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Matt visiting
By: Moira Date: October 2, 2025, 4:04 am
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He is driving here tomorrow after work apparently and will
arrive around 7pm so I am sure he will need feeding :) MY fridge
is almost empty as is my freezer ( I do have lots of frozen
vegie type stuff ) as I have NO car ATM :))))))))))))))))) SO no
food :))))))))))))))
Maybe MY car will be fixed by lunch time and I can go shopping
.... otherwise it IS fish and chips !!!!
Must be bedtime now xxxxxx
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Re: Matt visiting
By: DarienJ Date: October 2, 2025, 4:17 pm
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Is Matt staying long or just for the weekend? Fish and chips is
the way to go, no cooking and little cleaning up to do [emoji4]
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Re: Matt visiting
By: Moira Date: October 3, 2025, 4:20 am
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I Put some chicken in the slow cooker OK as MAtt arrived at 3pm
!!!!
HELP it is now 10:10pm and he is doing his nut about mouse
droppings in the sofa in here where he was planning to sleep
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! CHAOS and he has only had 2 beers as
far as I Know !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He is now planning on breaking into the big house to sleep or
sleeping in his car !!!!! AND he is going back to the East
tomorrow !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO He is driving
back East so I took his car keys off him so now he is sleeping
on the floor here !!!!!!!!
I am off to bed as I have had enough ! I do have to document
this xxxxx
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Re: Matt visiting
By: DarienJ Date: October 3, 2025, 5:05 pm
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Oh dear, that didn't go well then!!!!!!!! It would have been
easy enough to quickly vacuum the mice dropping up, spray the
sofa and then make it up without making such a fuss!!!!!!
I am cross with Robert today as we were invited to Kylie and
Garry's place after golf to have pizza with them. Robert drank
way too much and couldn't walk to the car straight!!!!!! To say
I was angry and disgusted would be an understatement and I can't
even talk to him this morning.
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Re: Matt visiting
By: Moira Date: October 4, 2025, 4:17 am
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NO, in the case of Matt the short visit did not go well at all
sleep wise !!! BUT as you will have read, he is fine and safely
back in Hastings now in the garage where he sleeps ....!!! and
so I might sleep tonight !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Bloody males !!!!!!!!!!
As for your husband ........ been there, done that and got the
Tee shirt !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BUT I have to say that if Robert does
not do this often ..... give him a hard time so he knows and
then let it go..... for your own sake :) [emoji170]
This has been a while in John's case thank goodness ... used to
be a regular occurrence in the olden days ..................but
nothing since the episode when his UK mate Joe died :( Phew :)
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Re: Matt visiting
By: DarienJ Date: October 4, 2025, 4:01 pm
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This is the main reason that I hate to go to family do's etc as
Robert drinks too much at them and he can get nasty too at
times, never hits me or anything, just gets cross because he
knows how much I hate it and I am stupid enough to say
something. There is no need for it.
I am ok about it today, but he certainly knew where he stood
yesterday!!!!!!!!
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Re: Matt visiting
By: Moira Date: October 5, 2025, 3:53 am
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AH and I can understand that too ..... as it used to happen with
John in Engand, mainly with family get togethers or visits to
the local Pub !!!!!
Luckily no pub visits here, not been any for years actualleh
.... and no family gatherings lately ! SO he sits outside with
the radio and a couple of beers .... even when Corey comes to
visit and have a few beers. Not got any more drinking mates
!!!!!!!!!!!!
John always knew where I stood because I either told him
outright or shut my mouth and just totally ignored him ! Times
when I never cooked him any meals or washed his clothes or did
anything for him... just totally ignored him ... I got good at
it too :))))))))))
I went to Al Anon in Marton and they had a saying but I cannot
remember it !!!!!!!!! SO I will be awake half the night
wondering !!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Matt visiting
By: DarienJ Date: October 5, 2025, 3:51 pm
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There was talk on Friday night about the four of us going out
for lunch today, but I said no mainly because I do my sheets
today and of course Garry thought I could do them another day.
Why is it that my work is less important than theirs?????????? I
didn't answer and nothing has been said about it since and if it
comes up again when Robert gets home from golf this morning, I
will still say no.
I get tired of being belittled, so called 'jokingly' and
thinking that my life is not important because I don't get paid
for all the work I do.
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Re: Matt visiting
By: Moira Date: October 6, 2025, 4:11 am
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Ah so TODAY is Monday ............WASH day ????????????? PASS
!!!!!!!!!!!!
That idea is SO old fashioned that I do have to agree with Garry
etc and I Am sure we have discussed this before and I said the
same thing ..... Wash your sheets any day like I DO
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BUT it can be a good excuse IF you need one I suppose
:)))))))))))))))) [emoji170]
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Re: Matt visiting
By: DarienJ Date: October 6, 2025, 3:34 pm
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I need a certain day to the sheets, it's hard for me these days
to get it gone and I couldn't just do them on any old day, it
has to be once a week. I am not the only one who has this sort
of routine and I don't see a problem with it.
Robert and Garry have their golf day every Friday, God forbid if
I tried to persuade them to change their day!!!!!! So where is
the difference??
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