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Pre ChaySam
By: QUANT Date: February 25, 2022, 9:26 am
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HTML https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RE4-ZQ_rb1A
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Naga Chaitanya | Konchem Touch Lo Unte Chepta | Full Episode - 2
| 4 Oct 2014 | Zee Telugu
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Re: Pre ChaySam
By: Dancing fox Date: February 25, 2022, 1:07 pm
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What do you think, how far he changed post his marriage with
Sam? And now after divorce?
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Re: Pre ChaySam
By: QUANT Date: February 25, 2022, 3:10 pm
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Pre-Sam: too casual, lazy but very tolerant Mr Nice Guy.Low
energy levels. Already mature.
ChaySam: Sam took the lead and he didn't mind. The tines he did
have a lot to say, Sam was miffed. Still comfortable in his
skin. Energy levels: more still than lazy. Telegu seems more
fluent.
post-ChaySam: more compact. Quiet but not lazy: In the drivers
seat. Polished. His telegu also seems more fluent.
Still the same guy. What dd you thibk?
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Re: Pre ChaySam
By: Dancing fox Date: February 25, 2022, 4:07 pm
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The constant - his patience level. No melodrama nature.
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He was growing up as an individual. But Sam failed to treat him
that way.
Or, may be she was not ready for these changes.
During sam- he looked bit more responsible than earlier.
Post-divorce= there is a huge difference pre-sam and
post-divorce.
He is finally ready for a bigger responsibility.
Not as honest as he seemed earlier though(pre-sam).
He looks a bit stubborn though.
Do you think his initial laziness is one of the reasons for his
divorce?
His transformation is very much visible.
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Re: Pre ChaySam
By: Lotus Petals Date: February 25, 2022, 4:21 pm
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Pre Sam - laidback, positive, lazy but well behaved and cool.
Very honest and straightforward. He didn’t take life seriously
and his surname/legacy for kinda taken for granted as in he
wasn’t serious about his career. Andhra urban Telugu was
dominant.
During Sam - still Mr Cool but a lil miffed after 2 yrs in the
marriage. He was also contained and restricted. Had to make
extra efforts to make it seem like they were the ideal, cute
couple. While she wanted everything out in the open, he
preferred privacy. He happily let her take the lead in
interviews although he had started to open up by then and had
more to say. Still Telugu was dominant.
Post Sam - very very cool, level headed and composed. Humble and
very mature. Can definitely see Shekhar Kammula influence on
him. His thoughts are well organized and composed. His speeches
on the events - so elegant and eloquent! Appears a bit stubborn
though and is quite camera conscious. English is dominant this
time. His body language changed. Its stiffer now yet cool and
confident. Can I say he looks much more hotter and smarter?
🙈
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Re: Pre ChaySam
By: Dancing fox Date: February 25, 2022, 10:00 pm
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Yes, definitely he looks hot .
What i think confidence makes people look hot.
There was a time when he didn't mind Sam to take the control,
but things changed and now he enjoys to be in the driving seat,
do you think this very fact led them to the divorce??
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Re: Pre ChaySam
By: Lotus Petals Date: February 26, 2022, 2:47 am
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Ya.. I believe he wanted to have his own individuality and be
his own self. With Sam, he knew it would never happen as she
enjoyed being the center of attention. She would reply for him,
she would throw in random lies about their ‘perfect’ life.. it
all must have gotten into him! Besides, she is most of the time
absent, away on shoots. How long can a long distance
relationship survive if you don’t get along with the partner
already? And he also wanted a simple life while she preferred
the extravagant one. He gave up his mansion to her.
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Re: Pre ChaySam
By: QUANT Date: February 26, 2022, 12:39 pm
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[quote author=Dancing fox link=topic=5.msg21#msg21
date=1645826865]
The constant - his patience level. No melodrama nature.
.
He was growing up as an individual. But Sam failed to treat him
that way.
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ITA! She treated him as an accessory / extension.
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He is finally ready for a bigger responsibility.
Not as honest as he seemed earlier though(pre-sam).
He looks a bit stubborn though.
Do you think his initial laziness is one of the reasons for his
divorce?
His transformation is very much visible.
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I feels he is more throughtful in how he expresses himself i.e
more controlled and less spontaneous not necessarily less
honest.
I don't think Chay being lazy was the cause of the breakdown of
the marriage. On the contrary: by her own account she hardly did
anything in her home - Chay waited on her, cooked for them
(until they hired the cook) etc.
Sam was just ambitious for things Chay wasn't consumed by. ITA,
LF: Sam reminds me of how the nuovo riche are described: flashy
while old money isn't.
He is very ambitious in different ways. DF, you and I discussed
this on IF that Chay has a vision for cinema while Sam has a
vision for her place in it
CHay may have been a bad student but I never get the feeling
that Sam won the grey matter lottery. Increasingly, he has come
across as more intelligfent, eloquent and insightful than her.
So, here's my question: did he get bored of her, depste still
loving her? Can love die of boredom?
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Re: Pre ChaySam
By: Dancing fox Date: February 26, 2022, 1:23 pm
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Till now we have discussed Samantha and her nature. Yes we
discussed chay, but we didn't throw much light on chay's nature
and his limitations.
It is not a comparison but I am trying my best to look at him as
neutral as possible. (As I genuinely like him, and we all do it
and it's an established fact)
1. Getting bored theory:
yes, it can be. And love didn't die. As far as I observed, if
Sam wants seperation, chay would not Stop her.
Chay got married to her , and more than him she wanted this ,
initially.
Chay was visibly shocked by this divorce. His initial uncomfort,
absence from SM, were the indicators, in my opinion.
If love died between them, then why would he be shocked?
Chay is intelligent, then how could he fail to see this
divorce??
2. Love died- another reason why I think it's not the scenario.
I don't think chay got married to Sam only for love. He got
married to her because he wanted to have a family. More of an
arranged marriage for him.
I remember an interview of him, there he said, we are best
friends and that's the best part, it is a long-term
relationship, if not love then atleast friendship will always be
there. (I will share the link)
(P.s- I really wonder, what made them destroy that friendship?)
3. As far as Chay's limitations are concerned , I think he is
stubborn. And not ready to change his habits for anyone or
anything.
What's chay's limitations as per your observations??
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Re: Pre ChaySam
By: QUANT Date: February 26, 2022, 8:21 pm
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I don't understand why a young Chay would settle for a marriage
without a strong emotion. Had he been older and gone through
multiple heart-breaks and developed a cynical view of life and
love, I would unnderstand why he woud "settle" for just
friendship.
He was 30 at the time of th marriage. If he married to start his
own family, four years later, they were still a childless
couple. What was the rush to marriage? If Chay was always so
stubborn, how could Sam convince him to marry?
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