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       Re: I Want To See The Horses
       By: MS.China Date: January 21, 2017, 6:35 pm
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       Jackson I can see you are upset but this is just going to far do
       you realize that you are being really mean to Amber? Telling her
       she is helpless and dumb is really bringing her self esteem down
       and it's really unhealthy for her. Do you really want to be a
       big brother that makes his little sister sad and feel like she's
       nothing? Because that's what you are doing Jackson words hurt
       and she is little and she looks up to you what you tell her she
       believes and if you are telling her negative stuff that's how
       you make her feel. Do you kinda understand what I'm saying? *i
       ask trying to reason with him and showing I really care?*
       #Post#: 2687--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I Want To See The Horses
       By: neigh Date: January 21, 2017, 8:31 pm
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       Ms. Womzie
       *once inside, set Amber down*
       Amber
       *rush up to window, which I can see Jackson from, look out it,
       and position Horsie so that he can look out it too*
       Ms. Womzie
       *stand a few feet away from her, so I can make sure she doesn't
       go back outside*
       Jackson
       *listens to her, look down sadly, slowly nod, pause* "But,
       that's how she knows that she can't take care of herself and has
       to obey me.  I tell her good things about herself too.  Even
       when she's sad, she's still sweet and wonderful.  I love her."
       #Post#: 2688--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I Want To See The Horses
       By: MS.China Date: January 21, 2017, 8:52 pm
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       I know you love her sweetie but you can't push her self esteem
       all the way down like that it's not a good thing. Yes in the
       past maybe you were the only one who was able to take care of
       her I understand that but you 2 live here now and I promise that
       you will be well taken care of everything you need is here I get
       you almost everything you want here you will have an awesome
       life here I care about each and every child that walks through
       this door and I try to provide the best life for you guys.
       Jackson you don't have to be an adult anymore you can just be a
       kid now I know in the past your mom may not have been there for
       you both like she should and you had to take up that parent role
       for Amber I get it when I was younger I had to take care of my
       little sister she was 5 years younger than me. I made sure she
       had clothes went to school behaved had food everything now she's
       a teacher to younger kids but taking care of my sister made me
       lose my childhood I didn't have this opportunity that you have
       now, now you have a Stable place to stay food to eat adults that
       really really care about you and people that just want the best
       for you and Amber *i say with a loving voice trying to really
       relate my experiences with him just to say I understand exactly
       what he's going through and how he feels"
       #Post#: 2692--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I Want To See The Horses
       By: neigh Date: January 21, 2017, 10:38 pm
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       Jackson
       "I don't want a childhood as much I want my baby sister.  She's
       mine, and I don't think I can trust anyone else with her.  Would
       good would a high self esteem do her anyway?"
       #Post#: 2693--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I Want To See The Horses
       By: MS.China Date: January 21, 2017, 10:52 pm
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       Jaclson im gonna tell you that you are doing her more harm then
       good by destroying her self esteem when she grows up all she
       will know is that her brothers looks at her as helpless and dumb
       she will feel like she can't do anything for gerself and that's
       gonna hurt her in the long wrong. You can trust me to take care
       of her and you
       #Post#: 2695--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I Want To See The Horses
       By: neigh Date: January 21, 2017, 11:07 pm
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       Jackson
       "She won't have to do anything for herself.  I won't let
       anything happen to myself, so she'll still have me."
       #Post#: 2696--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I Want To See The Horses
       By: MS.China Date: January 21, 2017, 11:20 pm
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       Jackson she gonna have to learn and grow she will always have
       you to help her but she's gonna eventually learn to do things
       for her self.
       #Post#: 2697--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I Want To See The Horses
       By: neigh Date: January 21, 2017, 11:22 pm
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       Jackson
       *crosses arms*  "Why?"
       #Post#: 2698--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I Want To See The Horses
       By: MS.China Date: January 21, 2017, 11:24 pm
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       Because everyone has to learn to do things by themselves Jackson
       that's why.
       #Post#: 2699--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I Want To See The Horses
       By: MS.China Date: January 21, 2017, 11:25 pm
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       Think about it you had to learn all the things you can do now
       for yourself right? So she had to do the same
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