonnell, Abbott et al, then rebelling against anything
       that the elected government tried to do.
       Can you see that going well? Not quite democracy, is it?
       #Post#: 27443--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Brexit
   DIR By: guest257
       Date: August 18, 2019, 5:09 am
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       I think it would be perfectly reasonable for that % to rebel
       against them if they patronised them, lied to them, refused to
       engage with them, had broken electoral law to get into their
       position, and delivered something entirely different and more
       extreme to what was promised during their election campaign.
       Then I think it would be ok to object.
       Holding politicians to account is not being a part of the
       problem. What many leavers don’t understand is that having a
       strong robust opposition strengthens us as it holds those
       responsible to account to deliver a better solution. It
       shouldn’t be a dictatorship
       However Farage, Johnson, Rees-Mogg etc don’t like that though
       because they know that when their ideas are challenged, they
       fall apart as the fantasy that they are.
       #Post#: 27497--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Brexit
   DIR By: Quinky
       Date: August 20, 2019, 3:56 am
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       --- Quote from: alexfromlondon link ---
       >
       > I think it would be perfectly reasonable for that % to rebel
       against them if they patronised them, lied to them, refused to
       engage with them, had broken electoral law to get into their
       position, and delivered something entirely different and more
       extreme to what was promised during their election campaign.
       Then I think it would be ok to object.
       >
       > Holding politicians to account is not being a part of the
       problem. What many leavers don’t understand is that having a
       strong robust opposition strengthens us as it holds those
       responsible to account to deliver a better solution. It
       shouldn’t be a dictatorship
       >
       > However Farage, Johnson, Rees-Mogg etc don’t like that though
       because they know that when their ideas are challenged, they
       fall apart as the fantasy that they are.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       You stated "I absolutely refuse to be part of a team with
       Farage, Johnson, Rees-Mogg". Unfortunately for you, these people
       are elected. You may not like how they got there, but more
       people voted for them than for anyone else. That's called
       democracy. You may decide that people have lied, broken
       promises, broken laws - but you are not judge and jury. You have
       no right to decide what they can or can't do. There is a due
       process for that, and again, if it's followed then you (along
       with the rest of the population) have to accept decisions that
       you may not agree with.
       #Post#: 27549--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Brexit
   DIR By: 
       Date: August 20, 2019, 8:12 pm
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       --- Quote from: alexfromlondon link ---
       >
       > I think it would be perfectly reasonable for that % to rebel
       against them if they patronised them, lied to them, refused to
       engage with them, had broken electoral law to get into their
       position, and delivered something entirely different and more
       extreme to what was promised during their election campaign.
       Then I think it would be ok to object.
       >
       > Holding politicians to account is not being a part of the
       problem. What many leavers don’t understand is that having a
       strong robust opposition strengthens us as it holds those
       responsible to account to deliver a better solution. It
       shouldn’t be a dictatorship
       >
       > However Farage, Johnson, Rees-Mogg etc don’t like that though
       because they know that when their ideas are challenged, they
       fall apart as the fantasy that they are.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       Alex, you have to understand that in this country there are
       different views and perspectives. You can’t go around assuming
       and bellowing our that all Leavers are something, just because
       little old sour you voted the opposite which was to Remain. I
       highly respect your wishes were to Remain and I think it’s
       admirable of you to stand by that. But that doesn’t mean you
       have a right to naysay all Leavers all the while branding all of
       them stupid. No two people are the same, even if there is only
       two sides in Leaving or Remaining. There is no valid argument
       when people say “Leavers didn’t know what they wanted” or “The
       question should have been more specific on the ballot paper as
       there are so many ways of going about either leaving or
       remaining”. Because no two people are the same is the exact
       reason why it was a simple Leave or Remain vote. When you bring
       in other complexities to the question we will never get any
       where and people will be squabbling forever more with no clear
       answer because everyone has a different view on how to Leave or
       Remain. The vote was a simple question because of this. And with
       that simple question people took part in voting and the vote
       ultimately led to a Leave vote. How or why is the governments
       problem to sort out, the people did their bit in deciding and
       voting. The most democratic way to do this was two plain
       options, not 22 different ones. It causes more complexities and
       even more squabbling. It is not simple and confuses the country
       even more so, rather opposite to your claims that people didn’t
       know what they wanted. Some people (Leavers and Remainers)
       didn’t know how they wanted to either Leave or Remain and what
       deals/no-deals to be arranged, they literally just knew what
       they wanted and their feelings about about the EU were and why
       they either wanted to Leave or Remain. That’s their feelings on
       the EU (the undemocratic corporation, not to be confused with
       the continent and it’s people who are actually quite nice) just
       for clarification. It’s up to the government to sort out the
       rest, and to do that they completed the first steps whereby the
       democratic vote led to leave. The next steps should have been to
       do it in the way the government feels along with the deadline
       that if they couldn’t decide what to do in the best interests of
       all involved, they would Leave via No Deal on March 31st 2019.
       It’s their problem if they didn’t pull their fingers out until
       the final year of debating this as (if you like) and that they
       couldn’t sort out a deal to your liking, you can blame it on
       them, not the Leavers. There was in this time of 3 years a
       general election regarding Mrs Mays tenure and direction in
       which she survived at the time, and then further along the line
       a vote of no confidence which failed, no wonder, with Corbyn
       behind it. What should have happened on the 31st March 2019 was
       to leave with no deal due to our governments (under May) failure
       to Leave with a deal which was put to vote and among other
       options where we ended up with people hijacking what was written
       in the law to leave with no deal. Since then the conservatives
       fairly had to vote for a new PM from their party, completely
       fine to do so as this issue is regarding Brexit and technically
       still their party leading the government for this time period
       until the next general election. They’ve done that in Boris
       Johnson and now it looks finally like there is some clear
       direction in Leaving (we negotiate a fair and democratic deal
       for both sides of the U.K. & the EU. If we can’t negotiate,
       where you will see that the UK is trying to but the unelected
       leaders of the EU do not want to, then we will Leave by November
       31st 2019 with No Deal. Finally we have some sense of direction
       and also a back bone. The ball is now in the EU’s court. If they
       do not want to renegotiate, then we have decided we do not like
       their current proposal and will leave with No Deal. Fair and
       square.
       If you don’t like that, then your chance to voice your opinion
       on it will be in the next general election where you will have a
       fair and democratic chance to vote for what you want to vote
       for, or moreover who. Until such time, you have to surf the wave
       you are currently on, whether you agree with it or not. Just
       like the time when the EU elections were cast, it was clear that
       most Leavers still want to Leave, as well as newly ascertained
       ones in people now of the legal age to vote, and by once
       Remainers now being converted to Leave. The vote happened when
       it happened and in a fair fashion, not brought forward or
       delayed unfairly. The same should happen in an general election,
       it should come about when it’s due to, not before or after due
       to meddling of a petty group of select Remainers in government.
       I recently read a post on social media which I will now consider
       going forward:
       Before you argue with someone, ask yourself: Is that person even
       mentally mature enough to grasp the concept of different
       perspectives?
       Because if not, there is absolutely no point
       Look I have high respect for you as I’m sure you are a good
       person, nice guy and you are right to have your views and to
       express them as is anyone, so long as they don’t mean harm. I
       sincerely mean you no harm in my argument. But I cannot go on
       further if you can’t grasp the concept of different
       perspectives. Or if you keep putting every Leaver under the sun
       in the same basket. We are not all horrible and we are not all
       far right, most of us just don’t want to be in the EU.
       #Post#: 27929--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Brexit
   DIR By: guest257
       Date: September 3, 2019, 10:26 pm
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       Great start for Boris...
       Lied about talks with EU (there have been no fundamental changes
       taken forward).
       Lost his majority.
       Lost his first key vote which will, hopefully, take a mad no
       deal off the table.
       Couldn’t happen to a nicer bunch. This is the problem when all
       you have is tub thumping rhetoric.
       #Post#: 27989--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Brexit
   DIR By: Quinky
       Date: September 6, 2019, 12:47 am
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       Meanwhile Jezza finally gets offered the general election he's
       been clamouring for since the last one, and declines it. Boris
       is doing a great job of showing him up to be what he is... A
       professional objector who hasn't moved on from the sixth form
       common room.
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