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       #Post#: 70764--------------------------------------------------
       Please help me with my menu
       By: jpcher Date: October 11, 2021, 5:15 pm
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       We are hosting the Day After Thanksgiving party for my family.
       It's a long standing tradition, the family gets together for
       traditional Tgiving meal (turkey, stuffing, apps, dessert, etc.)
       then the day after someone hosts another hoopla where we all get
       together again.
       Fortunately both my DDs and Fsam are wonderful in the kitchen
       and they all enjoy hosting large parties.
       DDs and Fsam put in their thoughts for the menu, which I love,
       but I'd like to keep the apps on a lighter side since everyone
       will be stuffed from the day before Tgiving meal. I'd also like
       to do something outside of the box, something different that we
       haven't done before instead of our "usuals".
       Our menu so far:
       APPS:
       Taco cups: 'dipping chips' filled with taco meat, topped with
       sour cream
       Caprese sticks: Toothpick skewers with tomato, cucumber, basil,
       mozzarella
       MAIN:
       garden salad
       coleslaw
       Mac n Cheese
       Pulled pork sliders
       Other thoughts for apps were:
       Deviled eggs (which we always do and is a favorite)
       Corned beef/cream cheese roll-ups (again, always a favorite)
       Pizza croissants (This is new to me)
       Buffalo chicken cheese dip (Aunt makes this a lot for her
       parties)
       Bacon wrapped water chestnuts
       Do you have any thoughts on this menu? Any other suggestions?
       I'd love to hear your ideas.
       #Post#: 70765--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Please help me with my menu
       By: QueenFaninCA Date: October 11, 2021, 5:24 pm
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       Is this a sit-down meal (as in everyone sits at the table and
       starts eating the main course together) or is everyone just
       grazing?
       The one comment on your menu I have is that cucumber does not
       belong on caprese.
       #Post#: 70768--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Please help me with my menu
       By: Wanaca Date: October 11, 2021, 8:23 pm
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       Since people like cream cheese, how about a fruit salad with a
       cream cheese dressing/dipping sauce on the side?
       #Post#: 70769--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Please help me with my menu
       By: Rose Red Date: October 11, 2021, 9:11 pm
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       How about a light soup? Small bowls and spoons if there are
       tables, or shot glasses/mini cups (the dollar store has plastic
       ones) if guests are walking around.
       #Post#: 70771--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Please help me with my menu
       By: Aleko Date: October 12, 2021, 2:10 am
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       Back when enough of my family lived within a close enough radius
       to make a New Year’s Day lunch practicable, I used to host one,
       and on the grounds that by NYD everyone has had it up to here
       with turkey, ham, beef etc. I would make it a fish-and-seafood
       meal. Most of the things you can do with fish are reasonably
       light, and it’s such a complete change from
       roast-with-stuffing-potatoes—and-all-the-trimmings that everyone
       found it a welcome change. I would start with a soup (not
       necessarily a fish soup), followed by a spread of things such as
       potted shrimps, stuffed eggs with anchovies, crab tarts, smoked
       salmon, etc. These are all traditional British fish dishes, but
       I’m sure there will be American equivalents.
       #Post#: 70775--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Please help me with my menu
       By: BeagleMommy Date: October 12, 2021, 7:50 am
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       I've taken what was once called "cocktail bread" (those tine
       loaves of bread) and made mini grilled cheese sandwiches with
       them.
       #Post#: 70780--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Please help me with my menu
       By: lowspark Date: October 12, 2021, 8:31 am
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       It feels like you have too many "salad" type items. Caprese
       sticks, garden salad, coleslaw. I'd nix the salad or the
       coleslaw. If you do the coleslaw, you might add some apples into
       the mix, to complement the pork.
       I would look at my main dish, in this case, the pork sliders,
       and build from there. So... taco cups, I dunno. Doesn't feel
       like they fit. But maybe a corn salsa instead. Then you still
       have the chips, but not as heavy as the taco meat.
       #Post#: 70790--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Please help me with my menu
       By: jpcher Date: October 12, 2021, 1:03 pm
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       [quote author=QueenFaninCA link=topic=2183.msg70765#msg70765
       date=1633991072]
       Is this a sit-down meal (as in everyone sits at the table and
       starts eating the main course together) or is everyone just
       grazing?
       The one comment on your menu I have is that cucumber does not
       belong on caprese.
       [/quote]
       Basically a grazing event. Apps will be ready when people
       arrive, with the sliders, mac&cheese, salads being pulled out
       and placed on a buffet an hour or so later but no formal
       "Dinner's Ready" time. I will have two tables set up (one
       inside, one outside) for people to sit at.
       Bold above -- Interesting. DD#2 makes a wonderful caprese salad
       with cucumbers. I always thought they belonged!
       Wanaca -- Love the fruit salad idea. Cream cheese dip? I'll have
       to look that up unless you have a recipe that you can share?
       Aleko -- I really like your lighter side thought of fish.
       However, I know a few men would look at it and say "That's for
       dinner?" LOL! Although all the women I know would love it.
       lowspark -- Too many salads? I was actually thinking about
       adding a crudite platter. Then, again, the men might say "All
       you're serving is rabbit food?" LOL.
       The coleslaw will be made with bacon and horseradish which, I
       think, will match nicely with the pork. I can see some chopped
       apples in there as well. Good thought!
       Thanks for all of your suggestions so far . . . please keep them
       coming ;D
       #Post#: 70797--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Please help me with my menu
       By: Hmmm Date: October 12, 2021, 3:02 pm
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       I made blue cheese Gougeres a few weeks ago and served them room
       temp with jalapeno jelly. They were a big hit with the blue
       cheese fans.
       I'd be adding a seafood item. Bacon wrapped shrimp are always
       popular. Or a shrimp or crab dip would add some variety. This
       recipe is very similar to the one I got from my mom decades ago
       and works well with shrimp, crab or a combo of them.
  HTML https://www.pauladeen.com/recipe/cheesy-shrimp-dip/
       Or more in line with the taco cups, Campechana is always scarfed
       up at any gathering we host or attend.
  HTML https://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/views/campechana-extra-mexican-seafood-cocktail
       #Post#: 70800--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Please help me with my menu
       By: lowspark Date: October 12, 2021, 3:15 pm
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       How many people are you serving?
       One lesson I've learned over the years is that it's better to
       make fewer dishes and have enough of each rather than to have
       too many different items. That's one reason I say, "too many
       salads". The people who like fresh veggies will be happy with a
       couple of options and don't really need three or four.
       Limiting your items reduces prep time and effort, and it reduces
       leftovers.
       If you're going for variety to please diverse tastes, I would go
       with two or three appetizers, one main, and three sides. That's
       a lot IF your items are varied enough that if someone doesn't
       like one or two things, there are still plenty of options.
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