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       #Post#: 31414--------------------------------------------------
       Rudeness at the ballpark 
   DIR By: Songbird
       Date: May 19, 2019, 1:05 pm
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       I love baseball.  We are fans of a local team that plays in a
       6,000 seat ballpark (very small scale). We see games frequently
       throughout the summer.  We like to sit in the upper level,
       behind home plate.
       That means we have to walk through the “club” to get to our
       seats.
       The club is a restaurant, access is restricted to season ticket
       holders and those of us who paid extra to sit on the upper
       level.  The food in the restaurant is not included with the
       price of the ticket.
       Recently the club gave up its a la carte menu in favor of a
       buffet.  You’re seated by a hostess, a waiter takes your drink
       order and hands you a paper plate, and a server puts the food on
       your plate as you choose items from the buffet table. At the end
       of the meal, the waiter hands you a bill.
       No problem, right?
       Except...
       There’s a small table, separate from the main buffet service
       area, that contains salad, toppings for hamburgers, and cookies
       and brownies.  This table is located right by the door that
       leads from the club to the seating area.  So people who have not
       paid for a meal help themselves to cookies and brownies as they
       walk through the club to their seats.
       Last night I had to wait to get toppings for my burger while
       three men who had not paid for their meals helped themselves to
       treats on their way out the door.
       (I know they didn’t pay for meals, because the restaurant had
       opened only a few minutes earlier.)
       I’ve emailed the team, suggesting that the small table be moved.
       We are going to another game in two weeks, and I think the
       restaurant will have the buffet again.
       Should I say anything if I see people taking brownies?
       #Post#: 31415--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Rudeness at the ballpark 
   DIR By: Hanna
       Date: May 19, 2019, 1:08 pm
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       No, I don’t think that’s your problem to solve.
       #Post#: 31420--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Rudeness at the ballpark 
   DIR By: Luci
       Date: May 19, 2019, 2:18 pm
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       --- Quote from: Hanna link ---
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       > No, I don’t think that’s your problem to solve.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       No. I agree, but I might mention it to the manager. Surely they
       would have known that would happen when they rearranged the
       restaurant.
       #Post#: 31425--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Rudeness at the ballpark 
   DIR By: Rose Red
       Date: May 19, 2019, 4:30 pm
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       Tell the people in charge what you saw and let them handle or
       not handle it for future games. Don't confront the people taking
       food.
       #Post#: 31435--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Rudeness at the ballpark 
   DIR By: TootsNYC
       Date: May 19, 2019, 9:31 pm
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       For all you know, this is part of their plan: If people have
       goodwill from the brownies, maybe they'll consider eating there.
       Restaurants have done more wasteful things things.
       You've alerted them (and surely the restaurant's staff and
       managers are not so stupid that they didn't see), and also
       alerted them that you didn't appreciate having to wait.
       That's all your role is, I think. Oh, and deciding whether you
       want to continue to eat there if it's uncomfortable.
       #Post#: 31446--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Rudeness at the ballpark 
   DIR By: HenrysMom
       Date: May 20, 2019, 1:27 am
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       You’ve given them the heads up and that’s all you can do - it’s
       up to them to correct the situation.
       When I used to take my mom to see the A’s, she always got a big
       kick out of being seated at club level, even though the seats
       weren’t the greatest.
       #Post#: 31454--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Rudeness at the ballpark 
   DIR By: DaDancingPsych
       Date: May 20, 2019, 8:37 am
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       I think that you have done all that you should do. You have
       already pointed out the problem, so management is aware. From
       there, it is up to them to solve it. Maybe there is a reason
       that they have the table there and despite others helping
       themselves, they feel that this is still the best option. Now,
       if this begins to diminish your experience (having to wait an
       extremely long time to get your toppings), then that might
       effect any reviews that I provide or what I tell management if
       they ask (or it may even mean that I eat elsewhere).
       #Post#: 32547--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Rudeness at the ballpark 
   DIR By: Songbird
       Date: June 9, 2019, 7:30 am
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       Well, last night ...
       We did the buffet again
       And I didn’t get any brownies for dessert because people who
       didn’t pay for the meal had helped themselves to dessert.
       Seems the restaurant was much busier last night than it was two
       weeks ago.  When the restaurant wasn’t busy, letting people take
       the extra cookies and brownies wasn’t an issue.  But when the
       restaurant was packed ...
       The manager said we weren’t the only ones to complain.  He’s
       going to move the table.
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       Re: Rudeness at the ballpark 
   DIR By: Kiwipinball
       Date: June 10, 2019, 3:06 pm
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       --- Quote from: Songbird link ---
       >
       > Well, last night ...
       >
       > We did the buffet again
       >
       > And I didn’t get any brownies for dessert because people who
       didn’t pay for the meal had helped themselves to dessert.
       >
       > Seems the restaurant was much busier last night than it was
       two weeks ago.  When the restaurant wasn’t busy, letting people
       take the extra cookies and brownies wasn’t an issue.  But when
       the restaurant was packed ...
       >
       > The manager said we weren’t the only ones to complain.  He’s
       going to move the table.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       Paying customers complaining will likely do the trick. :) I'd be
       mad too if I didn't get a brownie I was supposed to get. Moving
       the table sounds like a good idea.
       #Post#: 32633--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Rudeness at the ballpark 
   DIR By: DaDancingPsych
       Date: June 11, 2019, 7:46 am
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       I glad that you will finally get the results that you wanted.
       It's sad that these things sometimes have to play out before
       anyone understands the problem, but I am glad that you finally
       have management's attention. I hope that next time that you get
       your brownie... and maybe one for me!   ;D
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