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       #Post#: 5961--------------------------------------------------
       Do We Owe Fellow Travelers Our Seating Information?
   DIR By: ladameestmorte
       Date: June 18, 2018, 10:39 pm
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       Anyone who has ever flown Southwest Airlines (or do we have to
       make up a ridiculous name for it?  Purple People Eater
       Airlines?) knows that everyone gets a number on their boarding
       pass that tells them A) which boarding group they're in and B)
       their number within the group.
       I've been standing in line and had people ask me what my number
       was and, although I've always told them, I kind of consider it
       rude for them to ask but I can't put my finger on why I feel
       that way.  Are they asking because they suspect I may be trying
       to board before I'm actually allowed to?  So what if I were??
       Are they boarding group police???  (for the record,
       ladameestmorte never tries to board before her number indicates
       that she should).  Is this okay or should people mind their own
       beeswax?
       #Post#: 5964--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Do We Owe Fellow Travelers Our Seating Information?
   DIR By: Bada
       Date: June 18, 2018, 10:52 pm
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       If you're already lined up and their number is close to yours,
       they're just trying to figure out where to stand in relation to
       you. (Oh, you're B21? Ok, I'm B23, I must be just back here.)
       That's totally fine in my book.
       Or if they lost track of who is boarding, then asking is fine.
       Is that what happens to you? Or something else?
       #Post#: 5980--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Do We Owe Fellow Travelers Our Seating Information?
   DIR By: Moose
       Date: June 19, 2018, 7:58 am
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       My best friend Nora and I have flown First Class or Business
       class several times and we almost always get asked by someone or
       told by someone -- usually a male in business casual type attire
       --  "uhm, first class is boarding in this line."
       Yes.  Yes we know.  We are traveling in jeans and fandom related
       tshirts because it's comfortable and we are usually heading to
       some sort of geek related event. We know we look young, but we
       are both in our 40s. But we do belong here, thank you, and the
       end of the line is right there.
       We had one guy keep tossing us dirty looks in first class all
       the way from Atlanta to Vegas once  ::)
       #Post#: 5981--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Do We Owe Fellow Travelers Our Seating Information?
   DIR By: Hmmm
       Date: June 19, 2018, 8:06 am
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       --- Quote from: Bada link ---
       >
       > If you're already lined up and their number is close to yours,
       they're just trying to figure out where to stand in relation to
       you. (Oh, you're B21? Ok, I'm B23, I must be just back here.)
       That's totally fine in my book.
       >
       > Or if they lost track of who is boarding, then asking is fine.
       >
       > Is that what happens to you? Or something else?
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       This. Most of the time they are just trying to figure out where
       to stand.
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       Re: Do We Owe Fellow Travelers Our Seating Information?
   DIR By: guest426
       Date: June 19, 2018, 8:10 am
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       I've never flown Southwest, but if people are supposed to line
       up in order of their boarding pass zone, then I don't think it's
       at all rude for another passenger to inquire, as they're
       probably just trying to figure out where they're supposed to be
       in the line.
       #Post#: 5988--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Do We Owe Fellow Travelers Our Seating Information?
   DIR By: Rose Red
       Date: June 19, 2018, 9:04 am
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       I've gotten confused because the people crowding in the pathway
       wasn't moving so I asked around what's up. Turned out people
       were gathered close to the door and blocking the path when they
       weren't suppose to line up yet. This despite announcements this
       practice slows down everyone including yourself.
       So maybe they're asking due to come kind of confusion.
       #Post#: 5994--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Do We Owe Fellow Travelers Our Seating Information?
   DIR By: cleargleam
       Date: June 19, 2018, 9:35 am
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       As with the others, it's just to figure out their spot on the
       queue. There isn't room for 5 people between the posts, and no
       one wants to cut in front of someone else, but they don't want
       to be shoved to the back because they were afraid to ask someone
       in the queue what their number was.
       #Post#: 5996--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Do We Owe Fellow Travelers Our Seating Information?
   DIR By: VorFemme
       Date: June 19, 2018, 9:49 am
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       If I am traveling with my mother, I put her into her position in
       the que (and keep an eye on her to make sure that she stays in
       it - she may be wearing her hearing aids - but she may not have
       understood the information that came through them) before I get
       into my own position.
       I have had to get out of position to go get her when her
       attention wanders - her attention span is shorter than it was
       even ten years ago.
       #Post#: 6010--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Do We Owe Fellow Travelers Our Seating Information?
   DIR By: Hmmm
       Date: June 19, 2018, 11:28 am
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       --- Quote from: VorFemme link ---
       >
       > If I am traveling with my mother, I put her into her position
       in the que (and keep an eye on her to make sure that she stays
       in it - she may be wearing her hearing aids - but she may not
       have understood the information that came through them) before I
       get into my own position.
       >
       >
       > I have had to get out of position to go get her when her
       attention wanders - her attention span is shorter than it was
       even ten years ago.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       This sounds like a perfect reason for needing to board early.
       #Post#: 6011--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Do We Owe Fellow Travelers Our Seating Information?
   DIR By: lmyrs
       Date: June 19, 2018, 11:36 am
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       Unfortunately, the sheer volume of gate lice at every single
       boarding gate has basically made it necessary for everyone who
       is in an earlier boarding group to systematically walk up and
       down the line and ask people which group they're in. If everyone
       would stay out of the way until it was their turn, it would make
       life immensely easier and more efficient.
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