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Bear
By: @SweetGlowPixie Date: May 27, 2016, 12:18 am
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Well it's been a month to the day since I laid my 14 yr. old
feline Bear to rest for unknown cause of internal bleeding,
possibly kidney/liver failure. Some say that it must have been a
hard decision to make.... Well no, not really, it was harder to
let go of a pet that you shared a long time with. I miss her,
her greetings at the door, her carefull steps as is crawling on
top of my chest with nudges and kisses in the morning
....sometimes baring gifts (alive) before my morning coffee!
I still expect to see her curled up on the bed, on top of my
pj's preheating them for me, or I catch a glimpse of something
move in the corner of my eye, or, I hear her meow and think it's
her. I even caught myself grabbing her food dish to feed her.
I think I'm okay mentally, I appreciated the time I had with her
and I will keep memory of her in a special place in my heart for
years to come.
Thank you for reading and allowing me to vent.
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Re: Bear
By: pryzmsticv Date: May 27, 2016, 1:41 am
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With each one we have to say goodbye to, the venting is
something necessary we need to do. It hurts worse to have in
pain and pass away in your arms in pain. Not being able to do
anything but luv them. So ok my dear too talk about it. it helps
so bad. Just recently had to do the same but my dog wasn't that
old. Ours had cushings, diabetes m, and a liver that was in
decay. I understand your pain , your luv, your companionship all
gone at the same time. I've thru so many times, if you need to
talk I'm here for you. Luv you dear. Thank you for sharing your
hurt.
#Post#: 38491--------------------------------------------------
Re: Bear
By: guest256 Date: May 27, 2016, 4:11 am
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I understand how you must be feeling. Our dog was 18 when he
went blind & deaf & his back legs went. I still miss him after
11 years. We had him since I was 7. He was so loving wanting a
stroke all the time. He always listened & comforted you when
something went wrong. He sat on your feet & put your hand over
his head with his paw so you couldn't move & had to stroke him.
#Post#: 38494--------------------------------------------------
Re: Bear
By: @SweetGlowPixie Date: May 27, 2016, 10:29 am
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Thank you both, pryzmsticv and EquineAnn.
It's comforting to know and feel that I am not going crazy!
Luv to both,
SweetGlowPixie
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Re: Bear
By: guest256 Date: May 27, 2016, 11:24 am
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You're welcome. Of course you're not. Mine looked similar to
this when he was getting older. I couldn't get a proper photo of
him because he always turned round wanting a stroke so I found 1
similar. Your cat looked lovely.
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Re: Bear
By: @SweetGlowPixie Date: May 28, 2016, 10:08 am
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Haha they never stay still for a picture!
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Re: Bear
By: guest256 Date: May 28, 2016, 11:17 am
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Haha! Ours only stayed still if you were stroking him but he
wanted to face you so had his back towards the camera.
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Re: Bear
By: Divine Metamorphoses Date: May 28, 2016, 3:05 pm
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[quote author=@SweetGlowPixie link=topic=2196.msg38489#msg38489
date=1464326321]
Well it's been a month to the day since I laid my 14 yr. old
feline Bear to rest for unknown cause of internal bleeding,
possibly kidney/liver failure. Some say that it must have been a
hard decision to make.... Well no, not really, it was harder to
let go of a pet that you shared a long time with. I miss her,
her greetings at the door, her carefull steps as is crawling on
top of my chest with nudges and kisses in the morning
....sometimes baring gifts (alive) before my morning coffee!
I still expect to see her curled up on the bed, on top of my
pj's preheating them for me, or I catch a glimpse of something
move in the corner of my eye, or, I hear her meow and think it's
her. I even caught myself grabbing her food dish to feed her.
I think I'm okay mentally, I appreciated the time I had with her
and I will keep memory of her in a special place in my heart for
years to come.
Thank you for reading and allowing me to vent.
[/quote]
Bear is family
To grieve is time that you need to ease the pain.
We're blessed that you shared your loving thoughts with us
I love my furry family members
They love me unconditionally and I love them endlessly
Always have a part of my heart
Always
Love and light
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