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       Re: You want the money?  Fill out the forms!
       By: Aleko Date: June 20, 2020, 5:43 am
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       My thought is that, having fully checked out the legal situation
       in your state and your responsibilities therein, you should send
       them a sign-off message: 'I have done all I can do to settle
       Dad's finances and help you get your inheritances, so I'm bowing
       out. You all have the necessary paperwork: either you complete
       it and send it in to the X Corporation, or at some point - I
       don't know how long -  the money will be turned over to the
       state treasury as unclaimed funds. If you allow that to happen,
       I have no idea whether or how you can claim it back from the
       state. It's entirely up to each of you now.' You might want to
       copy their parents and any other legatees in to that message, so
       everybody knows you've dumped the responsibility firmly in their
       laps.
       There's no guarantee, whatever you say or do, that they won't
       come whining to you much later saying 'Oh, we didn't know...' or
       'You were supposed to be responsible!'; but that makes it all
       the more important that you know and can prove that you had done
       all you could and had clearly told them so.
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