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       #Post#: 3307--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Solomon's World View
   DIR By: Olde Tymer
       Date: January 21, 2019, 8:45 am
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       ● Ecc 5:1 . . Be not overeager to go to the House of God:
       more acceptable is obedience than the offering of fools, for
       they know nothing [but] to do wrong.
       Old Testament Judaism was built around a fully functioning
       Aaronic priesthood whose duty was to collect sacrifices and
       offerings from the people. But the worshippers abused the system
       because they lived like the Devil during most of the year and
       tried to make up for it with sacrifices. To see how God feels
       about that kind of religious hypocrisy, just read the first
       chapter of Isaiah.
       In no uncertain terms, God angrily spurned his people's
       offerings-- their prayers, their holy days, their festivals and
       feast days, and yes even their sacred Sabbath observances
       because although they were very religious, they were, at the
       same time, a hard-hearted, stubborn pack of scofflaws.
       You can see the very same thing going on in Christianity. A
       number of pew-warmers live utterly worldly, carnal lives all
       year long and expect that church attendance on Easter Sunday
       will somehow make up for it. That day is the most heavily
       attended church day in Christendom. People who normally wouldn't
       step over the threshold of a church door all year long, will
       attend on Easter Sunday so they don't feel completely heathen.
       Easter service, to them, is some sort of redemption day, somehow
       wiping away a whole year's worth of secular impiety and is
       supposed to convince Jesus they truly love him after all.
       NOTE: Just for the fun of it some day, position yourself where
       you can watch the front of a church when it's let out Sunday
       morning and observe the number of Christians who J-walk back to
       their cars. (chuckle) You might be surprised.
       ● Ecc 5:2-3 . . Keep your mouth from being rash, and let
       not your throat be quick to bring forth speech before God. For
       God is in heaven and you are on earth; that is why your words
       should be few. Just as dreams come with much brooding, so does
       foolish utterance come with much speech.
       If you've really nothing to discuss with God in prayer, then
       skip it: say nothing; remembering that God is a king, and kings
       shouldn't be treated as if they're dumb enough to suffer fools
       and waste their time listening to filibusters and bombastic
       rhetoric.
       ● Ecc 5:4-6 . .When you make a vow to God, do not delay to
       fulfill it. For He has no pleasure in fools; what you vow,
       fulfill. It is better not to vow at all than to vow and not
       fulfill. Don't let your mouth bring you into disfavor, and don't
       plead before the messenger that it was an error, but fear God;
       else God may be angered by your talk and destroy your
       possessions.
       The "messenger" is translated from mal'ak (mal-awk') which is
       somewhat ambiguous. It can mean an angel, or a prophet, or a
       priest or a teacher.
       At Gen 48:16 it refers to God; but here it likely refers to the
       church and/or church manager to whom you made a pledge, e.g. a
       faith promise.
       A sacred vow is between you and God, not between you and your
       church. So don't be rash with your promises nor make excuses for
       reneging. A promise is a promise; and God will hold you to your
       vows even if you can't afford it. You just try to be lax in your
       payments with a shylock and see what happens. You risk fractured
       ribs by men who are very good at breaking things over people's
       heads. When the points are due, that's when they're due; not
       later. If shylocks are to be feared, then God needs to be feared
       even more.
       "A son honors his father, and a servant his master. If I am a
       father, where is the honor due me? If I am a master, where is
       the respect due me? says the Lord Almighty." (Mal 1:6)
       _
       #Post#: 3334--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Solomon's World View
   DIR By: Olde Tymer
       Date: January 22, 2019, 9:43 am
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       ● Ecc 5:7 . . For much dreaming leads to futility and to
       superfluous talk.
       God's people should be known for keeping their feet on the
       ground, and their head out of the clouds. Religion is not
       supposed to be in words. It's supposed to be in shoe leather, in
       your everyday life. It's supposed to be in honesty and
       integrity-- it's in few words, and it's in keeping your word.
       Flowery prayers, and showy vows and pledges don't please God
       near as much as just simply being a man of your word. You can't
       buy God off with churchianity nor can you fool Him with it into
       thinking you are somehow pious and above reproach when the truth
       is; you're not.
       ● Ecc 5:8 . . If you see in a province oppression of the
       poor and suppression of right and justice, don’t wonder at the
       fact; for one high official is protected by a higher one, and
       both of them by still higher ones.
       Existing alongside America's elected officials, is a shadow
       government called the bureaucracy. Bureaucrats are non-elected
       officials who are actually the ones conducting much of the
       government's business. High profile bureaucrats would be the
       President's cabinet. But many others operate completely
       invisible to the general public until they become implicated in
       a news-worthy scandal.
       Too many bureaucrats are looking out only for themselves; most
       especially their jobs. So they tend to make every effort to
       please their superiors; often to the detriment of the voting
       public's best interests. No one should be shocked at this. It's
       pretty normal because after all, human government is staffed by
       human beings.
       ● Ecc 5:9 . .The increase from the land is taken by all;
       the king himself profits from the fields.
       Government officials are sometimes said to be feeding at the
       federal trough. Like greedy swine, they gobble up a large
       percentage of the gross national product to pay their own wages,
       perks, and benefits; and to finance ear-marks and pork. But
       citizens benefit in many ways from taxes too. So the government
       is not the only one taking a piece of the country's wealth.
       ● Ecc 5:10 . . A lover of money never has his fill of
       money, nor a lover of wealth his fill of income. That too is
       futile.
       Money may not be the number one thing in life; but it's way
       ahead of whatever is number two. When Shia LaBeouf's character
       asked Josh Brolin's character-- in the movie: Wall Street/Money
       Never Sleeps --what his number is; viz: the number of dollars
       that would be enough for him to walk away from investment
       banking and retire; Brolin's character answered: More.
       People obsessed with money actually love and revere it; and make
       any and every sacrifice to get it. They stay up late, work long
       ridiculous hours, disconnect from their families, and even
       betray their friends' trust to get it. Their minds are filled
       with thoughts about money, their lives are controlled by getting
       it and guarding it; and while they have it: they feel a great
       sense of pride, achievement, security, and independence.
       The amount of money they possess pales in importance compared to
       their rabid desire to simply amass it. I've heard it said that
       success is the best revenge. There are too many people out there
       in the business world who need money simply to feel better about
       themselves, and to get one over on their rivals.
       ● Ecc 5:11a . . As his substance increases, so do those
       who consume it;
       The wealthy often find themselves hounded by foundations,
       causes, charities, and freeloading relatives and friends. MC
       Hammer, a very popular rapper in the 80's and 90's, was quite
       rich at one time but spent it all on not just himself, but on
       his entourage as well. Making money in a big way involves the
       employment of a staff; and those kinds of staffs aren't cheap.
       They all average six figures; not to mention their bonuses which
       commonly run up to seven.
       ● Ecc 5:11b . . what, then, does the success of its owner
       amount to but feasting his eyes?
       Past world heavyweight boxing champion Joe Louis was heard to
       say: I don't like money actually, but it quiets my nerves. Yes,
       money is good for feasting the eyes, and provides a certain
       sense of security. However, money is no guarantee your nerves
       will be calm, nor that your sleep will be sound; nor that your
       security is assured.
       _
       #Post#: 3361--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Solomon's World View
   DIR By: Olde Tymer
       Date: January 23, 2019, 10:05 am
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       ● Ecc 5:12 . . A [slaves'] sleep is sweet, whether he has
       much or little to eat; but the rich man's abundance doesn't let
       him sleep.
       When you have nothing, you don't worry too much about losing it.
       But when you have a lot, then you fear going broke; and along
       with riches comes eating gourmet foods which sometimes cause
       indigestion and acid reflux.
       I know a man who, as he got older, became concerned about dying
       before owning a really good watch. So, he took some money out of
       his home equity line and bought a Rolex Explorer II, a TagHeuer
       Chronograph, a Rolex Datejust, and an Omega Double Eagle
       Chronograph. All totaled, he shelled out roughly $20,000. He's
       very happy with the watches, but now worries all the time they
       might get lost, stolen, or damaged. He didn't have those kinds
       of worries when he owned timepieces no more expensive than a
       Casio G-shock.
       ● Ecc 5:13-14 . . Here is a grave evil I have observed
       under the sun: riches hoarded by their owner to his misfortune,
       in that those riches are lost in some unlucky venture; and if he
       begets a son, he has nothing in hand.
       That is so sad. The ENRON scandal brought to light the dangers
       of investing in a retirement system that is solely dependent
       upon just one company's prosperity. When the stock price of
       ENRON plummeted, the value of its employee retirement system
       plummeted too; and so steep was the collapse, that many of the
       energy giant's rank and file were left with virtually zero
       dollars in their retirement accounts.
       A veteran electrician with  PGE (Portland General Electric)
       related how his account was worth something like $348,000 before
       ENRON's value began to fall. He couldn't do anything about it
       because his account was frozen while the executives at ENRON
       were permitted to move their money to safety. By the time the
       PGE electrician's account was unfrozen, its value had dropped to
       $1,200.
       The sub-prime Wall Street disaster did the very same thing to a
       pretty good number of vulnerable retirement accounts. Though the
       Federal Reserve bailed out the big investment banks, it did
       nothing for the little banks nor for the innocent folks who were
       ruined by the collapse.
       ● Ecc 5:15 . . Another grave evil is this: He must depart
       just as he came. As he came out of his mother's womb, so must he
       depart at last, naked as he came. He can take nothing of his
       wealth to carry with him.
       I once heard a story about a very famous rich man who died. At
       the reading of his will, newspaper reporters were required to
       remain outside and not allowed to interview the heirs until
       later. When the reading was over, a reporter approached one of
       the lawyers and asked how much the old gentleman left. The
       lawyer replied: He left it all.
       Yes, the rich man couldn't take a single dime of his wealth into
       the next life. It all stayed here and he went into eternity
       completely broke.
       There is a story, in Luke 16:19-31, of a rich man who died and
       went to the fiery portion of Hades. In life he lived
       sumptuously, eating the best of foods and drinking the best of
       wines. But in Hades, the poor fellow doesn't even have so much
       as a glass of water.
       You know, restaurants put glasses of water on our tables as a
       matter of courtesy. The water is free. It's on the house. You
       don't need to be wealthy to merit a glass of water in a
       restaurant. But in the fiery portion of Hades, nobody is given
       any courtesy whatsoever no matter how prominent they may have
       been in life.
       ● Ecc 5:16 . . So what is the good of his toiling for the
       wind?
       It isn't intrinsically evil to save and invest. After all,
       Solomon wrote in Proverbs that it's wise to look ahead, and
       parents are wise who lay something aside for their children. But
       the people who hoard, and who amass wealth simply for the sake
       of possessing it for themselves, are laboring for the wind. They
       can't possibly keep it into the next life, so the best thing for
       them to do is share it while they are here where it will do the
       world some good. It's okay to keep enough for yourself for now
       and for the future, but when there's a ridiculous surplus, find
       a way to disperse it. Otherwise, your hoarding serves no useful
       purpose, and at death your wealth is surrendered anyway.
       _
       #Post#: 3392--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Solomon's World View
   DIR By: Olde Tymer
       Date: January 24, 2019, 11:29 am
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       ● Ecc 5:17 . . Besides, all his days he eats in darkness,
       with much vexation and grief and anger.
       Wealthy people don't usually eat in the dark. Many have very
       nice chandeliers over the table. But in their hearts often lurk
       evil thoughts, bad memories, regrets, grievances, resentments,
       disputes, hard feelings, and a bad conscience. They're really no
       different than the common man in that arena. Like they say: So
       and so puts his pants on one leg at a time just like everyone
       else.
       ● Ecc 5:18 . . Only this, I have found, is a real good:
       that one should eat and drink and get pleasure with all the
       gains he makes under the sun, during the numbered days of life
       that God has given him; for that is his portion.
       Solomon mentions death so often that you might think he was
       obsessed with it. But really, he wasn't. His philosophy of life
       was such that he took death into consideration so that his days
       weren't spent as if they were infinite and he expected to live
       forever. A balanced philosophy of life has to include the very
       real possibility of imminent death to keep things in proper
       perspective.
       "Let the brother of low degree rejoice in that he is exalted:
       but the rich, in that he is made low: because as the flower of
       the grass he shall pass away. For the sun is no sooner risen
       with a burning heat, but it withereth the grass, and the flower
       thereof falleth, and the grace of the fashion of it perisheth:
       so also shall the rich man fade away in his ways." (Jas 1:9-11)
       "Come now, you who say; Today or tomorrow we shall go into such
       and such a town, spend a year there doing business, and make a
       profit-- you have no idea what your life will be like tomorrow.
       You are a puff of smoke that appears briefly and then
       disappears." (Jas 4:13-14)
       "For all flesh is as grass, and all the glory of man as the
       flower of grass. The grass withereth, and the flower thereof
       falleth away" (1Pet 1:24)
       "A voice rings out; Proclaim! Another asks; What shall I
       proclaim? All flesh is grass, all its goodness like flowers of
       the field: Grass withers, flowers fade when the breath of the
       Lord blows on them. Indeed, man is but grass: Grass withers,
       flowers fade" (Isa 40:6-8
       Man is but perishable fruit like peaches, pears, strawberries,
       cantaloupe, avocado, and oranges; no amount of refrigeration
       will keep him fresh. Regardless of the amount of rest, fresh
       air, good diet, and exercise; man begins to wither right around
       the age of 32 or 34.
       Youngster's can't picture their expiration date as three brief
       decades: to them, 32 years seems long and way out in the
       distance. Hence the withering process often sneaks up and takes
       them by surprise like starting a frog off in cool water and
       slowly bringing it up to a boil. Of a sudden, one day it swats
       them in the face like a rolled up newspaper that they're "old
       school" replaced by a young, hip generation wherein they've been
       accustomed to thinking all along was themselves.
       The withering process, once it starts, is relentless. Like a
       Terminator: it can't be bargained with, it can't be reasoned
       with, it doesn't feel pity or remorse or fear, and it absolutely
       will not stop-- ever! --until you are dead. Once the withering
       process sets in, from that moment on, man is shackled to a
       living death
       ● Ecc 5:19-20 . . Also, whenever a man is given riches and
       property by God, and is also permitted by Him to enjoy them and
       to take his portion and get pleasure for his gains-- that is a
       gift of God. For [such a man] will not brood much over the days
       of his life, because God keeps him busy enjoying himself.
       Within the context of the book of Ecclesiastes, a "gift of God"
       should never be taken literally. It's just a colloquialism, like
       the common term "act of God" used to label the cause of natural
       calamities like earthquakes, floods, storms, miscarriages, and
       stuff like that.
       I'm in my retirement years, and one of the things I avoid is
       keeping too busy because I don't want the final years of my life
       to pass quickly. They'll pass soon enough; but when you keep
       busy, time really has a way of flying. On the flip side is one's
       mental health. Keeping busy does have a way of preventing people
       from doing too much introspection and reminiscence thereby
       developing a chronic case of the blues. One's mind can atrophy
       too if they never do anything to exercise their intelligence. So
       I try to strike a balance: I keep somewhat physically busy, and
       I keep somewhat mentally busy too; while avoiding excess in
       either area.
       _
       #Post#: 3418--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Solomon's World View
   DIR By: Olde Tymer
       Date: January 25, 2019, 9:41 am
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       ● Ecc 6:1-2a . .There is an evil I have observed under the
       sun, and a grave one it is for man: that God sometimes grants a
       man riches, property, and wealth, so that he does not want for
       anything his appetite may crave,
       Here we go with that "gift of God" thing again; but these are
       typically a genre of gifts that Solomon observes "under the sun"
       rather than in the sphere of true providence. Just because
       somebody is rich is no indication their prosperity was
       engineered by God. Even career criminals, Wall Street
       barracudas, predatory lenders, and corrupt politicians are often
       rich; no thanks to God. Some feel the Kennedy clan is blessed,
       yet they are very well off due to grandpa Joe's lack of
       scruples.
       ● Ecc 6:2b . . but God does not permit him to enjoy it;
       instead, a stranger will enjoy it. That is futility and a
       grievous ill.
       That is the classic "the Lord giveth, and the Lord taketh away;
       blessed be the name of the Lord" attitude. Calling any act of
       God "futility and a grievous ill" would normally be considered
       accusing God of sin, except that in this case, Solomon doesn't
       really mean it that way. To an intellectual, the concept of God
       is merely academic; and an "act of God" is really no more
       literal than pie in the sky or the man in the moon.
       A common example of this "evil" about which Solomon spoke is
       someone who worked hard all their life, saved and invested
       wisely, and then one day WHAM, during a routine physical exam,
       their doctor shocks them with the life-changing news they have
       on-set Alzheimer's. Guess where that person's savings and
       investments will end up now. Yes, towards medical attention and
       long term care. The health care system, and it's medical
       professionals, will make a big dent in their life savings.
       ● Ecc 6:3-6 . . Even if a man should beget a hundred
       children and live many years-- no matter how many the days of
       his years may come to, if his gullet is not sated through his
       wealth, I say: the stillbirth, though it was not even accorded a
       burial, is more fortunate than he. Though it comes into futility
       and departs into darkness, and its very name is covered with
       darkness, though it has never seen or experienced the sun, it is
       better off than he-- yes, even if the other lived a thousand
       years twice over but never had his fill of enjoyment! For are
       not both of them bound for the same place?
       One advantage a stillborn child enjoys over and above the living
       is that although it never had a chance to live; it doesn't know
       what it missed either. In its case, ignorance is truly bliss.
       The person who had the means and the wherewithal to enjoy life,
       but failed to take advantage of it before they died, will suffer
       unspeakable mental anguish throughout eternity for missing their
       chance to enjoy life before it was too late. In that respect,
       the miscarried child is much better off because it has more
       peace of mind than others even though it never owned anything;
       no, not even so much as a name to call its own.
       I knew an older man once who owned a very expensive wrist watch
       that he reserved for special occasions. Well; that is short
       sighted if you ask me' He should wear that nice watch whenever
       he gets the chance because life is so uncertain. People should
       enjoy their nice things while they can rather than wait till
       they're at the point of death. Life is not a do-over. You've got
       live it as you live it: not wait till a more opportune moment;
       which, as sometimes happens, quite possibly may never come.
       Carpe Diem: seize the day. People who put off living life to its
       fullest till later often find out it's too late to do so.
       ● Ecc 6:7-8 . . All of man’s earning is for the sake of
       his mouth, yet his gullet is not sated. What advantage then has
       the wise man over the fool, what advantage has the pauper who
       knows how to get on in life?
       Food and water are two things in life that, like sleep, cannot
       be taken just once because once is not enough. You have to eat
       again, you have to drink water again, and you have to sleep
       again. That is a law of life for both the stupid and the
       intelligent, for both the rich and the poor, for both the female
       gender and for the male gender. No one is exempt from that law--
       all are equal in those respects-- except for the reticent 17
       year-old Twilight vampire Edward Cullen of whom it's said never
       needs sleep.
       ● Ecc 6:9 . .What the eyes see is better than what the
       soul desires. This too is futility and a striving after wind.
       Sometimes I think the most content people are the blind because
       they go shopping with their heads instead of their eyes. People
       invariably buy things that are far more expensive than what they
       could get by with if they had to.
       This same weakness of the eyes will compel a boy to marry a
       beautiful girl who is totally wrong for him. The Creator made
       women to be a man's very best friend first, his lover second,
       and the mother of his children third. But some men just can't
       get past a girl's looks; and as all women know, when it comes to
       love; men use their eyes much better than they use their heads.
       They often pick a wife without thinking because looks mean
       almost everything to the average man; and a woman's personality
       is only secondary, if it's taken into consideration at all.
       Women, as a rule, focus on the aspects of intimacy and
       relationship; but men, as a rule, focus on the physical aspect.
       One of Billy Crystal's lines from City Slicker says it all:
       "Women have to be in the mood, while men just need a place."
       Take a look around the magazine racks in Barnes & Noble some
       time. The regular racks contain lots of magazines with girly
       covers; and inside them are lots of girly photographs; while
       over in another aisle away from the racks, are shelves
       displaying the romance novels. Most guys don't care for romance
       novels; those are for the women; because romance novels are to
       women what girly pictures are to men; just in a different way.
       Photographs stimulate men through their eyes, while novels
       stimulate women through their feelings; which easily explains
       why some men would rather walk the neighbor's dog than sit
       through a chick flick with their wives and girlfriends.
       _
       #Post#: 3473--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Solomon's World View
   DIR By: Olde Tymer
       Date: January 27, 2019, 12:00 pm
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       ● Ecc 6:10 . .Whatever happens, it was designated long ago
       and it was known that it would happen; as for man, he cannot
       contend with what is stronger than he.
       I guess you could call that attitude fatalism.
       Some things really are predestined and often we just have to
       face the facts; e.g. old age and death are two of life's
       unpleasant realities. Everyone is stuck with debilitation and
       there's no use in fighting it. Menopause is another
       chipped-in-stone fact of life that is just as real as the air we
       breathe all around us. If couples aren't careful, and let too
       much time slip by, menopause will steal away their chances for a
       baby. And on top of that, the older a woman gets, the more her
       eggs age and become less viable than when she was young. The
       same problem exists for men, just in a different way. Men aren’t
       born with all their sperm cells. Fresh ones are manufactured by
       their bodies all the time. However, those fresh cells are the
       cells of an aging man. So if a man waits to have children when
       he's old, his chances of producing a child with birth defects
       increase.
       Some people enjoy toying with death; and go hiking in the
       wilderness all alone and/or jump off high places with a bungee
       cord. Some say people like that have a death wish. No, what they
       really have is a wish to flirt with death and live to tell about
       it. Their attitude is: If you aren't walking on the edge; then
       you're taking up room.
       Personally, I don't want to die like a fool. People who tempt
       fate by participating in extreme sports are just asking to be
       dead and/or crippled for life before their next meal-- and then
       what?
       ● Ecc 6:11-12 . . Often, much talk means much futility.
       How does it benefit a man? Who can possibly know what is best
       for a man to do in life-- the few days of his fleeting life? For
       who can tell him what the future holds for him under the sun?
       Solomon's comment pertains to a man's time "under the sun"
       rather than after his death.
       They say for every action there's a reaction; and that's
       generally true. But who can really predict the repercussions of
       their decisions? In other words: when a butterfly flaps its
       wings in England, does it put in motion other acts of nature
       that eventuate in a typhoon in Samoa?
       Life isn't like a chess game where the masters can see twelve
       moves ahead. No, life is oftentimes a gamble. A young fellow
       contemplating the risks and responsibilities of marriage once
       lamented to me how chancy it is to get married in these days
       with the world in such turmoil and the economy uncertain. But I
       said to him: Life goes on.
       My friend realized of course that life does go on even under the
       extreme threats of nuclear war, terrorism, air and water
       pollution, drug cartels, road rage, brown-outs and water
       shortages, insane oil prices, acid rain, crime, prejudice,
       drive-by shootings, global warming, unemployment, economic
       collapse, and reactor melt-downs. People do manage to somehow
       cope and keep going. Well, not long after that, he married his
       best girl; who proved to be just the right one for him too. His
       pretty bride made him forget all about the dangers of lay-offs,
       spiraling medical costs, and mortgage debt. My young friend
       never felt better in his life. Carpe Diem.
       _
       #Post#: 3498--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Solomon's World View
   DIR By: Olde Tymer
       Date: January 28, 2019, 7:21 am
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       ● Ecc 7:1a . . A good name is better than fragrant oil,
       A companion to that saying might be a proverb also authored by
       Solomon.
       "Like a gold ring in the snout of a pig is a beautiful woman
       bereft of sense." (Prv 11:22)
       Cosmetics, fashions, jewelry, hair, manicures, wonder bras,
       pantyhose, killer curves, and/or Spanks and scents can't make up
       for a bad name. No matter how dolled up, or shined up, nor how
       good a person smells; if they are a pig, they will continue to
       act like a pig. Better to be a plain Jane with a sweet
       personality than a super model who affects everyone around her
       with a witchy attitude.
       ● Ecc 7:1b-2 . . and the day of death than the day of
       birth. It is better to go to a house of mourning than to a house
       of feasting; for that is the end of every man, and a living one
       should take it to heart.
       Nobody under the age of twenty-one is ever going to take that
       one seriously. Birthday parties and beer busts are far more fun
       than funerals; although as I get older, I tend to dread my
       birthdays more and more. When I was young, birthdays were fun,
       and getting older was exciting. But aging is not so fun anymore.
       Age is turning me into an ogre, and I can't stand the sight of
       myself in a mirror; especially one of those large full-length
       bathroom mirrors they invariably install in motel rooms.
       But a funeral can really make you aware of your own mortality
       in a very special way. My wife's mother died in 2005, my own
       mother one year later as well as a good friend at work; and my
       favorite nephew dropped dead to the floor in 2015. All those
       passings disturbed me because I realized the grim reaper had
       started picking us off one by one, and it's only a matter of
       time now before my own number comes up.
       ● Ecc 7:3-4 . .Vexation is better than revelry; for though
       the face be sad, the heart may be glad. Wise men are drawn to a
       house of mourning, and fools to a house of merrymaking.
       Those kinds of "wise men" are well known as party poopers and
       wet blankets. While it's true that revelry can't make a person
       truly happy on the inside, it would still seem a much better
       choice than one's mind dwelling upon Death. You know; it's only
       natural that Solomon would believe that mourning is better than
       revelry because he was a gloom caster to begin with; and his
       nature to shun merriment. (Ecc 2:1-2)
       Solomon didn't even know how to have fun. The problem is; he was
       just too smart for his own good; so smart in fact that all his
       knowledge and intellect clouded the man's spirit and prevented
       him from having any fun at all. (Ecc 1:16-18)
       Solomon really needed to get out and paint the town once in a
       while; see a good movie, ride a pony, go to Las Vegas, stroll
       the beach, take in a Broadway play, roll the dice, joust a
       windmill, drop a coin in a wishing well, go boating, let his
       hair down, play a video game, maybe even get plastered
       sometime-- anything but sit around thinking about old age and
       death. No wonder the poor man was so negative! In the movie
       Titanic, Leonardo DiCaprio convinces Kate Winslet that there is
       more to life than being rich. He suggests she learn to ride a
       horse like a man and learn to spit like a man. Sure: why not
       take off the Spanx, lose the Silkies panty hose and Jimmy Choo
       heels, and try something silly like skipping a stone across a
       pond?
       I once heard Billy Graham say: The smallest package in the world
       is a man all wrapped up in himself. Well . . amen to that! Billy
       was so right. And I would add that the most unimportant man in
       the world is one who is totally self-absorbed. Some people
       really need to get out and do a little mixing and have a good
       time once in a while: break the monotony, do something stupid,
       get out of their rut; live a little.
       But Solomon just couldn't do it. There are some people not only
       fun-challenged, but they can't permit themselves to indulge in
       fun. It's like a mental block-- a hang-up. They're afflicted
       with fun-impotence. They feel guilty about having fun, they
       scorn fun, and look down upon themselves for letting any into
       their lives.
       _
       #Post#: 3535--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Solomon's World View
   DIR By: Olde Tymer
       Date: January 29, 2019, 8:19 am
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       ● Ecc 7:5-6 . . It is better to listen to a wise man's
       critique than to listen to the praise of fools. For the levity
       of the fool is like the crackling of nettles under a kettle; for
       that too is transitory.
       The "praise of fools" is from the Hebrew word shiyr (sheer)
       which means: a song; singing; viz: a lullaby. I guess you could
       liken a fool's praise to the chirping of a bird-- tweet, tweet,
       tweet. Birds make sweet sounds; actually very soothing and
       entertaining at times, but nonetheless, they only serve to help
       us escape reality-- they don't tell the hearer very much truth
       about himself.
       Nettles make very poor firewood. They burn very brightly, go up
       with a woosh almost as soon as they're thrown into a fire; but
       produce very little heat and soon go out. Oak and Beech are far
       better. Those sturdy woods burn slowly and quietly, make good
       coals, and produce lots of usable heat for a long time. The
       praise of fools is like birds twittering and nettles burning:
       noisy, momentarily soothing, a brief caress with no long-lasting
       usefulness; while a wise man's critique may not be so cheering,
       but can result in life-changing improvements.
       ● Ecc 7:7 . . Unjust gain robs the wise man of reason and
       destroys the prudence of the cautious.
       The praise of fools is typically unmerited, and often falls in
       the category of flattery; which, if a wise man takes seriously,
       he's just downright stupid no matter what his IQ.
       The word for "fool" is from keciyl (kes-eel') which means: fat,
       i.e. (figuratively) stupid or silly. I guess that means some
       people are fat-heads. Roget's Thesaurus synonyms for fat-headed
       are: dull, asinine, and thick-witted-- in other words: a
       numbskull. Those are not attributes you need to see in a person
       who is patting you on the back and telling you how wonderful you
       are and how good a job you did. You certainly would not want to
       take a fat-head's praise too seriously because to see yourself
       through the eyes of a fat-head is to accept a false impression
       of yourself; and that could prove to be very self-destructive in
       the long run.
       ● Ecc 7:8-9 . .The end of a matter is better than the
       beginning of it. Better a patient spirit than a haughty spirit.
       Don't let your spirit be quickly vexed, for vexation abides in
       the breasts of fat-heads.
       Not all matters are pleasant matters. Some are bitter. Those
       matters are best not taken up at all; and quickly ended if they
       begin.
       To start a quarrel is to open a sluice; before a dispute flares
       up, drop it." (Prv 17:14)
       Parenting is one arena where it doesn't pay to be a fat-head.
       It's very important to pick your fights with care, rather than
       simply react. It is not a good idea to flare up and quarrel with
       your children over every little thing. Let little things slide;
       and only make a fuss over things that really make a difference
       in the long haul.
       "Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be
       discouraged." (Col 3:21)
       One of the most dysfunctional families I've ever seen is the
       fictional one portrayed on the HBO series Sopranos.
       AJ Soprano's dad Tony is a mob boss whose parenting style
       mirrors his criminal management practices; which is that of a
       despotic, bullying sociopath. Tony constantly oppresses his son
       AJ with thoughtless remarks, manhandling, unfairness, profanity,
       purple epithets, sarcasm, ugly criticism, bickering, demeaning
       humor, confrontations, sneering, scorn, relentless ridicule,
       intimidation, shouting, rage, and threats.
       AJ rarely, if ever, is given a word of sympathy or
       encouragement. Typically, everything he does is wrong and his
       father impossible to please. Subsequently; AJ feels unwelcome in
       his own home-- a person of little consequence whose thoughts and
       feelings neither matter nor count. His home's living hell turns
       AJ into not only a loser, but also an emotional train wreck; and
       then his dad ends up asking the inevitable question eventually
       asked by every abusive parent: Where did I go wrong? Duh.
       _
       #Post#: 3559--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Solomon's World View
   DIR By: Olde Tymer
       Date: January 30, 2019, 8:56 am
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       ● Ecc 7:10 . . Don't say; How has it happened that former
       times were better than these? For it is not wise of you to ask
       that question.
       The problem with the good old days is that we often conveniently
       forget the bad parts and sometimes invent good parts to take
       their place; viz: the good old days are often a combination of
       poor memory and a good imagination.
       Lyrics in Carly Simon's song Anticipation say: "I tell tomorrow,
       these are the good old days". Get her point? You are living in
       some good old days right now, this very moment; and in the
       future you'll look back on them with the same wistful fondness
       that you are now looking back on earlier good old days. Carly's
       song was released on an album in 1972, some 40 years ago as of
       2012. Was she right? Were those days good old days for her?
       Sometimes there's no denying the good old days really were
       better than our present lot in life. People with serious
       illnesses and handicaps were certainly better off before those
       problems degraded their quality of life. I think a young girl
       with Herpes and/or an unwanted pregnancy would agree that things
       were better before.
       Myself, I would have been dead with appendicitis as a teen-ager
       were it not for modern medicine. And yet again in my 40's with a
       kidney stone. And yet again in my fifties with Grave's Disease
       (hyperactive thyroid). I think anyone would agree Americans are
       far better off today economically than the 1930's. So not all
       the good old days were good. Some of those good old days would
       have been fatal for many of us-- not only in health, but also in
       hard labor and low pay.
       ● Ecc 7:11-12 . .Wisdom is as good as a patrimony, and
       even better, for those who behold the sun. For to be in the
       shelter of wisdom is to be also in the shelter of money, and the
       advantage of intelligence is that wisdom preserves the life of
       him who possesses it.
       Solomon's comment is for those who "behold the sun" as opposed
       to those who behold the face of God.
       Wisdom isn't just an accumulation of information like a journal
       or an encyclopedia. Wisdom is a combination of knowledge and
       understanding gained through experience. That's why so many
       young people are air-heads. Although they're better educated;
       they just haven't lived long enough to really know the score.
       But youth isn't necessarily an indicator that somebody hasn't
       got any sense. If young people are fortunate enough to have the
       benefit of a mentor, like say a savvy parent or a connection in
       the Big Brother program of their town, then they have on tap the
       wisdom of an older person who knows many ins and outs of life.
       However, too many young people are vain, conceited, and
       arrogant, and tend to have the attitude of a know-it-all. For
       them, a mentor serves no purpose because those kinds of young
       people are of the sort who want to find out everything for
       themselves, rather than be instructed.
       Wisdom is a far better inheritance for a young person than money
       and property. Wisdom will enable a wise youth to get the money
       and property later. But no amount of money will enable a dunce
       to attain wisdom.
       "What good is money in the hand of a fool to purchase wisdom,
       when he has no mind?" (Prv 17:16)
       Good sense is far more important than money. A young co-worker
       of mine, who had been out of work for quite a while, took his
       very first paycheck to a sound shop and spent the entire thing
       on a $700 stereo system for his car. The car was an old clunker
       and the stereo was actually worth more than the car. Now there
       was a boy who seriously needed some counseling.
       "There is desirable treasure, and oil in the dwelling of the
       wise, but a foolish man squanders it." (Prv 21:20)
       ● Ecc 7:13-14 . . Consider the work of God; for who can
       make straight what He has made crooked? In the day of prosperity
       be joyful, but in the day of adversity consider: surely God has
       appointed the one as well as the other, so that man can find out
       nothing that will come after him.
       Solomon's references to a God are mostly rhetorical in the book
       of Ecclesiastes. When he says "consider the work of God" I
       suspect he's just referring to the natural order of things under
       the sun.
       The Scottish poet Robert Burns noticed that life sometimes
       throws a curve ball at you in spite of your best precautions.
       Fate often casts its long shadow when human beings set about
       planning their lives.
       Burns was out one day plowing in the field and uprooted a
       mouse's underground nest who was all set for the oncoming
       winter. The mouse had picked a fallow field as the site for its
       winter retreat thinking it would be safe and snug; unmolested
       during the cold. But it didn't (or maybe we should say it
       couldn't) know the workings of powers higher than itself-- in
       this case, human beings and their farm machinery.
       But, mousie, thou art no thy lane
       In proving foresight may be vain:
       The best laid schemes o' mice an' men [Oft go awry]
       An' lea'e us nought but grief an' pain for promis'd joy.
       Take for example Job (Job 1:1-3). He was all set to enjoy
       retirement when of a sudden, without the slightest warning, his
       world fell apart even though he was the most righteous man of
       his day and deserved only the best of luck rather than bad. But
       completely unknown to him were higher powers-- God and the
       spirit world --in a contest of loyalties; with 'ol Job right
       smack in the middle of their contentions. Consequently; he lost
       everything-- his family, save for his (un)loving wife, his
       livestock, all his houses; and his health. In very little time,
       Job went from wealthy retiree to disabled pauper.
       Job surely knew he didn't deserve the bad luck that came his
       way. But like Robert Burns said: The best laid plans of mice and
       men oft go awry. Why? Because as Solomon indicated; you can
       neither predict nor fathom the ambitions of powers and
       circumstances beyond your control. The spirit world is a higher
       power than Man, just as Man is a higher power than mice.
       However, as mice cannot control the ways of Man, neither can Man
       control the ways of the spirits. Therefore; both men and mice
       are subject to the whims of powers beyond their control so that
       neither one is superior to the other in that respect.
       It's not uncommon to see property owners forced out and/or
       displaced because of Eminent Domain; the power of a state,
       provincial, or national government to take private property for
       public and/or economic use. So then, like the mousie in Burns'
       poem; your land is never really your land. Higher powers are at
       liberty to condemn your property and take it away from you at
       will for what they inevitably categorize as the so-called
       "greater good".
       _
       #Post#: 3587--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Solomon's World View
   DIR By: Olde Tymer
       Date: January 31, 2019, 12:40 pm
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       ● Ecc 7:15-16 . . In my own brief span of life, I have
       seen both these things: sometimes a good man perishes in spite
       of his goodness, and sometimes a wicked one endures in spite of
       his wickedness. So don't overdo goodness and don't act the wise
       man to excess, or you may be dumfounded.
       Some ultra ascetic types are obsessed with self denial-- don't
       do this, don't do that, don't go here, don't go there, don't
       look at this, don't look at that. I once knew an ascetic type
       who actually felt guilty simply by walking through the door of a
       Blockbuster video store; and was so offended by young people's
       music that he made his teen-age son listen to his boom box
       outside; even in inclement weather.
       Dr. Laura (who's normally pretty level-headed) says that any
       parent that would take their child to a mall that has a
       Victoria's Secret store is a bad parent. That's asceticism (not
       to mention bigotry). Well; asceticism can guarantee no one long
       life nor does it necessarily make one a better person.
       Asceticism can, in fact, result in a superiority complex and,
       maybe even neurosis.
       It would seem that the best way to enjoy) a long life, as
       opposed to merely existing, is by sensible practices in diet and
       health. But those things, as sensible as good diet and healthy
       habits may be, won't guarantee good health and a long life. I
       once worked in a family-owned boatyard in San Diego run by a man
       and his three brothers, and his two sons. One of the sons was a
       model citizen and the picture of health. He was married and had
       a little girl, didn't run with a bad crowd, didn't smoke or
       drink, didn't stay out late, didn't eat fatty foods or sweets,
       jogged regularly, attended church every Sunday and played piano
       for the choir, and he was young; barely twenty-six years old.
       Well, one day he complained of stomach pains and upon
       examination there was found in his abdomen a cancerous growth as
       big as a child's nerf football. He underwent surgery, lost a
       testicle, suffered through chemo-therapy, and last I knew, was
       doing okay. The cancer was in remission but they had to keep an
       eye on him all the time.
       In contrast, the vaudeville, TV, and movie star George Burns
       smoked a cigar every day of his life until he died at age 100.
       Go figure.
       You know, life is short. If us "good" people deny ourselves
       every little pleasure, one day we'll regret it, especially if
       our own life ends too soon and those we consider wicked live
       full, prosperous lives long after we ourselves are passed away.
       ● Ecc 7:17-18 . . . On the other hand, don't be too wicked
       either-- don't be a fool! Why should you die before your time?
       So try to walk a middle course-- but those who fear God will
       succeed either way.
       The recommendation in that passage is to do everything in
       moderation. That's the key. Excess is what ruins people-- too
       much tobacco, too much coffee, too much gambling, too much
       education, too much ignorance, too much quarreling, too much
       sugar and fatty foods, too much alcohol, too much work, too much
       play and even too much religion. Too much of anything is bad;
       even too much recreation. Everyone knows that, but no one takes
       it to heart. Some abstain from everything thinking to make
       themselves ultra pious. But piety is not found in excessive
       self-denial. After all, God created all things for Man to enjoy,
       rather than to abstain from. (1Tim 6:17)
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