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       #Post#: 57324--------------------------------------------------
       Re: non-customer harassment at work
   DIR By: DaDancingPsych
       Date: September 13, 2020, 1:19 pm
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       > The presence of a security guard may make her modify her
       behavior.
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       Ohhh... this is a good point. I might suggest to my manager that
       he/she get in touch with security and mention what's happening.
       Put them on notice. This way you could call and ask them to
       simply be there. As Mary Sunshine Rain said, their presence
       might be the fix. They could also act as an outside witness if
       needed. And if her behavior steps outside of what the mall
       allows, they could take action.
       #Post#: 57329--------------------------------------------------
       Re: non-customer harassment at work
   DIR By: Rain
       Date: September 13, 2020, 3:57 pm
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       The plan is to get in touch with security tomorrow (Monday).
       My concern is that the young lady has held on to her anger/ire
       this long in order to make her (mean girl) point.
       My husband has recommended keeping a cell handy to take her pic
       as we have no clue who she is.
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       Re: non-customer harassment at work
   DIR By: gramma dishes
       Date: September 13, 2020, 6:36 pm
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       --- Quote from: Rain link ---
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       > The plan is to get in touch with security tomorrow (Monday).
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       > My concern is that the young lady has held on to her anger/ire
       this long in order to make her (mean girl) point.
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       > My husband has recommended keeping a cell handy to take her
       pic as we have no clue who she is.
       >
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       Does your store not have cameras already in place?
       #Post#: 57331--------------------------------------------------
       Re: non-customer harassment at work
   DIR By: Rain
       Date: September 13, 2020, 7:27 pm
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       No, no cameras
       Hopefully I'll be able to update tomorrow.
       #Post#: 57339--------------------------------------------------
       Re: non-customer harassment at work
   DIR By: SioCat
       Date: September 13, 2020, 11:39 pm
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       I still don’t understand what this girl is even doing? Nothing
       you have said sounds like harassment. What would she be banned
       for?
       #Post#: 57380--------------------------------------------------
       Re: non-customer harassment at work
   DIR By: Victoria
       Date: September 14, 2020, 4:53 pm
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       --- Quote from: SioCat link ---
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       > I still don’t understand what this girl is even doing? Nothing
       you have said sounds like harassment. What would she be banned
       for?
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       She sounds like she's doing this:
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       />and also like she's specifically showing up to stare down the
       manager multiple times after being told to settle down.
       I'm curious about whether or not she's bought anything or has
       just come around to try and figure out when the manager is
       working.
       #Post#: 57388--------------------------------------------------
       Re: non-customer harassment at work
   DIR By: Rain
       Date: September 14, 2020, 8:00 pm
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       Never bought anything
       Currently the plan is simple, wait for the District Manager to
       get back to us about corporate policy....and document if/when
       she shows up again.
       We're not allowed to take pics.
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       Re: non-customer harassment at work
   DIR By: gramma dishes
       Date: September 15, 2020, 8:08 am
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       --- Quote from: Rain link ---
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       > Never bought anything
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       >
       > Currently the plan is simple, wait for the District Manager to
       get back to us about corporate policy....and document if/when
       she shows up again.
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       > We're not allowed to take pics.
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       I can certainly see why you wouldn't be permitted to whip out
       your iPhone or other sort of camera and take pictures, but  I
       can't think of any stores, even tiny ones, that don't use
       security cameras.  Her behavior could certainly and quite
       legally be picked up that way.
       On the other hand, she's a teen.   Chances are good that she'll
       get bored and quickly find some new person/place of business to
       harass.
       #Post#: 57404--------------------------------------------------
       Re: non-customer harassment at work
   DIR By: Isisnin
       Date: September 15, 2020, 8:16 am
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       Mall security must have cameras. With date and time, they could
       get a pic of her entering the store.
       In fact, your store should give that a try. She probably is
       acting out in other stores too. If security had a pic of her,
       they could check with the other stores or just keep her pic in
       case other stores complain about her.
       She may have kept coming in just so she could show off in front
       of her friends by doing the "I'm watching you" gesture to the
       manager. Hopefully that satisfies her and she stops.
       #Post#: 57413--------------------------------------------------
       Re: non-customer harassment at work
   DIR By: oogyda
       Date: September 15, 2020, 10:48 am
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       So...
       2 weeks ago Teen Girl was horsing around in the store.  Manager
       told her to calm down.
       Teen Girl and friends return a couple of times while the manager
       was on vacation.  Did they do anything during these visits?  Did
       they misbehave or make threats?
       Manager returns from vacation.  Teen Girl comes into the store
       and makes what I believe to be and "I'm watching you." gesture.
       Did she misbehave again?  Make more overt threats?
       I'm just not sure what she's done to warrant putting the police
       or mall security "on alert".  You should be able to call mall
       security anytime there is an issue in any store.
       Most importantly.............has the little brat been back?
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