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       A couple is suing their son and daughter-in-law for $650,000 for
        not giving them a grandchild
       By: Asharah Date: May 13, 2022, 9:57 am
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       How insane is this?
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       Re: A couple is suing their son and daughter-in-law for $650,000
        for not giving them a grandchild
       By: Rose Red Date: May 13, 2022, 10:14 am
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       I read that and thought "can they do that even in their
       country?" Goes to show they don't really care about their
       children or family.
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       Re: A couple is suing their son and daughter-in-law for $650,000
        for not giving them a grandchild
       By: Aleko Date: May 13, 2022, 10:52 am
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       I suppose that if they had actually said openly when they
       stumped up for the wedding "we're paying this on the clear
       understanding you're going to do your best to give us at least
       one grandchild, OK?' they would have a case in any country to
       sue for their money back. But I really don't think a charge of
       'mental cruelty' will cut it. Of course, the whole thing might
       be an exercise in public shaming, intended to put pressure on
       their son rather than to win the case.
       On a more light-hearted note, an Indian lawyer is suing his
       parents for bringing him into the world without his consent:
  HTML https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-india-61424869.
       Apparently
       he's on excellent terms with his parents, who are also both
       lawyers; they're quite cool with this and are happy to contest
       his suit (his mother says she'll just ask him to explain by what
       means she could have obtained it, and if he can answer she will
       accept fault).
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       Re: A couple is suing their son and daughter-in-law for $650,000
        for not giving them a grandchild
       By: TootsNYC Date: May 13, 2022, 2:03 pm
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       here's the link to the guy suing his parents.
  HTML https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-47154287
       That almost sounds like someone trying to make a point about
       when personhood begins, by proving that he wasn't one.
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       Re: A couple is suing their son and daughter-in-law for $650,000
        for not giving them a grandchild
       By: oogyda Date: May 13, 2022, 2:28 pm
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       Forgive my cynicism.
       Parents threaten lawsuit.  Son and DIL get an umbrella insurance
       policy.  Parents wait whatever amount of time for the full
       policy to kick in, file lawsuit.  If they win (because the
       lawyer for DS and DIL gets x amount of $$$ and doesn't try too
       hard).  Insurance pays.
       No harm, no foul because they were all in on it.
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       Re: A couple is suing their son and daughter-in-law for $650,000
        for not giving them a grandchild
       By: LifeOnPluto Date: May 14, 2022, 1:21 am
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       [quote author=Asharah link=topic=2346.msg75424#msg75424
       date=1652453820]
  HTML https://www.insider.com/parents-sue-son-daughter-in-law-for-not-producing-grandchild-2022-5
       How insane is this?
       [/quote]
       I just read the article. On another note, how do the parents
       know that their son and DIL haven't been trying for a child? I
       mean, the article did say that the son and DIL currently live in
       different states because of their jobs, but they must see each
       other sometimes. Unless the son and DIL are openly saying "We
       always use birth control" or "We are never intimate on the
       occasions when we're together in the same house", the parents
       have no way of knowing whether the lack of grandchild is within
       the son and DIL's control or not.
       If it's not, it seems extra cruel to demand compensation if the
       son and DIL desperately want a child, but it hasn't happened for
       them.
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       Re: A couple is suing their son and daughter-in-law for $650,000
        for not giving them a grandchild
       By: vintagegal Date: May 14, 2022, 7:45 am
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       would be karma if they did have a child and didn't let the
       grandparents see it. Highly unlikely to happen, I know.
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       Re: A couple is suing their son and daughter-in-law for $650,000
        for not giving them a grandchild
       By: Aleko Date: May 14, 2022, 12:13 pm
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       [quote]I just read the article. On another note, how do the
       parents know that their son and DIL haven't been trying for a
       child? I mean, the article did say that the son and DIL
       currently live in different states because of their jobs, but
       they must see each other sometimes. Unless the son and DIL are
       openly saying "We always use birth control" or "We are never
       intimate on the occasions when we're together in the same
       house", the parents have no way of knowing whether the lack of
       grandchild is within the son and DIL's control or not.[/quote]
       I think we have to assume that son and DIL have told them that
       they're not currently trying for a child.  It beggars belief
       that anyone would start anything so expensive and so
       embarrassing to the entire extended family without having asked
       'When will you have a child? Why don't you have one already? Why
       doesn't DIL live with you so you can make a child?' and received
       a dusty answer.
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