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#Post#: 5515--------------------------------------------------
Re: I am furious, Office gifts.
DIR By: Rose Red
Date: June 14, 2018, 9:36 am
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--- Quote from: MrTango link ---
>
> Why are you giving CC so much headspace? Just tell her you
aren't able to contribute to a monetary/material gift (or better
yet, just ignore the email) and be done with it.
>
--- End Quote ---
And unfriend her on FB and block her number. Why are you reading
her disgusting opinions on FB?
She doesn't know how you feel because you don't correct her.
From the few posts, it sounds like you're giving signs that you
want to be friends. For example, why did you offer her the
unicorn ring (from the other thread) when you know how she feels
about Pride? When she says disgusting things, do you tell her "I
don't find that acceptable. Do not say racist or homophobic
things to me." Stop putting yourself in a rage and cut her off
except professionally. I know it's not wise to make enemies at
work, but you can say what you find unacceptable in a calm and
factual way.
#Post#: 5667--------------------------------------------------
Re: I am furious, Office gifts.
DIR By: bopper
Date: June 15, 2018, 12:15 pm
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"Nevertheless, I have $5 to contribute."
#Post#: 5705--------------------------------------------------
Re: I am furious, Office gifts.
DIR By: MOM21SON
Date: June 15, 2018, 5:59 pm
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You guys are correct. Gave her way to much time in my head.
It's over, when I see her I will be polite.
But I will tell you about our final work meeting. There were
about 5 of us. 3 women and 2 men, we were waiting for the
others. She pulled up her shirt and adjusted her bra! Then
apologized to the men. ;D ;D ;D ::) ::) ::)
#Post#: 5724--------------------------------------------------
Re: I am furious, Office gifts.
DIR By: caroled
Date: June 15, 2018, 10:45 pm
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How does she still have a job?[emoji54]
#Post#: 5728--------------------------------------------------
Re: I am furious, Office gifts.
DIR By: LifeOnPluto
Date: June 16, 2018, 12:35 am
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--- Quote from: MOM21SON link ---
>
> You guys are correct. Gave her way to much time in my head.
It's over, when I see her I will be polite.
>
> But I will tell you about our final work meeting. There were
about 5 of us. 3 women and 2 men, we were waiting for the
others. She pulled up her shirt and adjusted her bra! Then
apologized to the men. ;D ;D ;D ::) ::) ::)
>
--- End Quote ---
Wow, that's insane, and hugely unprofessional!
#Post#: 5740--------------------------------------------------
Re: I am furious, Office gifts.
DIR By: TootsNYC
Date: June 16, 2018, 8:40 am
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When people truly lack class, they tend to demonstrate it in
many, many ways.
#Post#: 5747--------------------------------------------------
Re: I am furious, Office gifts.
DIR By: Pattycake
Date: June 16, 2018, 9:37 am
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--- Quote from: MOM21SON link ---
>
> You guys are correct. Gave her way to much time in my head.
It's over, when I see her I will be polite.
>
> But I will tell you about our final work meeting. There were
about 5 of us. 3 women and 2 men, we were waiting for the
others. She pulled up her shirt and adjusted her bra! Then
apologized to the men. ;D ;D ;D ::) ::) ::)
>
--- End Quote ---
And why not to the women too? I don't want to see that!
#Post#: 5760--------------------------------------------------
Re: I am furious, Office gifts.
DIR By: Hanna
Date: June 16, 2018, 11:31 am
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I would unfriend her immediately. In fact, I’d unfriend all
current coworkers and keep Facebook to family and personal.
Your online connection to someone making such ugly comments
maybe a reflection on you to others.
I distance myself as much as possible from people like this.
They are bad news. And if she’s lying to you she will definitely
lie about you.
#Post#: 5773--------------------------------------------------
Re: I am furious, Office gifts.
DIR By: GardenGal
Date: June 16, 2018, 4:17 pm
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--- Quote ---
> She really thinks she is the cream of the crop. Her FB posts
talk about about how great she is at her new job and post things
that are simply not true. The things she says about someones
race and lifestyles are way out of control.
>
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What a waste of space she sounds like! If you haven't
unfriended her yet, you can at least stop seeing her posts (I
know there is a way to do that) and also block her from seeing
your posts.
#Post#: 5815--------------------------------------------------
Re: I am furious, Office gifts.
DIR By: lakey
Date: June 17, 2018, 4:51 pm
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--- Quote ---
> But I will tell you about our final work meeting. There were
about 5 of us. 3 women and 2 men, we were waiting for the
others. She pulled up her shirt and adjusted her bra! Then
apologized to the men. ;D ;D ;D ::) ::) ::)
--- End Quote ---
So, you have this and her making facebook comments that are out
of line.
When a co-worker is this messed up, your best bet is to steer
clear of her and don't discuss her with anyone. Co-workers and
management will figure out for themselves what she's like. Also,
withhold judgement about Joe. You don't know whether he came up
with the gift idea, or she did.
And I wouldn't put in money toward the gift. Giving a gift to
employees of your company, who are simply doing the job they are
being paid to do, seems odd to me. People already get annoyed
with the nickle and diming at work. Why expand it?
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