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Re: Friend told me to remove Facebook photo as it depicts us not
socially distancing
By: oogyda Date: August 8, 2020, 8:26 pm
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Or you could set your privacy on that post to "Friends except".
That will give you a drop down of all your friends and you would
click on the button next to her name.
After you blur out her face.
#Post#: 55790--------------------------------------------------
Re: Friend told me to remove Facebook photo as it depicts us not
socially distancing
By: gramma dishes Date: August 9, 2020, 10:12 am
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[quote author=oogyda link=topic=1811.msg55768#msg55768
date=1596936409]
Or you could set your privacy on that post to "Friends except".
That will give you a drop down of all your friends and you would
click on the button next to her name.
After you blur out her face.
[/quote]
That would stop Barbara from being able to see it, but her
objection was that other people would see it and "other people"
still would and might say something to the effect of "Hey! I
saw the two of you really close together at such-and-such
monument and not only were you standing close together, you
weren't even wearing masks! What's up with that?" And that's
what she's trying to avoid.
#Post#: 55792--------------------------------------------------
Re: Friend told me to remove Facebook photo as it depicts us not
socially distancing
By: oogyda Date: August 9, 2020, 12:25 pm
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[quote author=gramma dishes link=topic=1811.msg55790#msg55790
date=1596985929]
[quote author=oogyda link=topic=1811.msg55768#msg55768
date=1596936409]
Or you could set your privacy on that post to "Friends except".
That will give you a drop down of all your friends and you would
click on the button next to her name.
After you blur out her face.
[/quote]
That would stop Barbara from being able to see it, but her
objection was that other people would see it and "other people"
still would and might say something to the effect of "Hey! I
saw the two of you really close together at such-and-such
monument and not only were you standing close together, you
weren't even wearing masks! What's up with that?" And that's
what she's trying to avoid.
[/quote]
You're right. But, OP said they have very few mutual fb
friends, so she could include them in the "Friends except".
#Post#: 56249--------------------------------------------------
Re: Friend told me to remove Facebook photo as it depicts us not
socially distancing
By: Nikko-chan Date: August 20, 2020, 11:27 am
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Frankly, I would untag her. And then I would keep the photo up.
Why? Because she is the one that decided to be in the photo with
you. 'We can't let OP be in the photo by herself!" Followed by
her bouncing into the photo next to you. If she hadn't done
that, you wouldn't be having this issue.
Am I the only one who feels Barbara was trying to start trouble?
She had to know OP would have posted the photo on social media.
#Post#: 56264--------------------------------------------------
Re: Friend told me to remove Facebook photo as it depicts us not
socially distancing
By: Hmmm Date: August 20, 2020, 4:27 pm
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No, I don't think she was trying to cause trouble. Do you not
feel that people should have the opportunity to reflect on their
actions an then make a different decision? I'm not following why
you'd put a bad spin on her behavior.
Barbara's first inclination was to join in the photo to create
more of a festive image of two friends out. Later she realizes
the image gives a bad impression of the afternoon.
I personally think it is fair to allow our friends to take a
step back and say "You know, that might not have been the best
action. Let's not advertise this to our social groups."
What if we turned this around and it was Barbara coming and
saying that she and a couple of friends spent the day out and
hadn't followed good guidelines and she now regrets those
actions. She's asked her friend to remove a photo on social
media of them but knows the friend is really excited about being
able to show a photo of her next to a landmark. Her friend is
balking because she is prioritizing wanting to show her fun
photo over being perceived negatively by their social group. Is
she in the wrong to ask for a photo that she is in to be taken
down?
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