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       #Post#: 35621--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Dealing with a Big-Wig Director . . .
       By: Hanna Date: July 30, 2019, 7:33 pm
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       jpcher I always admire your grace.
       I wonder if this director is confused about the logistics of
       printing your PDFs. perhaps she and her admin don’t understand
       that either of them could print it?
       #Post#: 35627--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Dealing with a Big-Wig Director . . .
       By: TootsNYC Date: July 30, 2019, 8:19 pm
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       [quote author=Hanna link=topic=1245.msg35621#msg35621
       date=1564533224]
       jpcher I always admire your grace.
       [/quote]
       Ditto!
       [quote]
       I wonder if this director is confused about the logistics of
       printing your PDFs. perhaps she and her admin don’t understand
       that either of them could print it?
       [/quote]
       and ditto--I wonder if they think they need your specialized
       software or something?
       #Post#: 35630--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Dealing with a Big-Wig Director . . .
       By: Runningstar Date: July 30, 2019, 8:52 pm
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       jpcher, I worked a long time ago for an incredible BFD (Big f-g
       Deal - in his own mind anyway).  He was horrid, impossible, and
       your post reminds me of him.  One day after one of his tirades,
       over a post it note that had lost it's stickiness - somehow my
       fault (?!!), I ended up in the women's bathroom in tears of
       frustration.  His secretary came in to find me, because the BFD
       wasn't done with his tantrum yet, and was irate that I wasn't at
       my desk.  She had good advice (I thought back then) - which was
       to just do the deed of the moment (or in this situation, get the
       BFD a new post it note and copy down whatever was written on
       it).  Do whatever needed done to shorten the time spent with
       him.
       If you had asked about this back then, I'd have said for you to
       just print the paper and move on!!  Get him satisfied and out!!
       But now?  I would actually let his admin. know that he cannot
       print a pdf, and that you would be sending pdf's to them
       (him/her?) for printing.  Hopefully they act professionally and
       will have no issue with this.  And, if they aren't knowledgeable
       about how to print a pdf, I'd be very surprised, but it might be
       worth your while to teach them.  I say this because as
       non-technically savvy as I am - I learned it pretty easily once
       someone showed me.  Then the next time this happens, say to the
       big wig director "oh - yes!! let me call your admin. right now!!
       We must get this fixed for you!!"  Call the admin., tell them
       of this absolute crisis (I guess I'm still a little bit
       bitter....) and tell BWD that his admin has the golden tablet
       waiting for him.  Eventually he might learn how to actually ask
       the admin himself.  Then again, maybe not.
       #Post#: 35634--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Dealing with a Big-Wig Director . . .
       By: Aleko Date: July 31, 2019, 1:42 am
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       Jpcher, I think the first thing you need to do is get into a
       huddle with his admin, who is quite likely as frustrated as you
       are when BWD tasks anybody-but-them with routine jobs that could
       and should be done by them, so that they constantly have grumpy
       people turning up in their office with a 'Why me? Why didn't you
       do this for BWD yourself?' vibe.  See if you two can't decide on
       a consistent strategy for dealing with him when he pulls stunts
       like this.
       Even if you (plural) can't train him out of it, you'll have
       minimised the chance of any aggravation or misunderstanding
       between you, which otherwise could easily be created by this
       kind of misdirected command.
       #Post#: 35656--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Dealing with a Big-Wig Director . . .
       By: Hanna Date: July 31, 2019, 7:42 am
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       [quote author=TootsNYC link=topic=1245.msg35627#msg35627
       date=1564535973]
       [quote author=Hanna link=topic=1245.msg35621#msg35621
       date=1564533224]
       jpcher I always admire your grace.
       [/quote]
       Ditto!
       [quote]
       I wonder if this director is confused about the logistics of
       printing your PDFs. perhaps she and her admin don’t understand
       that either of them could print it?
       [/quote]
       and ditto--I wonder if they think they need your specialized
       software or something?
       [/quote]
       Or their printer is not set up right.
       You know the situation best but I’d consider sending IT over to
       the admin “It sounds like BWD and Admin are having trouble
       printing my pdf files. Can you check to see if they have an
       issue with their print drivers?”
       #Post#: 35659--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Dealing with a Big-Wig Director . . .
       By: Jem Date: July 31, 2019, 8:06 am
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       [quote author=jpcher link=topic=1245.msg35619#msg35619
       date=1564530361]
       Truth be told, from your's and other's responses, I need to say
       that I am in no way direct- nor dotted-lined connected to BWD on
       the Org Chart. BWD and her group are my customers. So printing
       .pdfs for BWD is not in no way part of my job description.
       [/quote]
       I am still confused about the bolded. So BWD is not part of your
       organization? Do YOU have an admin? It does seem weird that BWD
       is asking someone who is not an admin to do administrative jobs,
       but I wonder if she thinks you are best able to print a PDF you
       created, especially if BWD is a customer instead of a colleague
       within your organization. I would maybe ask your boss how he/she
       wants you to handle requests from customers. I think it matters
       that this is a CUSTOMER rather than just a rude or ill-informed
       co-worker. I think it makes a difference if BWD is not part of
       your organization and doesn't have access to a printer
       personally at your location.
       I still think the advice of PPs is appropriate though, assuming
       BWD's admin is right there and can print and hand the physical
       PDF to BWD. If not, I think BWD is probably asking you to print
       it because you are nearby and you have it.
       #Post#: 35665--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Dealing with a Big-Wig Director . . .
       By: DaDancingPsych Date: July 31, 2019, 8:43 am
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       [quote author=Aleko link=topic=1245.msg35634#msg35634
       date=1564555322]
       Jpcher, I think the first thing you need to do is get into a
       huddle with his admin, who is quite likely as frustrated as you
       are when BWD tasks anybody-but-them with routine jobs that could
       and should be done by them, so that they constantly have grumpy
       people turning up in their office with a 'Why me? Why didn't you
       do this for BWD yourself?' vibe.  See if you two can't decide on
       a consistent strategy for dealing with him when he pulls stunts
       like this.
       Even if you (plural) can't train him out of it, you'll have
       minimised the chance of any aggravation or misunderstanding
       between you, which otherwise could easily be created by this
       kind of misdirected command.
       [/quote]
       I like the plan of working with Admin. I know that you said that
       you do not know him/her well, but I think that this is a great
       opportunity to initiate a relationship and to gain a better
       understanding of what is happening. I have seen situations where
       the admin is getting frustrated because the boss is not
       utilizing him/her properly. I have even seen where they are
       worried about job security because others are doing their work
       and boss is not giving the appropriate opportunities to prove
       him/herself. And meanwhile, the ones doing the work are getting
       upset because they are doing duties that are not theirs. Either
       way, getting a better understanding of the situation will allow
       you to know how to better handle BWD in the future.
       #Post#: 35669--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Dealing with a Big-Wig Director . . .
       By: syfygeek Date: July 31, 2019, 9:16 am
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       [quote author=Hanna link=topic=1245.msg35656#msg35656
       date=1564576925]
       [quote author=TootsNYC link=topic=1245.msg35627#msg35627
       date=1564535973]
       [quote author=Hanna link=topic=1245.msg35621#msg35621
       date=1564533224]
       jpcher I always admire your grace.
       [/quote]
       Ditto!
       [quote]
       I wonder if this director is confused about the logistics of
       printing your PDFs. perhaps she and her admin don’t understand
       that either of them could print it?
       [/quote]
       and ditto--I wonder if they think they need your specialized
       software or something?
       [/quote]
       Or their printer is not set up right.
       You know the situation best but I’d consider sending IT over to
       the admin “It sounds like BWD and Admin are having trouble
       printing my pdf files. Can you check to see if they have an
       issue with their print drivers?”
       [/quote]
       I completely agree with this. It could be that "that one time
       before, Jpcher printed this for us, we must ask her to keep
       doing that until the end of time". Or for some reason, BWD's
       admin has a computer glitch and doesn't even realize it.
       #Post#: 35670--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Dealing with a Big-Wig Director . . .
       By: lowspark Date: July 31, 2019, 9:19 am
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       JEM, he might be an internal customer.
       I have a lot of internal customers and I often get asked to do
       (what I consider) menial tasks that they *could* do themselves
       but they just haven't taken the time to learn how. Just happened
       to me this morning.
       I did the task and then asked them if they would like to be
       trained on how to do it. And that's pretty much how I handle
       these kinds of things every time. It might take just once of me
       asking them and then I do a training session or it might take
       several times. Or I might train them and they still ask me. At
       that point, instead of doing it for them, I offer to walk them
       through doing it themselves.
       They are my customers so I'm not going to chastise them or say
       anything like "not my job" but on the other hand I want to
       communicate to them that they can and should be doing it
       themselves. I repeatedly offer to help them or teach them or do
       whatever it takes for them to be able to do it themselves.
       Sooner or later, they all catch on.
       #Post#: 35697--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Dealing with a Big-Wig Director . . .
       By: bopper Date: July 31, 2019, 2:18 pm
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       The other thing to keep in mind is that in any company, you want
       to push a task down to the lowest level person that could handle
       it.
       So if the OP is a lead software developer, sure, they could
       print out a pdf...but do you want someone at $50/hour  or
       someone at $20 an hour to do it?
       If you can you always pick the $20 an hour person and let the
       $50/hr person do the more difficult things.
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