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       Re: Re: Well Said, Ugo comments
       By: Cookie Date: August 14, 2020, 5:32 am
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       [quote author=Spitfire link=topic=2805.msg46870#msg46870
       date=1597400186]
       Agreed, just as it’s completely fine for anyone to choose not to
       kneel for their own personal reasons, they also have a right not
       to be victimised for doing so.
       [/quote]
       I agree that it's a personal choice. But I'm not sure I see
       where the problem lies. The reason it's so contentious is that
       players take the knee during the national anthem. That's the bit
       that's deemed disrespectful. It escalated last night where the
       players were booed and had things thrown onto the pitch. The
       irony there being the people complaining were actually booing
       the anthem, which seems to go against exactly what they're
       complaining about.
       #Post#: 46878--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Re: Well Said, Ugo comments
       By: never sleep Date: August 14, 2020, 5:35 am
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       [quote author=Cookie link=topic=2805.msg46874#msg46874
       date=1597400803]
       Appreciate you reminding me of the reason I didn't bother coming
       here for 6 months, though.
       [/quote]
       Cookie - Personally - I am glad to see you back.
       I wouldn't kneel - but would take part in another gesture.
       But - I do feel for sports people that choose not to.  I guess
       that they need to avoid Twitter for a few weeks afterwards.
       #Post#: 46879--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Re: Well Said, Ugo comments
       By: Quinky Date: August 14, 2020, 5:50 am
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       [quote author=Cookie link=topic=2805.msg46874#msg46874
       date=1597400803]
       I didn't say racism would disappear, did I? It would be nice to
       think we might try something that might help, though. Neither
       did I say racism is confined to white people - clearly it's not.
       But maybe, just maybe, if black people hadn't been suppressed
       for hundreds of years, things might be a bit calmer. And I don't
       know the facts on the % of white and black men killed by the
       police, but given how white men massively outnumber black men,
       that would seem an obvious assumption. Struggling to understand
       the point you're making, mind.
       Appreciate you reminding me of the reason I didn't bother coming
       here for 6 months, though.
       [/quote]
       I personally don't see how kneeling has any impact on racism
       whatsoever. I'd expect people not to be racist, but there will
       always be some who are. Those who are, will be unlikely to
       kneel. They'll also be unlikely to think "He, Joe Marler took
       the knee. Maybe racism IS wrong after all...".
       Maybe if people looked ahead instead of constantly trying to
       rake up history, things would be calmer. Maybe if people just
       focused on themselves and stopped trying to make others see
       things their way, things would be calmer.
       Maybe you don't know the stats, so maybe you should look them
       up. They do make interesting reading, and often challenge the
       narrative that's generally spouted.
       If you think taking the knee is a worthwhile gesture, I respect
       that. I just happen to feel differently. The world will still
       turn, you think your way, I think mine. No harm done.
       #Post#: 46881--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Re: Well Said, Ugo comments
       By: honkytonk Date: August 14, 2020, 5:52 am
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       I would be surprise to see see crowds kneel.  Theres not the
       space!!!
       #Post#: 46883--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Re: Well Said, Ugo comments
       By: Spitfire Date: August 14, 2020, 5:55 am
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       How do we know we can't change people's minds until we try? You
       may rightly feel that you aren't racist and so this isn't about
       you, that doesn't mean nobody should take their own stands
       against racism, which is what's happening. If you don't want to
       engage, that's fine too, but you seem to be very happy to be
       very vocally against these actions if you aren't willing to
       engage.
       #Post#: 46884--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Re: Well Said, Ugo comments
       By: Quinky Date: August 14, 2020, 6:02 am
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       [quote author=Spitfire link=topic=2805.msg46883#msg46883
       date=1597402531]
       How do we know we can't change people's minds until we try? You
       may rightly feel that you aren't racist and so this isn't about
       you, that doesn't mean nobody should take their own stands
       against racism, which is what's happening. If you don't want to
       engage, that's fine too, but you seem to be very happy to be
       very vocally against these actions if you aren't willing to
       engage.
       [/quote]
       That's why I've said repeatedly that I fully respect other
       people's decisions to do what they feel is right for them.
       #Post#: 46885--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Re: Well Said, Ugo comments
       By: JammyGit Date: August 14, 2020, 6:09 am
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       [quote author=Cookie link=topic=2805.msg46876#msg46876
       date=1597401121]
       I agree that it's a personal choice. But I'm not sure I see
       where the problem lies. The reason it's so contentious is that
       players take the knee during the national anthem. That's the bit
       that's deemed disrespectful. It escalated last night where the
       players were booed and had things thrown onto the pitch. The
       irony there being the people complaining were actually booing
       the anthem, which seems to go against exactly what they're
       complaining about.
       [/quote]
       The real irony is that Kaepernick was originally abused for
       simply not standing for the anthem. A former Green Beret got in
       touch with him to suggest that kneeling would be appropriate and
       respectful, and he agreed to do it instead of staying seated.
       And then people made out that kneeling was 'disrespecting the
       flag'.
  HTML https://www.npr.org/2018/09/09/646115651/the-veteran-and-nfl-player-who-advised-kaepernick-to-take-a-knee?t=1597403299613
       #Post#: 46886--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Re: Well Said, Ugo comments
       By: Cookie Date: August 14, 2020, 6:27 am
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       [quote author=Quinky link=topic=2805.msg46879#msg46879
       date=1597402205]
       Maybe if people looked ahead instead of constantly trying to
       rake up history, things would be calmer. Maybe if people just
       focused on themselves and stopped trying to make others see
       things their way, things would be calmer.
       Maybe you don't know the stats, so maybe you should look them
       up. They do make interesting reading, and often challenge the
       narrative that's generally spouted.
       If you think taking the knee is a worthwhile gesture, I respect
       that. I just happen to feel differently. The world will still
       turn, you think your way, I think mine. No harm done.
       [/quote]
       How on earth can you expect people who have been suppressed to
       just forget about it and move on? One of the things I am
       learning is that I have enjoyed white privilege for all of my
       life and I need to try and put myself in the shoes of others to
       understand what they've been through and bring about change. The
       people who have the best chance of bringing about change are
       people like me, not asking black men and women to forget about
       the injustice they've suffered for centuries.
       And I have looked up the stats. The US is 76% white and yet only
       41% of those killed by police were white. 13% of the US is black
       and yet 22% of those killed are black. Do you think these
       'challenge the narrative that's generally spouted' (odd phrase
       to use, by the way)? Seems to me it proves it very clearly.
       #Post#: 46887--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Re: Well Said, Ugo comments
       By: MadMax Date: August 14, 2020, 6:29 am
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       [quote author=Fearless Fred link=topic=2805.msg46840#msg46840
       date=1597392836]
       Aha, so now we know that SwindonQuin is actually Dominic Raab.
       [/quote]
       Nah Dominic Raab would kneel for Boris too!
       #Post#: 46888--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Re: Well Said, Ugo comments
       By: MadMax Date: August 14, 2020, 6:35 am
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       [quote author=Spitfire link=topic=2805.msg46870#msg46870
       date=1597400186]
       Agreed, just as it’s completely fine for anyone to choose not to
       kneel for their own personal reasons, they also have a right not
       to be victimised for doing so.
       [/quote]
       Indeed. I recently read a quote from a member of the BAME
       community who said she didn't agree with taking the knee because
       for her it suggested subservience which is a fair point in my
       opinion.
       I agree with Anthony Watson who has said he wants players to do
       whatever they want to do as a symbol of support, including
       nothing. Forcing people into an empty gesture is pointless.
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