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       Re: Should I pay my house cleaner for sick days?
   DIR By: STiG
       Date: April 19, 2019, 6:45 pm
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       I like the idea of asking Carl to do some extra work for you
       next week and pay accordingly.  So if he can give you an extra
       hour, you give hime $200, for example.
       I don't pay my housekeeper if she misses a day; I will ask her
       to rebook, if possible.  And I will sometimes get her for an
       extra day when there is something going on that I need the house
       cleaned.
       Edited to remove extra words.
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       Re: Should I pay my house cleaner for sick days?
   DIR By: gramma dishes
       Date: April 19, 2019, 6:57 pm
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       I like the ideas of:
       1.  letting him work an extra hour or two next time to make up
       at least part of the difference
       -and-
       2.  rebooking at sometime in the future for an extra day, like
       before a holiday or a time you'll be having guests
       I do not think it would be wise to pay him for not working.  It
       might become an uncomfortable ''tradition' with him thinking
       perhaps that he will always get paid, even if he does no work.
       That could cause uneasiness in the comfortable and trusting
       relationship you two have with each other right now and which I
       assume you wish to maintain.
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       Re: Should I pay my house cleaner for sick days?
   DIR By: Pattycake
       Date: April 20, 2019, 10:38 am
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       I agree with those saying no sick pay as he isn't really a
       contractor even, he's more like casual labour (and very well
       paid!). Reschedule him, like have him come three times in two
       weeks later, if you have enough work in that time frame for him
       to do.
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       Re: Should I pay my house cleaner for sick days?
   DIR By: pierrotlunaire0
       Date: April 20, 2019, 9:44 pm
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       There have been a few times over the past years where my
       housecleaner has called off.  When she offered to come in on a
       different day (say during the following week that she would not
       normally come at all), I have accepted her offer of an alternate
       day.  But once or twice, she has just said she can't, and we
       instead agree that she won't come in until her next regular day,
       two weeks from then.
       I have never offered sick pay, and I do give her a generous
       Christmas bonus every year.
       Has your cleaner asked for a different day to do the work?  I
       would take my cue from that.
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       Re: Should I pay my house cleaner for sick days?
   DIR By: CrazyDaffodilLady
       Date: April 21, 2019, 2:20 am
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       --- Quote from: pierrotlunaire0 link ---
       >
       > [snip]
       > Has your cleaner asked for a different day to do the work?  I
       would take my cue from that.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       The day he missed was four days ago.  I assume he is still sick.
       Usually if one of us is unavailable on our normal day, we
       reschedule for later in the week.
       Thanks everyone for your helpful responses.  I'm planning to
       offer him extra work if he wants it.  I also plan to express my
       gratitude that he didn't expose me to anything.
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       Re: Should I pay my house cleaner for sick days?
   DIR By: bopper
       Date: April 23, 2019, 2:47 pm
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       You could
       1) Not pay him. That would not incentivize him to stay home when
       very sick
       2) Pay him.  that could set up expectations for being paid when
       he is not around
       3) Pay him half. Saying  you appreciate him not getting you
       sick.
       4) Give him a bonus at the Holidays..."Carl I want to thank you
       for your not coming when you are very sick as I am susceptible
       to illness."
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       Re: Should I pay my house cleaner for sick days?
   DIR By: Victoria
       Date: April 24, 2019, 10:22 am
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       I have to agree with Lexophile in that you don't want to create
       a course of dealing that ends up being a burden to you later on.
       If you do make some sort of exception I would be sure that you
       prepare yourself for similar requests in the future, and have
       your answer ready to go.
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       Re: Should I pay my house cleaner for sick days?
   DIR By: TootsNYC
       Date: April 29, 2019, 6:21 pm
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       --- Quote from: DaDancingPsych link ---
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       > I would not make this decision based on etiquette. I would
       think that business etiquette of the situation is that you only
       pay Carl for the services that he performs. If he doesn't work,
       you owe him nothing.
       >
       > I would weight the pros with the cons. If I could afford to
       pay him, I might do so because he's good and you want to keep
       him and it does prevent him from exposing you to illness.
       However, if one of these factors changed, I might not.
       >
       > Maybe there is middle ground here? I would ensure that Carl is
       aware of how important it is for you to avoid germs and let him
       know that if he is ill that you appreciate that he stays home.
       However, you would be willing to reschedule for a later day or
       even "double up" the next week. Maybe he does a more deep
       cleaning in exchange for the previous week's pay, too. No matter
       what, I would figure out what is acceptable from your end.
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       I think this is where I fall.
       I know my cleaner relies on the income. So if she has to miss
       for any reason, we try very hard to accommodate a rescheduling
       on her part.
       Sometimes that doesn't feel fair. I suppose another thing I
       might do is ask her to put in just a little bit of time each
       week for the next 3 weeks, and pay her for that, so that over 3
       weeks, she gets the money back.
       There are lots of jobs where you don't get paid for sick time.
       Unfortunately, I think, but htere you are.
       If you wanted to institute a sick-time policy, I'd do it the way
       a company does it: X number a year.
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