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       Re: The Great Christmas Tree Debate
       By: sandisadie Date: November 18, 2018, 12:00 pm
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       When I was growing up (in the 1940s and 1950s) we always had a
       real tree.  Most people where I lived did too.  I continued that
       tradition the first few years I was married.  Then we switched
       to live trees that you planted in the yard after the holiday.  I
       really enjoyed doing that and watching them grow.  We had 5
       acres during those years.  Then we divorced and after I
       remarried a couple of years later we decided to always have an
       artificial tree.  So, through those 30 years we would purchase a
       new artificial tree every few years when better ones came out.
       My favorite kind are the ones with lights already attached.
       Nowadays those look just like the real thing.  And - yes, we
       also buy real evergreen branches sometimes just for that
       wonderful aroma.  I still remember, as a little kid, the
       adventure of tramping through the woods with my family looking
       for that perfect tree to chop down and bring home!
       #Post#: 19264--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Great Christmas Tree Debate
       By: gmatoy Date: November 18, 2018, 2:11 pm
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       Artificial tree here. I'm allergic to the real thing. My husband
       gets a kick out of the fact that I'm a native Washingtonian,
       which has the slogan of "Evergreen State" and I'm allergic.
       Yeah, really funny.
       Our first Christmas, his mother's tree was falling over, so she
       put out a call to my DH and we raced across Queens (NY) to put
       her tree back up. I reminded him that I'm allergic and he said,
       "I know."
       However, when we got there, he kept telling me to do stuff with
       the tree. We got home, I went to take a shower and he saw that
       my arms were a rash horror story. He wanted to know what had
       happened there. I just looked at him and said, really slowly,
       like I was talking to a not very bright person, "I'm. allergic.
       to. evergreen. trees."
       I've never had to touch an evergreen since. ;D
       #Post#: 19267--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Great Christmas Tree Debate
       By: Luci Date: November 18, 2018, 2:39 pm
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       In 1955 we figured out that my brother was allergic to evergreen
       so we had to get one of those aluminum horrors and the light
       wheel that rotated and made the tree different colors. As
       artificial trees improved, parents got artificial trees. Then
       our first Christmas DH and I went to get a real tree. I
       remembered how I hated going out to the Boy Scout sale and
       picking out a tree. I hate being cold and it was never perfect
       enough for me. Then at the end of the season we bought an
       artificial tree on sale. Way cheaper to have that for several
       years than a real tree each year. One year DH bought a huge tree
       with gold tips. I hated spreading the branches each year and the
       tips kept falling off. We had a huge porch that we used year
       around for entertaining and this tree was absolutely beautiful
       and the ideal size. After 15 years the poor thing was declared
       dead, so we tossed it. We would find those tips year round. Even
       though it’s been gone 2 years and we have moved, it’s still a
       joke. DH is cleaning the basement. Yesterday I found one of
       those tips upstairs.
       #Post#: 19276--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Great Christmas Tree Debate
       By: Thitpualso Date: November 18, 2018, 5:29 pm
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       When I was a kid almost everybody (except for the new people who
       moved here from NYC) had a real tree. Buying the proper sort was
       a test of civic responsibility. Real trees were available at gas
       stations and supermarket parking lots but they didn’t quite cut
       it.  To be a REAL citizen of our little town, you had to spend
       an extra five dollars or so to buy a scotch pine.
       The scotch pine is more full and beautiful than the average
       parking lot tree.  It’s also a pain because that variety  seems
       to have  both a twist in the trunk and two equal tops. They
       almost never looked quite right when you put them up.  Getting A
       scotch pine looking as it should in your living room could lead
       to major family ructions.
       Still, people bought them because they were only available at a
       tree lot established to benefit the local volunteer fire
       department and ambulance corps.   Anyone who lived in our little
       town for any length of time couldn’t say ‘No’ to that.
       #Post#: 19283--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Great Christmas Tree Debate
       By: Asharah Date: November 18, 2018, 7:13 pm
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       [emoji319]My Dad got one of those shiny aluminum trees. It went
       in the big front window decorated with blue balls and lit with
       two color wheels. Mom wanted a real tree, so we got one of those
       too and put it in the basement. When Dad dies, the aluminum tree
       was put away for good and the real tree went in the big window.
       I wonder how many people with those aluminum trees did what we
       did and took it apart every year to put it away. We even saved
       the individual paper sleeves to put the individual branches in.
       I imagine most people with the aluminum trees probably just
       threw a big sheet over it and stuck it in a closet or attic
       corner still decorated.
       #Post#: 19286--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Great Christmas Tree Debate
       By: Wanaca Date: November 18, 2018, 8:20 pm
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       When I was growing up, we had real trees.  One year my dad hung
       it upside down.  Another year he cut down a holly tree instead.
       Both occasions were very memorable but bad ideas.
       We get a real tree out of practicality.  We have nine adult,
       indoor cats.  The cats will get into the tree.  Plus it's always
       a pleasant surprise to be looking at the tree and then see a
       mischievous kitty face smiling at you from between the branches.
       Yes, real trees drop needles.  We use a large round tablecloth
       for a tree skirt.  The needles don't stick to it so they are
       easy to vacuum up.  With this many kitties, vacuuming is a
       necessity anyway and it's no more trouble to clean up needles
       than cat fur.
       We've modified the tree stand to keep it from tipping over and a
       real tree's branches will generally hold the weight of our cats.
       We keep a basket by the tree to put ornaments into that have
       "fallen" off the tree and redecorate it every Saturday.  I
       really don't mind the messes the kitties make because I expect
       it and they have such fun playing.
       In January after the holidays, we have a ritual to say good bye
       to the tree.  It's fun.  We make toasts to the tree, say
       farewell, etc then DH cuts it up with a hacksaw and burns it in
       the fireplace.  Yes, adult beverages are consumed  ::)  I love
       that tradition.
       #Post#: 19296--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Great Christmas Tree Debate
       By: TootsNYC Date: November 18, 2018, 10:47 pm
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       I have a philosophical objection to artificial trees; it just
       seems to me that if you're going to bother, you should have a
       real tree. I haven't been able to bring myself to get an
       artificial tree.
       But I am really tired of the mess. And I'm into the idea of
       streamlining things and eliminating unnecessary labor.
       We also live in an apartment building, and we have to sweep up
       needles from the 2nd floor all the way down.
       The last few years, we haven't really had room for a full-size
       tree, so we had one of those coat-hanger trees that my DD
       learned to make when she was 7 or so (she wrote a how-to one day
       when she was hanging out with me at the magazine I worked at,
       where we did a lot of how-tos).
       That was actually fun! We didn't use a lot of ornaments, because
       it's so small, and you can't really hang anything heavy on it.
       We set it on a tray table and put a small string of tiny
       battery-powered lights on it.
       And it might get me ready for an artificial tree.
       #Post#: 19299--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Great Christmas Tree Debate
       By: Hanna Date: November 18, 2018, 11:16 pm
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       We always had real ones. Now I get one some years but skip it
       sometimes, too. I might get one this year because I think the
       cats would be delighted! (The tree might be de-lighted by the
       cats, too!)
       I can see the benefit of artificial. Had a friend who got an
       artificial one, decorated it and every year just stuck it in the
       attic full decorated so they could pull it out the following
       year without doing much else.
       #Post#: 19311--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Great Christmas Tree Debate
       By: STiG Date: November 19, 2018, 7:02 am
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       I've had the environmental debate with myself and ended up doing
       some research.  Real trees would appear to be more
       environmentally friendly.  They are a renewable resource and
       they can be composted afterwards, in my area.  Artificial trees
       use non-renewable resources and a lot of chemicals.  But you use
       them over and over again.
       Turns out, if you are buying your tree at a tree lot, it works
       out about the same in environmental cost in terms of carbon
       footprint as an artificial tree if you keep it for at least 7
       years.  So you're ahead of the game financially with the
       artificial tree, most likely.
       If you are cutting your own tree on your own property or
       property close to where you live?  You come out ahead,
       environmentally.  And maybe even financially.
       We had real trees growing up.  Sometimes cut ourselves,
       sometimes bought from a neighbour who cut them for a living.
       Then my Mom started having a Christmas party the first week of
       December.  So she got an artificial tree so she could have it up
       for the party.  My brother was appalled.   :D  She only had 2
       trees over about a 20 year time period.
       I was never at home for Christmas so I didn't bother with a
       tree, especially with cats.  But my husband and I were given a
       tree that we've put up the last couple of years.  So we'll
       probably put that up this year, again.  With ornaments that
       won't break if they get knocked off the tree!  My lovely,
       antique glass ornaments will have to wait until we are either
       petless or we have a way to keep the animals away from the tree.
       We'll likely have to have two trees, as my husband is partial
       to stuffed ornaments.  The two don't exactly go together on one
       tree!  And we're actually home for Christmas Day this year for
       the first time ever for me, except for the one year I hosted
       because I was in my new house.
       #Post#: 19315--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Great Christmas Tree Debate
       By: Wanaca Date: November 19, 2018, 8:00 am
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       Because of the cats, we only put shatterproof ornaments on the
       tree.  We put our special ornaments on nice, lighted, artificial
       garland that is hung over our windows and archways.  Kitties
       can't reach there.
       I've been pretty good about always keeping the cats in mind when
       decorating.  Except for the time that I thought it would be a
       great idea to buy a bunch of those cute little feathered
       cardinals to put in the tree.  They looked so nice.  For a day.
       They all passed away in an unspeakable manner.
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