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       #Post#: 1673--------------------------------------------------
       I am leaving and want you to come with me
       By: Dwildor Date: August 11, 2014, 8:58 am
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       We have been without a room controller for months and a
       leaderless room becomes stagnant. I am as fond of Arnvid as
       anyone else, but for the well being of myself and those I hold
       dear, I say it is time to take our destinies in hand and either
       make a new home or choose an established home to migrate to.
       The reason this is in the ooc section is that this decision is
       about where you want to role play and further your character on
       Gor. I have discussed this with a couple of people in the home
       and I personally have come to a fork in the road leaving me with
       two decisions which I want you all to make with me.
       Option one, We have been invited to migrate to Sulport a well
       run Gorean home with very strong leadership and established
       avenues of role play we could all be inserted into quite
       seamlessly. I myself think that this would be a good choice with
       the least amount of drama, but it is not the only choice.
       Option two, We create our own home which would be the Isle of
       Skjern, it would be controlled by Myself and Krul. This would be
       a home that would be starting from scratch and hopefully with
       many if not all of you as members of the home, but will
       undoubtedly include the drama and pains that come with growing a
       home from scratch which we have done on more than one occasion
       in our many years on Gor.
       I leave this to your vote and will let majority rule, but this
       is not about being disloyal to Arnvid no matter how some may
       wish to twist it, this is about being realistic and moving
       forward after more than a quarter of a year of floundering and
       trying to hold things together with no real leadership available
       because there is no room controller and although we love Arnvid,
       can only wait so long before things start to fall apart. I know
       with many this will not be a popular post, but it is nonetheless
       from my heart and made with much contemplation with more than
       just myself and my woman in mind.
       #Post#: 1674--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I am leaving and want you to come with me
       By: Krul Date: August 11, 2014, 9:21 am
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       When I came to the Axe there was no leader, it was glaringly
       obvious that it was debilitating, causing drama that should
       never have existed in a Gorean home.
       I was welcomed with open arms by those that spent time in the
       home striving to make it work, trying to shore up the leaks as
       people left for various reasons, yet they treated me like a
       brother a part of the family without any reservations.
       Being offered a membership, and pledging to the home meant so
       much to me. I could never abandon those that sought me as a
       brother, those that I pledged to honour and protect, and now
       that there is a threat of the home closing I still will not
       abandon any of you.
       Dwildor and I have both discussed this in length and despite how
       we feel our responsibilities are with you regardless of what you
       decide we will sacrifice our own preferences for the greater
       good of the home.
       I stand by Dwildor on this issue and whatever the decision is I
       will follow suite.
       #Post#: 1675--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I am leaving and want you to come with me
       By: Leilou Tzuris Date: August 11, 2014, 9:28 am
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       I am sorry things have come to this, but I understand why it is
       necessary.
       Obviously, I will go where you decide is best Dwildor.  Whether
       it is Sulport or the new room, it does not matter to me.
       Lei..
       #Post#: 1676--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I am leaving and want you to come with me
       By: Oreo Date: August 11, 2014, 10:05 am
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       You all would be welcome to come and visit  Hunjer and see if
       you like it.
       We have a wonderful RC and stick to the books(though not book
       thumpers) and its in the North.
       the.oreo
       is my skype if any wish it..
       the one in AZ lol
       I use to be of this home and have found Hunjer to be very
       peaceful. I Miss Arnvid who is my blood brother in RP and I do
       hope he is alright.
       #Post#: 1677--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I am leaving and want you to come with me
       By: Dwildor Date: August 11, 2014, 10:27 am
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       Thanks for the invite Disturbia, it would be really nice to know
       from your leader that this invitation is extended.
       I want my people to decide where they feel most comfortable
       going, but we are looking for Gor so it is good to know your
       home is book strong. Helps weed out some attitudes.
       So People, I suppose Hunjer would be a third option since it has
       been presented. All is up for discussion and nobody is being
       forced into anything. The one thing to keep in mind is that I do
       indeed plan to leave regardless of what option is selected. I
       hope you all see reason and understand that a ruderless
       existence is not healthy nor is it prosperous.
       #Post#: 1678--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I am leaving and want you to come with me
       By: Oreo Date: August 11, 2014, 10:39 am
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       Ill pass it on to him that you would like to hear it form him. I
       am not sure if he will sign up for the board or not, but will
       get it worked out.
       #Post#: 1679--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I am leaving and want you to come with me
       By: Red Date: August 11, 2014, 12:19 pm
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       I can not guarantee that you would like Laura, my home is always
       open to you should you choose to want to role play there.  I
       understand the wanting a room that has a leader that is present,
       but at the same time, I would wonder and ask isn't there anyone
       already here in your home that could and would step up as a
       leader, and continue to build this room as Arnvid has?   I mean
       look at Sulport, when Volstagg had real time issues TyRen
       stepped in to fill the shoes, so to speak.
       It just seems to me that you have a good home that works for
       you, so why move when you can continue to work at rebuilding it
       up, I'm almost sure the gor team would work with you on this
       issue, and then there is the chance that Arnvid will be back
       tomorrow (okay I'm the optimist here).
       Just my two cents, and again as I said Laura is open to any and
       all that wish to role play there.
       EL
       #Post#: 1681--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I am leaving and want you to come with me
       By: Chrysilla Date: August 11, 2014, 1:25 pm
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       As I have spoken to Both Krul and Lei about this change/move..
       I unnderstand your decission Dwildor..
       You were kind to me .. took me back when I had a derailing and
       no need to say that I would follow My Companion to the end of
       the world and back..
       it is time to make a fresh start..
       My choice would be to begin a new room.. this so we can have the
       control of controlling in our hand... our rules.. our dramafree
       zone...
       However I do hope that Arnvid will be back in GREAT health...
       Cause I still like the Man .... I do care for Him...
       #Post#: 1682--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I am leaving and want you to come with me
       By: devious Date: August 11, 2014, 1:29 pm
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       I will follow my Master where he goes.
       #Post#: 1683--------------------------------------------------
       Re: I am leaving and want you to come with me
       By: Dwildor Date: August 11, 2014, 2:00 pm
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       So I am taking the options to a simpler choice as of now.
       We are going to create the Isle of Skjern and build a new home
       with a fresh start. You are welcome if you wish to come and be
       Gorean in all things. It will not be a field trip to lala land
       where certain attitudes are allowed to go unchecked, but dealt
       with in a manner according to Gor.
       Krul has agreed to work with me as co-controller of the room so
       there should always be one of us able to deal with an issue as a
       team.
       we will hold Honor, Family and good role play in the highest of
       our Home ideology
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