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Re: Marriage & Family
DIR By: patrick jane
Date: July 1, 2020, 9:45 am
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Re: Marriage & Family
DIR By: patrick jane
Date: August 7, 2020, 7:56 am
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Re: Marriage & Family
DIR By: patrick jane
Date: August 12, 2020, 10:08 am
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Re: Marriage & Family
DIR By: guest8
Date: August 12, 2020, 10:15 pm
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I thank the Lord each and many times in between for the blessing
He has shed on my family and this land we are on. I heard
something tonight in my researches that bring meaning to faith.
If you are worrying about what is happening, what is going to
happen then you using practical atheism simply because you don't
believe that GOD can deliver on His promises.
I also pray each day that if it be my last day, to please take
my soul into His loving arms.
Don't worrying, He is in control.
Blade
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Re: Marriage & Family
DIR By: patrick jane
Date: September 21, 2020, 9:07 pm
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Re: Marriage & Family
DIR By: patrick jane
Date: October 22, 2020, 6:52 am
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Re: Marriage & Family
DIR By: patrick jane
Date: October 25, 2020, 5:59 am
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Re: Marriage & Family
DIR By: guest116
Date: April 3, 2021, 11:48 pm
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Reposted at PJ hint
So I had this chance to apply a theory I had wanted to try. I
normally do not do counseling for married couples. It is just
not my area of expertise. A couple that I have known for about
6 years asked me if I had any suggestions on how they can get
their marriage back on track or at least start the
communications to do that. They went into details on what they
felt were issues that they felt were causing their problems.
It struck me that there was something under this that they were
suppressing.
So here was my solution for them to try.
Many of the local Churches have meditation Labyrinths located on
their property. These are used for many things. I, myself use
them to help me think through issues or to recenter. When I am
writing I use them to help fight through blocks. So I asked
them if they had ever walked a Labyrinth before. Neither had.
So I told them this is what I wanted them to do. Go to one of
the bigger ones. I gave them the locations. Once they get
there to get to the starting point. Face each other, say a
prayer together while facing each other and looking into each
other eyes. Then tell each other they love them. THen ladies
first as they start walking the maze patterned, she states
something that she has an issue with. He can not say a word,
can not argue or rebut. Then it's his turn. The same applies
to her. No rebuttal, just each stating the issues all the way
into the center circle. They have to get it all out the
negative. I suggested they adjust the pace so everything is out
of their system by the time they get to the center.
Once in the center, they were to face each other and hold hands
again. They were to thank each other for the honesty, say they
love each other again, then say the same prayer from the start.
Then start the journey out of the maze pattern. This time
though to tell each other all the good things, good memories,
and anything positive. He getting to start this time. Once
they got done again hold hands facing each other, say they love
each other then end with the Lord's prayer.
I told them to do all this early in the morning. Once done go
someplace and have a nice breakfast together. They can not
bring up anything said at the maze or discussion in any fashion
what was said. Talk about anything else. In fact not to say a
word on it until the evening so both of them have time to
quietly contemplate what was said by the other and reflect on
it. Only then should they have a discussion.
I was afraid this might not work but it was at least a shot at a
starting point.
That was ten days ago. They told me today Good Friday they had
done it this morning and followed through and they feel the
results were "Fantastic" as they both feel relief and
understanding and feel they can now work through things. The
best thing they said this separate from each other in separate
text messages. I hope it does work.
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Re: Marriage & Family
DIR By: guest8
Date: April 6, 2021, 10:43 pm
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> Reposted at PJ hint
>
> So I had this chance to apply a theory I had wanted to try. I
normally do not do counseling for married couples. It is just
not my area of expertise. A couple that I have known for about
6 years asked me if I had any suggestions on how they can get
their marriage back on track or at least start the
communications to do that. They went into details on what they
felt were issues that they felt were causing their problems.
It struck me that there was something under this that they were
suppressing.
>
> So here was my solution for them to try.
>
> Many of the local Churches have meditation Labyrinths located
on their property. These are used for many things. I, myself
use them to help me think through issues or to recenter. When I
am writing I use them to help fight through blocks. So I asked
them if they had ever walked a Labyrinth before. Neither had.
So I told them this is what I wanted them to do. Go to one of
the bigger ones. I gave them the locations. Once they get
there to get to the starting point. Face each other, say a
prayer together while facing each other and looking into each
other eyes. Then tell each other they love them. THen ladies
first as they start walking the maze patterned, she states
something that she has an issue with. He can not say a word,
can not argue or rebut. Then it's his turn. The same applies
to her. No rebuttal, just each stating the issues all the way
into the center circle. They have to get it all out the
negative. I suggested they adjust the pace so everything is out
of their system by the time they get to the center.
>
> Once in the center, they were to face each other and hold
hands again. They were to thank each other for the honesty, say
they love each other again, then say the same prayer from the
start. Then start the journey out of the maze pattern. This
time though to tell each other all the good things, good
memories, and anything positive. He getting to start this time.
Once they got done again hold hands facing each other, say
they love each other then end with the Lord's prayer.
>
> I told them to do all this early in the morning. Once done
go someplace and have a nice breakfast together. They can not
bring up anything said at the maze or discussion in any fashion
what was said. Talk about anything else. In fact not to say a
word on it until the evening so both of them have time to
quietly contemplate what was said by the other and reflect on
it. Only then should they have a discussion.
>
> I was afraid this might not work but it was at least a shot at
a starting point.
>
> That was ten days ago. They told me today Good Friday they
had done it this morning and followed through and they feel the
results were "Fantastic" as they both feel relief and
understanding and feel they can now work through things. The
best thing they said this separate from each other in separate
text messages. I hope it does work.
>
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sounds like if may just work..Pray it does.
Blade
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Re: Marriage & Family
DIR By: guest116
Date: April 7, 2021, 12:48 pm
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I do to and yes they are in my prayers. They hit a rough patch
and are search for a way through it. Between God, prayers, and
hopefully better ways to talk they will make it.
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