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       #Post#: 2297--------------------------------------------------
       An interesting subject of thinking topic
       By: Syzthesis Date: April 24, 2023, 8:28 am
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       Recently, a topic in a group chat caught my interest and I
       personally felt it is a good topic to share.
       I shall name both persons as good friend A and B.
       Good friend A:
       If give up wearing amulets, how ar?
       Good friend B:
       Just continue to do dana.
       Good friend B further emphasised:
       Its only during we are in human realm we can make merit.
       I personally like the sharing of perspectives between friends,
       this is a good topic. But likewise, good friend B's perspective
       is a very good point.
       I just wanna share that being in human realm itself, truly allow
       us to do more merit deeds. If in animal realm, sometimes you
       will notice the animals in the wildlife also have compassion for
       other animals, that itself also garners merit.
       All in all, it is a good topic that I have learnt from this
       conversation talk.
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       Re: An interesting subject of thinking topic
       By: Upasakabeliever Date: July 16, 2023, 3:38 am
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       Amulets are just token of remembrance that may offer assistance
       in both mystic and psychological ways.
       Merits are demerits are the main players here in our lives.
       #Post#: 2426--------------------------------------------------
       Re: An interesting subject of thinking topic
       By: Ruesi Sam Date: October 3, 2023, 3:33 am
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       What is Merit? Virtue and Sin? Can you put merit in a sack and
       take it with you? Does merit get weighed by a judge in a post
       death court case where your good deeds and bad deeds are
       counted? Why did the universe create a cosmic court with yama as
       judge, which is designed like the courts humans on earth created
       billions of trillions of years after the Universe came into
       existence? Why do the hell worlds have giant frying pans when
       the frying pan is a human invention maximum 100,000 years old,
       bvut the universe had some in hell since beginningless time?
       Because none of that is true, it is imaginary, and the Buddha
       never taught these things, other humans did after he was gone
       and unable to stand up and say 'i never said that!'
       Yama and the court of death that judges you is a Brahman belief
       incorporated into Buddhism by unenlightened post Buddha's
       Lifetime humans. The Buddha did say something about causes of
       auspicious and inauspicious effects (what most people think of
       as 'Karma'... merit or sin, auspicious inauspicious, or
       skilful/unskilful. good and bad, evil or angelic).
       Karma is not a punishment for something you deserve. it is just
       cause and effect/Causality, like a running stream, the water is
       forced around the stone in the stream, but it takes the path of
       least resistance, and goes around it not through it, and the
       stone, remains steadfast and is not disturbed by the whirling
       events around it (the water), but is also forced to erode over
       millions of years, and its square shape will become a smaller
       rounded pebble at some point, and eventually dissolve into
       grains of sand, or perhaps be hit by a meteor and be turned into
       vitrified glass..
       Is it the karma of the sand to be vitrified by a meteor? What
       did the sand to wrong or right to become vitrified? Or is
       vitrification of sand a punishment or a blessing? You decide!
       Did the bad things that happened to you throughout your life
       become lessons that led you to where you are now?
       Who is your greatest teacher? Your friend? or your enemy?
       The Buddha said it doesn't matter how much 'merit' you make
       (perform acts of kindness and  generosity and compassion and
       avoid acts of thievery dishonesty and harmful unskilful deeds),
       you will never equal out the unskilful acts, for they will
       always outweigh our skilful ones. So making merit is good (tam
       bun) but in truth, only the path to enlightenment and attainment
       of stream entry and above/onwards is the safe haven.
       The belief in the transfer of merit after death is a concept
       found in various religious and cultural traditions, particularly
       in Buddhism and Hinduism, among others. However, it's important
       to note that the understanding and interpretation of this
       concept can vary widely among different belief systems.
       In Thai Buddhism, for example, there is a practice known as
       "transference of merit" or "dedication of merit." It involves
       individuals dedicating the positive karma or merit they have
       accumulated through virtuous actions, such as acts of generosity
       or meditation, to benefit others, including deceased loved ones.
       The idea is that by dedicating one's merit to others, especially
       those who have passed away, it may help alleviate their
       suffering in the afterlife or support their journey to a
       favorable rebirth. This assumed 'transfer of merit', is not
       necessarily viewed as a tangible or physical asset that is
       carried with an individual after death. Instead, it is a
       symbolic and spiritual gesture of goodwill and compassion. The
       belief is that the positive energy generated by virtuous actions
       can have a positive influence on the well-being of others, both
       in this life and in potential future existences.
       It would be wise in my belief, to recognize that beliefs about
       the afterlife, karma, and the transfer of merit are matters of
       faith and spirituality. They can vary widely among individuals
       and religious traditions. Some people find comfort and meaning
       in these beliefs, while others may have different perspectives
       on the nature of the afterlife and the role of merit. Anyway, in
       the end, whether one believes in the transfer of merit or not,
       the practice of engaging in virtuous actions and cultivating
       positive qualities like compassion and generosity is valued in
       many spiritual and ethical traditions as a means to lead a more
       meaningful and harmonious life, regardless of what may or may
       not happen after death.
       #Post#: 2733--------------------------------------------------
       Re: An interesting subject of thinking topic
       By: DarkMind Date: February 17, 2025, 11:15 am
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       Interesting. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
       My understanding of merit is that those beings (seen and unseen)
       hearing that you have done good deeds on their behalf will
       rejoice. This creates a positive mind state that can help
       increase their chances of a good future rebirth.
       #Post#: 2734--------------------------------------------------
       Re: An interesting subject of thinking topic
       By: Syzthesis Date: February 17, 2025, 11:42 am
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       [quote author=DarkMind link=topic=307.msg2733#msg2733
       date=1739812514]
       Interesting. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
       My understanding of merit is that those beings (seen and unseen)
       hearing that you have done good deeds on their behalf will
       rejoice. This creates a positive mind state that can help
       increase their chances of a good future rebirth.
       [/quote]
       Just think it in the 4 values - Metta, Karuna, Mudita, Upekha.
       Such act also constitutes a way of developing sympathetic joy
       (mudita) which - along with compassion, metta and equanimity.
       How they receive? They receive by being aware. For example; You
       remember them, You do dhana on their behalf, you help them to do
       dhana on their behalf, since they are no longer able to dhana in
       their form as they do not have a human form body. It's akin to
       you pour water on the soil where it got a seedling of a plant,
       then it grows. Yet if you pour the water on concrete, not the
       same thing result also not same, right? Use simple analogy to
       start finding out and understand it.
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